What should I do if my sweet relationship is strongly opposed by the woman s parents? Note: No money

Choose to plead strongly with her parents, show your determination, sincerity, and confidence to her family.

Stick to the end, parents are parents after all, and they don't understand.

Remember to adopt it.

Persistence is victory! You have to prove to your parents that you love each other very much!

If you care about this relationship and stick to it, real happiness has nothing to do with appearance, height, or diploma. If you feel that two people are together just to be able to match yourself, do you think you will be happy in the future? Moreover, you have been with her for half a year now, how she is a person, how much should you know about her, right? ?

You don't have the consciousness to go down with that person now, you are shaking and struggling, which means that you don't have deep feelings for that person! This kind of thing is not something that others can help you with, it depends on your own awareness of the matter.

You love her very much, if you don't want her, you can discuss it with your parents, and use your actions to slowly influence your parents, it is difficult to be happy without family blessing love, second, you have only been together for half a year, and the time is not long, look at it again, parents are from the past, you can see it clearly, this society, it still makes sense to be the right person.

Treat it right. The so-called clean officials are difficult to decide family affairs, and only by calming down and analyzing why their parents oppose it can the problem be difficult to solve, and just complaining is useless.

Parents, that's right. Those who have come here will know a little more. But if you don't want to obey your parents, you can do it on your own.

If you live with your parents in the future, you still have to find another girl. After all, are you young?

Actually, feelings, two words, there are only two people! If you understand this, you can't do it!

Give your parents some time, they will agree when they see your firm feelings, but when the time comes, then sacrifice your feelings, it is better not to have a marriage without the blessing of your parents, can you guarantee that you will be happy after marriage? If your boyfriend doesn't love you at that time, can you complain to your parents? They even complain that you didn't listen to persuasion at the beginning, and if you don't want to give up, you will use happiness to prove that your choice is correct. Parents will also be happy for your choice.

I won't go to your house, so consider changing my boyfriend.

Parents won't hurt you, the eyes of the elderly are very accurate in seeing people or things.

Then you should work hard to fight for it, love is originally very sweet, you can say a few more good words in front of your parents, express your love, in fact, I think that as long as the two are like-minded, no matter the best people can do it, use your sincerity to impress your parents, I believe that they will be influenced after a long time. I wish you success in your love.

Don't rush to get married yet.

You're just dating right now, and you don't know each other well enough, do you know the good things about your boyfriend? You can talk to your parents about some things about him, such as a sense of responsibility and the like (of course, it is practical) to do ideological work slowly, so that your parents can slowly change their opinion of him, these things are not urgent, this is a long-term battle. What your parents said is true.

Hurry up and divide the best way.

Not so attached yet.

Otherwise, although you don't want to accept this fact, let it go.

We're too.,Our relationship is also very good.,But the family on both sides.,Hey.,It's sad.,I don't know what to do.。。

If you really want to live together, then you have to plan for it, your parents' opposition must be meaningful, you and your boyfriend had better discuss the solution to these problems raised by your parents, and after everyone has discussed it, you are communicating with your parents After all, parents are for the sake of their children, I believe that if you work hard, both parents will be able to understand your determination and feelings sooner or later.

In any case, I wish you happiness in advance

Since you like it so much, don't divide it.

Love that is not blessed by parents is unhappy Parents have more experience than us Consider things more carefully and thoughtfully than us Besides, which parent in the world doesn't want their children to live happily There is another problem You are in a different place You haven't met a few times So you haven't really gotten along at all I don't know if you can live or break up Let's break up!

From your experience, you know that you are serious about your relationship and need the warmth of home, and I think this is the common feeling of people who have experienced the same thing, so I support you to find your happiness.

You are still young, and you are uncertain about what will happen in the future, and the long-distance relationship is also more bitter.

In the event that the families on both sides cannot reach a consensus, it is a good strategy to detour and delay or let it go for a while. Cold treatment allows the other party to understand your mind, her parents can disagree, during this period of reflection, people always choose in two-way comparison, that is, individuals will also compare the positive and negative sides of the same thing, most of the time people are chosen, or not chosen.

You can put it down for a while, in the case of the girl thinking or having made a choice, don't chill her heart, she can give up, but you have to let people know that your actions and ideas are worthy of the other party and can stand the test, that is, worthy of the heart. However, in this process, you must also be worthy of yourself, arrange your daily life, and don't let yourself be too miserable.

Communicate with her parents with her to see, after all, marriage is not a matter of a family, and people are not grass and trees, it is always possible to be moved by true feelings, as long as you are truly in love, and you are a person worthy of trust, it is not impossible to finally get the approval of her parents.

At the very least, go for it, some things, especially feelings, may never be found again if you lose them.

You can ask for help from romance shows.

Keep in touch and wait until the material conditions are stable before mentioning it.

But your situation is different, I think you should stick to it, how difficult is it to find someone who is in love with 2 people? You're already very lucky, do you think there will be 3 or 4 chances for you to find each other again?

What's more, your current boyfriend has money, a house, and economic acumen, choosing a husband is a lifetime, you can't just look at the present, just like investment, you have to look at his development. Where can you find a man who is filial and rich like this, and who is good to you? In fact, if the money is not rich, it is a little bit fine, mainly depending on the character.

Even if you find another civil servant like you, but you don't feel it, do you think your married life will be interesting in the future? Parents are very important, but when you start a family, your husband is the one who will accompany you to the end.

