Should a 23 year old girl pursue her dreams or live in reality?

You are tired from the work in front of you, and you are happy, so you don't say that you have a dream and don't want to do things. It's not small, it's important to find a good marriage for you, or your parents are in a hurry, you don't want to start a business, be a strong woman, a few men quit their jobs and went out, 23 years old and no social experience to go out, I'm the same as you now, doing non-professional work in state-owned enterprises, idle to death, now I'm dormant, practicing, waiting for me to take some powerful certificates, or practice a pair of eyes that can see through people's hearts I began to break into society, sleep on the road, I don't have anything to say if I don't brush my teeth, I don't want to wait for retirement, Lived in vain.

For men, in front of career and affection, to grasp, in order to reflect a person's ability, I think you are also a good person, I believe this law also applies to you, see what you can catch.

Take things as they come... This is a realistic society, if you think that you will not have a great achievement in the field of design and just be happy, then you should live in reality.

It depends on the situation, if you really don't want to do this, and want to change, then you have to have a determination and an awareness, because you also know that this is a job that is not easy to come by, if you want to choose a dream, then it is possible to give up a stable life, if you choose to live, then you have to give up your dream, in fact, life and dreams are difficult to have both, and there must be gains. Go with your feelings.

Reality, believe me, I just suffered. Come on, if you want to try it, you can go, I was in a fight with my dad at the time.

Continue to struggle with finding a good husband in the future, and then pursue your dreams.

Well, you still have to weigh it well, if you have been doing it all the time, there will really be no momentum in life, while you are young, do everything you want to do, otherwise you will regret it later, but if you have been chasing your dreams, life is not good, and you will also complain, so you have to choose whether your dream is important or your life is rich.

If only I had chosen a light job and had money, how nice it would be.

Dwelling over this kind of thing proves that you are not strong enough, and you should now think about whether it is not as simple as accepting reality, or whether you should think about what kind of life you really want to live. You're 23 now, it's a good year, and by the time you're 33, it's really too late.

It depends on your own thoughts, if your dream is worth chasing, and the price you pay can be within your affordability, then why not give it a go, there are not many people who can really chase their dreams at the moment. If the price paid for your dream is too high and you are overwhelmed, then I suggest giving up early, life is to put it bluntly, and it is up to you to live *** or bad.

You can do both.

Life goes on because you are more than just a human being.

Is there a long gap between your dreams and reality?

Neither is thrown away, because there is no contradiction between the two.

In the case of succumbing to reality, in pursuit of their dreams, people eat every day, do you say?

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It is best to live in reality and pursue ideals.

Both! The ideal is spiritual, and life is material.

It's 35 and you don't know what you should do now, your life is basically useless, and you won't have any achievements, are you talking about the conflict between ideals and reality?

Isn't it a merger of the two! Look at the value of your ideals!

On the basis of reality, if you have the ability, you can realize your dreams.

If you don't have the ability, you can realistic, and if you have the ability, you can realize your dreams.

Strive for progress and struggle. You will get what you want.

Make your dreams come true. Society is very realistic, and we must have our own dreams and goals as individuals.

You know this best in your own mind, because everybody's perception is different.

My dear, please really, really don't let go of your dreams easily.

Those seemingly impossible dreams are more valuable for their realization.

Don't let go of your dreams and what if they come true.

Ma Yunyan: Please don't choose comfort when you can endure hardships the most, no one's youth is on the red carpet, since the dream of becoming the self that others can't reach, you should choose your own path, in order to reach the end of the effort that others can't reach.

Share. It is true that dreams cannot be given up easily, but it is necessary to seek truth from facts and let go when it is time to let go.

But we always need a goal in life, a reason to work hard for it.

Pursuing dreams, of course. But we should first find a way to solve the real problem. Continue to pursue your dreams. Dreams cannot be given up.

People should always live realistically, but they can't give up their dreams, and they should be realistic until they have enough ability to realize their dreams.

The dream is the project, the reality is the difficulties encountered in the implementation stage, whether you are willing to solve the difficulties and realize the final project to decide for yourself! Everyone is like that, I hope you can overcome it!

If you have the opportunity, you still have to work hard to achieve your dreams.

Or try to follow your dreams.

Break through reality and pursue dreams.

It's up to you, what kind of person you are.

If it's all about your dreams, forget it.

Friend, I'm also a girl, and I'm planning to go to graduate school. But I really don't think gender is going to be a factor that bothers me whether or not to go to graduate school.

Life is so long, and doing what you really want to do is far more valuable than doing what others expect. I'm not very good at convincing, but I've known since I was a child that there are some things that can be given and gained. You want to go to graduate school, but you are afraid of the age pressure and work pressure brought about by graduate school; If you don't take the test, you are really unwilling in your heart.

