What if I am lonely every day, isolated from others, and not happy at all

Because they are elders, and I don't feel the need to argue with them. They never knew how much I cared, and it had invisibly hurt my self-esteem and self-confidence. But I was too cowardly. I'm too comfortable with the status quo.

This is the problem, you have been overly patient, life has to be a wayward child occasionally, excessive patience has long since you retracted into your field, you have forgotten how to resist, in fact, you can communicate, even if the elders do not approve, just recognize yourself, I am like this, I only make reference to what others say, I will laugh stupidly at the criticism of others, if it is not right, I will refute, I am sure that I am the most important,,, you can't always run away from what the problem is, you can stay with unfamiliar people for a long time, It's not a problem, and so am I, but I don't think it's a problem, and there's nothing to be embarrassed about, it's your own idea from beginning to end, and I think it's nothing.

Happiness and pain go hand in hand, and happiness and pain can be shared by all, so you should trust your friends and colleagues and confide in them, so that you may have a new liberation.

Take out your own things and share them with your friends1·! Get out and touch the outside a bit! ~！

Make more friends and do more group activities with your friends!

Develop your communication skills!

Keep it up like this, give it to me, goodbye!

Can you sing? It will be your partner.

I feel lonely. Actually, I've tried this, but there are many reasons for this1: I can't open my heart and share my story with my friends2:

Introverted, scared, shy, afraid to do something with other people, communicate 3: Personality, if the personality is negative and the mood is often irritable, it is difficult to get the favor of the people around you4: The personality and ideas of the people around you are very different from yourself.

In fact, it is not the personality that forces you to isolate yourself, but the long-term isolation, so that you forget how to contact the people around you, contact with the society, people, are social animals, if you isolate yourself, this power is very weak, and people are originally mutually auxiliary to be able to survive.

You can calm your mind and ask yourself, whether there are some behaviors and personalities that make people feel that they can't get in touch with you, get close, and correct them, which is the point, but this correction can only be changed from wrong to good, good personality and behavior, there is no need to change, we can't let ourselves change from good to bad in order to contact with others.

Therefore, the most important thing now is to see whether you are willing to change, in fact, you can try to improve your personal cultivation, if a person has cultivation, not only the problems and troubles in life will be reduced, but also such a person is easier for people to accept and identify. The so-called friends and confidants are forced to beg, and it depends on whether there is fate, and you don't need to deliberately do some behaviors and actions to make people pay attention to you, this is meaningless, the fruit is not ripe, it will not fall, as long as you behave rightly, worthy of heaven and earth, and above board, what is there to be afraid of? It is impossible for people to live and die with others in a lifetime, but it is absolutely impossible for everyone to fight alone in a lifetime, because there is never an eternal sunny day, nor an eternal rainy day.

Let it be.

In addition, troubles are nothing more than the inability to see the truth of things clearly, and this is because the mind cannot calm down, in fact, whether it is your situation or other problems, try to calm the mind, put down personal attachments, rules and think deeply, you can see the essence more clearly. Everything will pass.

I can only adjust my mentality and change it myself!

Get along well with others and treat others well, and others will think that you have a good character and will make friends with you.

Standing out from the crowd and admiring oneself, is that so?