What's more, fighting for love does not mean giving up family affection, and forgiving the elderly after marriage, after all, blood is thicker than water, and now in anger, if you can't listen to it, can you still complain about you for a lifetime? I think, in the future, you have to manage your love well, your home, what else can the old man say when he sees your happy life? People want stability in this life, and you are in much better condition than many people now, and you want to open up.

ps, if your husband mixes well in the future, has a car and a house, travels at every turn, and opens a company as the boss, will you lose face? Now money is face. Why do civil servants have face? It's because a good job has a lot of oil and water, and the job bowl is iron. At the end of the day, it's all about the money.

What a poor child, if I meet me it's also conflicted, I think, your parents are so paranoid, you should trust your own choice, you are an adult. You can't follow your parents all your life. Ah, the cups.

Hehe, love is romantic, but marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt.

First of all, I think you should evaluate your boyfriend objectively, your parents don't agree with you being together because he doesn't have a so-called "job", and your friends think the same way? If they all don't want you to be with him because he doesn't have a so-called "job", I think you should fight for it, after all, happiness is your own, a happy life is more important than having money, even if he can't earn money, your happy life with him is very enviable, not to mention that he has an economic mind, is very good at handling things, and has a wide range of interpersonal relationships, so he is a good candidate. Of course, if your friend doesn't want you to be with him because of some other flaw, you should check him out first.

To your parents, after all, they are good for you, you can talk to them well, I think as long as you talk well, there is nothing that cannot be explained, you can stand in their point of view, find loopholes in their point of view, and make them feel that it is not right to affect your real happy life in order to make you happy.

Well, I hope you can get along well with your parents and at the same time spend a lot of time with your beloved boyfriend. I wish you happiness!!

Some things are fake if you don't regret them, and you can forget about them after two years.

Slowly you will understand!

I won't say more!!

The road is your own, don't take a path that you regret because of what others think. It's really useless to ask someone, I think you've already made a choice. It's just that you don't dare to face it, maybe you don't want to face it. If you want to go, take a path that you don't regret!!

Remember, no matter what path you take, don't run away. Suicide is an escape, you know? Face it calmly, your face is still beautiful.

One last word for you. My life is up to me.

Parents oppose it or forget it. Without the love of your parents' support, you will have a hard time. In case of problems, you have no backer to snuggle into.

Unless you are a very independent woman, then it doesn't matter what your parents think, you just need to live comfortably. But obviously your article here shows that you don't have the spirit of rebellion yet. My suggestion, if your boyfriend really loves you, let him also make some efforts and go to the civil service exam for everyone to see.

Isn't that the best of both worlds.

Parents are all going to be soft and hard. Maybe time will tell.

Stick to your own ideas, without this person there will be better.

You are still young, you are very silly when you are in love, and you are often easily confused by superficial things, and when you mature, you will know the importance of being the right person. Listen to the old man and be a good boy.

Your parents' ideas can't keep up with the times, what kind of job is an iron job now, those who are admitted to the civil service may not be more productive, those who do business are not necessarily incompetent, there are no businessmen to pay taxes, where does the salary of civil servants come from.

First of all, I hope you can calm down and don't have over-thinking that no matter what kind of attitude your parents have, the original intention is good. Sometimes your parents really don't understand your feelings, they pay too much attention to your feelings, and they don't expect that you have grown up, have your own ideas, have your own feelings, and have your own opinions. Before you make a decision, I just want to make one suggestion, that is, whether you really love him or not, you really have to think about it!

Don't say that I love him very much, have you ever thought that if you are not good to you without him, is it because of your so-called "good work"? Ask yourself from the bottom of your heart, is your love really pure feelings? Or are you still living in the memories.

People are often like this: the greater the pressure, the greater the rebellious force, the more your parents oppress you, and the farther you will go. If they stop objecting and let you get along quietly, maybe you will find that he is not as good as you originally thought.

This is the case in many TV series. Two people desperately opposition, and finally came together, but found that each other was not as good as they imagined, there is a saying that although cruel but practical, there are difficulties that can be shared, and blessings can not be shared. If you are sure that you really love him as a person, not to regain your memories, then talk to your parents well, tell them the merits of the person you love, money, status are all accumulated, you believe in his ability, he will get these through his own efforts in the future, these spirits are more valuable than relying on relationships to climb up, they also hope that you will live well, come on, be strong, bless you.

How about the boy's person, his parents are also good for you, I'm afraid that you will marry too far and be angry, if you really love him so much, why not let go of Yibo, such a thing Dora! It's a good idea to consult with your parents.

Listen to your parents. In this world, only parents will not lie to you.

Aside from the age gap, what are the reasons for your parents' objections?

It's best to talk to your parents calmly and listen to what they think. Tell them what you think, too. Communication is paramount. In fact, many things are not unsolvable, but there is no communication, and everyone only sees the phenomenon, not the connotation.

Talk to your parents, they really care about you. Your mother swore such a big poisonous oath, probably not just because the man is younger than you, right?

When others oppose it, you wonder? Is that still called love? Still in love...

Since you love, you don't regret it, it's a must to fight, and you have to ask others...

Love and family affection are not contradictory, parents just consider whether it is appropriate from their own point of view, but their judgment is not necessarily right, right? After all, love is found by oneself and the other party, and it is exchanged for it after a lot of experience. Love is a lot of hardships, maybe through this difficulty, your love will be stronger.