If you really want to do one thing, you have to have the courage to be prepared to give up something else. It's not that this school is worth a girl's struggle, but ask yourself if this is what you really want, and if so, leave it alone.

That's all I have to say, friend. Finally, I will send you six words: don't be afraid, don't regret it.

If you really like it, you can take the test, considering family and relationship problems, if these don't bother you, then why can't you choose the path you like? Working and continuing to study are also ways to constantly enrich yourself, so why not choose your favorite lifestyle? If your ability is limited, you won't have any regrets if you can't pass the exam.

It is advisable to think more about it yourself. Of course, you can choose to continue your studies to enrich yourself, but social university is also good.

Finally, I would like to give you a little advice, you can study hard for another year, and if you try your best this year and still don't get in, it will not be too late to go to work again. After all, I have also enriched myself this year

Actually, you already have an answer in your heart, hehe, since you have a dream, why don't you work hard, or you will regret it all the time. In fact, age is not a problem when you are employed, as for getting married, maybe you can meet the right one when you get to school! So don't overthink it, try it once, even if you fail, it's nothing.

My sister has also encountered such a problem now, I am so comforting her, people like you don't know what's going on, I feel a strong sense of crisis, in fact, Daben is also highly educated, of course, it is also for the expectation in my heart.

So my advice to her is that if you want to go to school, you can try again, the exam won't take much time anyway, and it doesn't matter if you get into the exam or not, you don't regret it.

Hope it works for you too.

At the moment, Chinese universities really don't learn anything, and they graduate from the same level as undergraduates, and they don't have much advantage from starting point, and they waste time and work experience.

It's better to take the on-the-job exam after work.

That's how I took the test.

If you really want to learn something, study abroad.

It's not easy to have your favorite major now, age is not a problem, as long as you work hard, it should be fine. As for the family, you don't have to worry, you have to believe in fate. It's just that if you're not sure, it's better to work directly.

Let's take the test, after all, academic qualifications are still more important now, although more attention is paid to ability, but China still depends on academic qualifications first. Graduate students are more popular than undergraduates. Also, I think it depends on what major you choose, whether this major is more promising for graduate school or undergraduate.

This is really different. But I just graduated this year, and I was a few points short of the graduate school entrance examination, and I didn't want to change the grade, so I came to work. It's okay to work, but I feel that the chance of leaving here to go to graduate school in the future will be really slim, and I want to take the exam very much, but it won't be as easy as preparing for it in school.

It's too much.,In short.,Take the test if you can.,Age is not a problem.,HeheLearn more while you're young.,It's still good for yourself.。。。

Get a good job, and then find a nice guy to fall in love.

I think that's what you have to do now, don't be yourself.

You're 27 years old, and you're about to become a leftover girl in two years.

Live for yourself.

Reality and ideals are not the same. What you think is just what you think. People should live in reality. Because you are in reality.

Real life is cruel, but we must live in reality, because we can't change society, the only way to properly integrate it into society, is to live in the present

Reality has always been there, and there are many kinds of reality, and reality can be understood as hard work, but we should live a down-to-earth life.

The ideal is plump, the reality is skinny, and people live in expectation and reality.

Eat and sleep, poop and pee. That's the core of reality. If these things go wrong, you don't have to be in reality.

Reality is what you don't want to admit but have to admit.

It is clothing, food, housing, and transportation, dealing with people and things, and often saying things against their will, which makes people involuntarily in the rivers and lakes, and people have to bow their heads under the eaves, and they must learn to hate him to death, with a smile on their faces.

Don't you have to look at the past if you don't live in reality?

In fact, the quality you dream of is the same? Life should seek beautiful dreams in life and improve the quality of life. Give yourself the confidence to work hard and work hard to develop.

If you want to pursue your dreams comfortably, you must first improve your quality of life.

Dreams still have to be had, what if they come true? Hehe. Don't compare your studies with others, the birth of a big boss is not necessarily a college student, college students generally work for others, others here refer to those successful people who come out early to work hard for their dreams, I hope these words can encourage you, and I hope that your dream is not just to think about it, you have to achieve it step by step towards that goal, instead of just having an empty shell of a dream but doing nothing, struggle youth!

If the goal is set too high, it will lose its center of gravity, people live in reality but yearn for dreams, you will learn better in the social university, any height must have its foundation to exist, no accumulation of steps, no thousands of miles; If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas, friends, your circle of friends and friends should be expanded, you can't just win with others, you will lose with fellow travelers, and you can become a myth compared with yourself. Remember, the road is under your feet, thousands of them, paving the way for others is like running for yourself, the road is uneven, the heart goes first....

Do academic qualifications really work? Do you think they will have a good job after graduating from college? I advise you not to give up your strengths. Because in the real society, academic qualifications are not as good as connections, and connections are not as good as having skills!