My boyfriend s dad is diagnosed with cancer, what can I do? 30

Spend more time with the elderly, the elderly don't have much time. Esophageal cancers are mostly starvation, not death from cancer. The old man will get thinner and thinner, and you should try to ask him to eat more fruit, and eat it if he can't eat.

My dad died of pancreatic cancer, and I... Anyway, accompany more, chat more, make the old man happy, give what he wants, ask the old man what he wants, remember. Also prepare things early.

Don't be in a hurry about what is going on behind you, I don't have any other consciousness, I've just experienced it.

If you are usually busy, call him more, ask him about the situation and then encourage him to cheer him up!! It's best to take some time to go to the hospital to see his dad and bring him some fruit or something!! Let the queen take care of him!!

Let's go see your dad often, and let him go through this life peacefully.

Don't be sad, we all sympathize with your dad, but today's medical technology Alas, .........

You have to show up, go to meet his father, and then take care of him more with all your heart, so that his family will be very happy, and if your boyfriend is a filial son, he will definitely love you more.

I don't know what part of the cancer is, if it is clear and your economy can, it is recommended to give him some genetic drugs, the effect is good.

Help him take care of his father, just put your heart into it, don't say anything.

Be sincere and take action! Honor the elderly, let the elderly go happily to the last journey!

You just silently accompany him and care about him.

There is only one opinion.

Spend more time with your BF

But don't make these things too obvious.

If I had cancer, I would tell my boyfriend and leave the choice of relationship in his hands. After all, I don't want to be hidden, so I will have an open and honest conversation with my boyfriend, expressing my thoughts and listening to his inner thoughts.

In today's society, many people work hard, carry the hopes of their families, and are under tremendous pressure. After being diagnosed with cancer, I don't know how to tell my loved ones, friends, and co-workers, or how to cope with various communication scenarios. News of cancer can overwhelm you, your friends, and family.

When the news is told to someone, people often don't know what to say. They may feel sad, uncomfortable, and may be afraid to upset you. They may also be afraid of losing you.

Sometimes you may find that people don't say anything because it might be easier for them. They are afraid of talking too much, afraid of making mistakes, so it's better not to say it. Of course, some people find it easy to speak, while others become overly cautious or overly optimistic.

When it comes to cancer, most people tell their spouse. If they are unmarried, they will tell their relatives, such as parents, siblings, boyfriends, etc., but there are a few people who will not tell their loved ones, and this may only be the case at the beginning, because it is very unrealistic to hide it for a long time, you cannot close yourself off at all times, it is impossible not to let your family know. If the family knows about the condition first and then chooses to hide it from the patient, this is possible and relatively easy to do.

Conversely, if a person has cancer, as a patient, he wants to hide it from his boyfriend or his family. It's almost impossible. Because the follow-up is inseparable from the companionship and support of family members, once the care of family members is left, the process will be difficult to carry out.

Without a family, it is difficult for doctors to carry out their work. Diagnosis and treatment of cancer requires the cooperation of the patient and the cooperation of family members.

Yes, life is not ** and TV series after all, I don't think I should suddenly disappear into his world or lie to him that I don't love him anymore. I would be honest with him about my condition, and let him choose the rest.

I will tell him the truth and ask him to let go in time and not delay his youth. But it is also possible for me to hide the truth from him for selfish purposes and leave him with good memories in my last days.

I will definitely tell my boyfriend, and I will also tell each other the truth about myself, so that I can get along with each other very well.

First of all, I understand that this is a very difficult and emotionally complex time and that your boyfriend and his family need your support and care. If your boyfriend wants you to visit him, then you can consider the following suggestions:

1.Communicate with your boyfriend about his father's condition and current state so that you can respond appropriately.

2.Respect your boyfriend's family: Remember that this is what your boyfriend's family is going through, respect their feelings and privacy.

3.Show concern: Ask your boyfriend and his family if they need any help, such as helping with cleaning the house, taking care of the family, or buying groceries.

4.Provide emotional support: Your boyfriend and his family may need emotional support and comfort during this difficult time. Please take the time to listen to their feelings and express your support and understanding.

5.Focus on your emotions: Dealing with cancer and hospice issues can cause you many challenges and stresses. Make sure you take care of your emotions and emotional needs and seek the necessary support and resources.

Finally, you are reminded not to behave inappropriately towards the patient, to respect the patient's privacy and dignity, and to avoid causing discomfort to the patient's stool.

I guess it's up to you to make assumptions.

1. The word "cancer", like the word "disease", encompasses thousands of diseases. I believe that the doctor will never be so unmedical and only tell you the word "cancer", if so, you can directly go to the medical supervision department to complain and report the doctor and the hospital.

2. First of all, it is necessary to confirm and figure out the reality and the specific condition of the father. For example, cancer, what is cancer, and what is probably the cause? Presumably there should be a need for proof processing? ......Otherwise, I don't know what to ask and don't know, how can I explain and inform others (father)?

3. In addition, cancer itself is not terrible, at least the cancer disease itself can be said to be non-injurious and deadly. Cancer only causes non-cancer diseases to be difficult and impossible (anti-action, impossible), and eventually leads to the death of patients under the action of non-cancer diseases (so in today's human beings without effective cancer technology, human cancers are actually against non-cancer diseases).

What should I do if I have cancer?

Cancer --- a systemic, chronic, febrile disease. Cancer is not inflammation and is not an invasion of foreign viruses. Cancer is caused by qi deficiency and blood weakness, abnormal flow of qi and blood, qi stagnation and blood stasis, and long-term accumulation of phlegm and poison, and coagulation for a long time.

