How to deal with the family after learning Buddhism, and how to guide the family to learn Buddhism

Buddhism has a large surplus and a small remainder, the believers also have a part of the home and the monk, when you understand the Buddha, the family is also a sentence, Bodhi has nothing, you have not penetrated, the family is still an important part of you, no need to give up, just like the silkworm before the pupa breaks, the pupal shell is very important, after the pupa breaks, it has become a moth, farewell to the past, and the chrysalis shell to break.

Love with wisdom.

Amitabha!!!

Bodhisattvas save sentient beings, there are four methods, so learn these four methods. Giving photography, love language photography, Li Xing photography, colleague photography. Charity is for people who are heavy on money, use money, and for people who are knowledge-minded, use the law to make the friendship between the two parties gradually deepen, and achieve the purpose of self-improvement of each other; The language of love is based on the root nature of all beings, with gentle and loving words, so that others will be happy, feel that I am amiable and close to me, so as to achieve the goal of self-improvement of the other person. Li Xing is a person who cultivates the Bodhisattva Dao, and all his actions and actions are beneficial to others, and he should influence sentient beings to practice the Buddha path together with the behavior of harming himself and others, so as to achieve the goal of saving others; As a practitioner of the Bodhisattva path, colleagues should go deep into all walks of life, come into contact with people from all walks of life, be their friends, and be friends with their colleagues.

Bodhisattvas must first perform these four methods to make sentient beings love, respect, and believe in me, and then they can listen to my persuasion and practice the Buddha's path. By extension, parents must first be obedient, and secondly, they must be made happy, and then they can be gradually guided.

Correct study of Buddhism, the family is harmonious and harmonious!

Especially for us Buddhists, we should be a good example at home, and pass on positive energy to our family members! For example: filial piety and respect for parents and relatives on both sides, be friendly to relatives and friends, cherish and care for children, mutual understanding, respect, trust between husband and wife...

On the contrary, if in order to learn Buddhism, every day regardless of the family, the elderly and children, regardless of the feelings of the husband and wife, and rush to the dojo everywhere, this cannot be done, that cannot be done, in this way, there will be family conflicts, neighbors will point out, family resentment,,, everyone will misunderstand Buddhism! ,, we learn to read the Buddha, we must learn to be obedient to all sentient beings, treat them skillfully and conveniently, and deal with some things!

The Dharma is for self-cultivation, not for judging others. People who really study Buddhism think that everything is their own reason, and that when they encounter bad things, they are their own fault, not someone else's fault, and as long as they implement this attitude and keep breaking themselves, they will definitely get better.

Maybe it's intolerance and seeing the shortcomings of others, that's why you have hatred, Amitabha! Look at the good in others, maybe it will be better!