Don t selfish people deserve love?

I think selfish people should have love. When it comes to love, some people say that loving someone should be selfless, unconditional, and unrequited. Suffice it to say that anyone who says such a thing can't do it on their own, because it seems good to treat love like this, but it's actually stupid, and it's called stupid love.

What is the purpose of your relationship? Is this unconditional giving? Treat love as charity?

Don't be stupid, even if you say you're great, the truth is that you still unconsciously care about the reward in your heart. How can you say you want something in return just by thinking "you want another person to be with you"? When it comes to selfishness, many people will resent it.

However, love is inseparable from selfishness. You can think of each other, but you should think of yourself. Those who are not responsible for themselves do not deserve love.

Like this reader below, he fell in love under the banner of selflessness and was only disappointed. For a woman, being a "selfish" woman is the only way to truly have love. Don't love blindly, you have to think about yourself, what do you want from love?

What will you fall in love with? Can the other person give you what you want? If this is true love, you will definitely get it.

If you can't get what you want, it's not love, and you should throw it away sooner. This "selfishness" of a woman in love still needs to exist. Otherwise, you'll only think of the other person and ignore yourself.

The other person has what he wants, but you don't have anything. It's so unfair to you. Every love is inseparable from the element of "getting what you need".

What you want in love is what you deserve. Therefore, you have to measure your love, you have to reflect on yourself, think about yourself, and think about the other person at the same time.

Otherwise, you may end up with nothing but disappointment. Affectionate people will always be hurt by ruthless people, and selfless people will always be taken advantage of by selfish people, and this will never change. So I think selfish people should have love.

Because if two people are not together, there is no giving.

I don't think they deserve love.

Personally, I don't think that's the case either.

Selfish people can still have love.

Of course not, I think everyone has the opportunity to have love, and selfish people also have times when they are good to others, but we are not anyone, so no matter who it is, even if it is selfish, he deserves to have love if he pays sincerely.

Yes, because they are very selfish, they just want to be loved by others, but they don't know how to love others, and they will be tired if others blindly give in return.

Unworthy, because love requires giving, and a selfish person is not willing to give for the other person.

No, in fact, this love is not decided according to everyone's personality, but only according to everyone's fate.

No, everyone deserves love, but selfish people are very difficult to find a partner, and the other half they find in the end will also be very selfish.

Of course not, it's just that the love process that selfish people have is very difficult, so you must try to change it.

Yes, because selfish people don't know how to think about other people's thoughts at all, and they won't be happy with such people.

Yes, because selfish people don't care about others, and such people don't deserve love.

I think selfish people also deserve true love, because there is no one in the world who is not selfish. As one of thousands of ordinary people, everyone has their own thoughts and opinions about life and love. Some people feel that selflessness is needed in love, and some people feel that selfish people do not deserve love.

But love never shifts to our thoughts, it will come when it should come, and it will go when it should go.

There are never truly selfless people in life, we are all selfish people. In the tide of the development of the times, there will always be some saints in our spirit, and they are truly selfless people on our spiritual level. But on the level of ordinary people, I never feel that there are selfless people in life.

Everyone has their own demands in life, some people pursue material comforts, and rich people pursue spiritual pleasures. But everything everyone does is to be able to live the life they want. I don't know what true selflessness looks like, but I do know that we're all selfish people.

If someone in life tells you that he is a selfless person, he must be lying. Everyone has seven emotions and six desires, and they all have emotional fluctuations, and this has doomed us to be truly selfless.

I think that selfish people can also have love, and love is a selfish thing. This question actually reminds me of the song "Over the Fire" by Zhang Xinzhe, and I was deeply impressed by one of the lyrics: It is I who give you freedom and go too far, which will make you fall into the whirlpool of love.

I understand the lyrics very well, because I once lost a relationship because I gave the other person too much freedom.

I used to think that love is a thing that needs to be tolerant and considerate enough, I think I need to trust each other enough, I think only this kind of love can be regarded as real love, but it turns out that I was wrong. Love is a selfish thing, but I'm so selfless in my love life that I forget what role I should play in a relationship.

In fact, tolerance or selfishness in love life has never been as absolute as everyone thinks. Love is a complicated thing, everyone can have love, and love will also make a person look different.

If you believe that selfish people don't deserve love, then maybe love doesn't exist in this world.

We always expect to be happy, but many times we are a little blind to love. If life is compared to a journey, love is one of the most beautiful scenery in this journey, and this scenery can actually be experienced by everyone.

Anyone can embrace love because love never discriminates against anyone.

I think this sentence makes a lot of sense, because in love, it really depends on two people to work hard together to manage together, and we must give each other more tolerance and understanding, and selfish people are not worthy of love.

Personally, I think that such people should not have love, because if they fall in love with others, they are very possessive, and they are very selfish in everything and will never be compromised by the other party.

I think that such a selfish person does not deserve true love, because a selfish person only sees himself and refuses to ask his family to sacrifice. In this way, his lover will not be happy.

Selfish people definitely don't deserve to have true love, people like this only love themselves, they don't love each other at all, and their love is definitely not very good.

I don't think it's worthy, because if you love someone, you won't worry about her, and you won't think that you can't lose every time, this kind of relationship can't last, and it will make the other half very sad.

Yes, I agree with this statement, because selfish people don't know how to care about other people's feelings, and it can be tiring to get along with such people.

I don't think so, because there are some selfish people who are still very generous to their lovers.

In the face of love, people are selfish. Unless it's not true love, you will have an indifferent attitude towards the actions of your other half. Especially in the eyes of women, love requires absolute selfishness, and love is not allowed to be mixed with any sand.

But some people say that the highest state of love is selflessness. Are you able to accept that your partner has a confidant of the opposite sex?

True love is possessive and selfish.

I believe that many people are negative about this issue. Generally, after having a partner, everyone will also take the initiative to keep a certain distance from other members of the opposite sex, in order to avoid suspicion, it is also to show respect for the other half, so that the other half has a sense of security.

However, it is rare to meet a true friend in life, and some people will be unwilling to give up like this. On the one hand, in order not to make the subject feel uneasy, and in order to maintain friendship with confidants. Many times, you can only keep in touch with friends quietly and try to avoid seeing each other.

It is also normal to chat occasionally through the mobile phone, in order not to let the other half misunderstand, everyone is used to deleting records after chatting, or using a calculator to disguise encrypted chat content, and they are not afraid of profiteering mobile phone chat privacy information in the face of mobile phone checks.

Besides, true confidants don't need to meet each other often, nor do they need to chat often, and the relationship doesn't need to be deliberately maintained, no matter how long they haven't met, they won't feel strange when they meet or chat again.

Everyone needs their own friends, and they should also be given appropriate personal space when getting along with partners, but they can't be completely ignored. In the right space, everyone can do what they want, but only if they respect each other and remain loyal to their relationship.

Love is inherently very selfish and exclusive, and this is understandable.