In the advanced stage of cancer, vomiting, fever, heavy internal fire, inability to relieve stool, weight loss, dark skin, thrombocytopenia, and white blood cell decrease.

The principle of cancer **--- regulates qi and dissipates knots, dissipates stasis, clears away heat and dampness, detoxifies, reduces swelling, relieves pain, invigorates blood, and cools blood. Nourishes blood, channels and nourishes qi and blood, and inhibits the growth of cancer cells. Don't eat high-calorie foods, such as milk.

Seafood. Dog meat. Cancer is like a honeycomb in nature.

Do not have surgery. Chemotherapy. Radiotherapy.

What should I do if I have cancer? I think it is necessary to be sensible, and it is dangerous to be in a hurry. If you are sick, don't go to the doctor. Mistakes in decision-making will lead to the eternal loss of life, and it will be too late to regret it.

Health is wealth; Health is happiness; May the good people of the world have a safe life.

Don't tell me for the time being, one of us is about 50 years old, and I know that he died of cancer in less than a month, I think it would be better to find reasons such as company rewards or other things, and take the elderly out to hang out and have fun.

The most important thing is to look at the patient's mentality, if the patient is relatively optimistic and rational, and the attitude of daily life is more serious, and he has his own views on the arrangement of things. In this case, when the patient hears the news of cancer, it is relatively acceptable, and it is acceptable**, and he has made future living arrangements. And people with a relatively pessimistic and delicate personality, it is best not to tell him, to avoid cranky thinking, which will also affect the best effect.

Family members should take good care of the patient, actively operate first, or cooperate with radiotherapy and chemotherapy to improve the quality of life and prolong the survival period.

Someone in my family has just had cancer, and I don't think I should have told me in the early stage, because when a person learns that he has cancer, no one can be calm, if he is not generous, it must aggravate the condition and promote the deterioration. My family still thinks that they just have bad digestion and tell her that they need to be hospitalized, and she said that's okay, and the hospitalization will be reimbursed, so just raise it for a few days, isn't that great?! If she learns about cancer, she must ask around, ask around, if she knows that it is serious, she must have her own thoughts, such as fear of affecting her family, such as fear of spending money, or a strong desire to survive and feel that she disagrees with her family** is not satisfied, etc.

Therefore, it is better to choose white lies and let the patient accept it slowly.

It should be informed, but the extent and manner of such information needs to be carefully considered.

It's unfair to conceal it, especially lying.

Find out how well your father understands and can tolerate the condition, and then tell him in general stages. For example, tell him on the first day that you may not be doing well. The next day.

Sometimes after communication, both parties are happy.

Depending on the father's physical and mental condition and mental acceptance, choose flexibly. If all aspects are good, you can adopt the method of "gradual infiltration" to let him know that by strengthening ideological work, cancer can prolong life. In front of your father, you must be "optimistic and generous", never collapse, actively cooperate**, pay attention to your family, accompany your father through the last days, and leave no lifelong regrets.

I don't know how old your father is! If he is already older, it is recommended that you do not tell him and let him live happily, which may be better for his cancer. If he is still young, you should tell him that if he has a wish that has not yet been fulfilled, you can do it for him.

My more than 30 years of experience as an oncologist has taught me that for cancer patients, the drug is more important than the psychology. I wish your father a speedy **.

Tell me, my dad was also diagnosed with terminal cancer in December last year, and I didn't tell him at that time, we chose ** by ourselves. He passed away in just one month, and I still regret not telling him, not telling too many people to help me get the idea, if he didn't have surgery at that time, he might have lived a few more months to spend the New Year with us.

This depends on how old you are, if you are older, it is recommended not to tell him, and accompany him in the last period of the old man's home; If he is not very old, you can tell him to be mentally prepared, and then ask him what other wishes he needs to fulfill and satisfy him as much as possible.

Hello, patients have the right to know their own condition, but for the sake of the disease**, a good attitude is more effective than anything else, I hope you can consider it. Good luck soon**.

First of all, you have to understand for yourself, do you want to face him out of sympathy or love?

If there is a lot of sympathy, I advise you to forget it, don't affect him to fight, because he is already very hard, don't hurt him anymore, he himself understands that he can't give you too much, I'm afraid that I can't give you happiness, I'm afraid that you will suffer with him, and I'm also afraid that you can't be together for long, instead of suffering in the future, it's better to end it now.

If there are many elements of love, then you also have to think clearly, can you stick to your ideas and face the ups and downs of life with him in the future? After all, love requires a certain material foundation, and romance also comes at a cost, you can occasionally ride a bicycle to exercise or experience life, but you may not be able to tolerate using a bicycle as a daily means of transportation every day. Therefore, long-term love not only relies on the original impulse, but also a kind of persistence and tolerance for each other and a kind of patience for life.

Your boyfriend knows that in the future, there will be no father's umbrella to help him shelter from the sun and rain, he will have to face the ups and downs alone, he is full of unknowns about his future, and he does not dare to carry too many responsibilities on the road, for fear of carrying too much but not being able to fulfill.

So, girl, have you thought about it, are you ready?

Career can be struggled together, why should one person bear it, it's not better to help each other, as the saying goes, it makes sense that men and women are not tired of working together, and his father is cancer, who will take care of his father when he is busy with his career, girls must be careful, and taking care of people should be a strength.

Then you just care about him silently, and don't care about the rest.

I know what he thinks! Good man! Care more about him.