Be a fool, be confused?

Don't care if you're confused, first of all, integrity, kindness, responsibility, have a good quality, in some special cases, compare pretending to be confused and not pretending to be confused, which harm is less, the lesser of two evils, but when it comes to big laws and morals, you can't pretend to be confused, for example, just like you see a murderer, you have to tell the police without hesitation, regardless of the consequences, and when you see your friend taking advantage of another friend, if it doesn't hurt that friend much, you can try to stop it, and then advise, If that friend doesn't stop, you still have to tell it, the key is to see how much damage it has.

No, the main thing is to pretend not to know when you find that others are taking advantage of you (materially or spiritually, but it does not involve your own bottom line), so that you can keep your interpersonal relationships harmonious, and this degree should be grasped by yourself.

Mr. Lu Xun said: The most painful thing is that you wake up from a dream but have no way out.

When you are faced with a matter and you are powerless to change, when you find that you are unable to change your destiny, it is rare for people to be confused, and only in this way can you alleviate the pain.

There are some things that you are not used to seeing, whether you are used to seeing them, when you can't change them, but your conscience is tormented, you have to learn to be confused.

Zheng Banqiao is like this, he can't change his fate, when he can't change some things that are difficult to accept, the comfort for him is rare and confused.

Zheng Banqiao's confusion is that he is content and happy, don't learn from the kind of people who only want money and status all their lives, because the factor that determines happiness in life is contentment, not the level of status and the amount of money. Life is nothing, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Zheng Banqiao, who does what he likes and goes with the flow, is a real smart person.

Zheng Banqiao, born in Xinghua, Jiangsu during the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, his ancestral home is Suzhou. The original name was Zheng Xie, the word Kerou, the number Li'an, and the name Mr. Banqiao.

The people of the Yongzheng period and the Jinshi of the Qianlong period. He once served as the county magistrate of Fan County and Weixian County in Shandong, and made remarkable achievements as an official. Resigned and lived in Yangzhou, where he made a living by selling paintings.

It is one of the important representatives of the Eight Monsters of Yangzhou. By the way, the Eight Monsters of Yangzhou are actually the general name of painters with similar styles who were active in Yangzhou during the Kangqian period, and are called "Yangzhou School" in the history of art.

The eight monsters are: Jin Nong, Zheng Xie, Huang Shen, Li Yi, Li Fangying, Wang Shishen, Luo Ping, and Gao Xiang.

It's rare to be confused" is Zheng Banqiao's famous saying, and it is also his way of being an official and his life perception that he practiced.

The reason why Zheng Banban wrote "rare and confused" is said to be in the 16th year of Qianlong, Juzhou Zhizhou invited Zheng Banqiao to visit Juzhou as a guest, and when he arrived at the west mountain of Qishan in Jubei, he was warmly entertained by the local landlord Wang Yuanwai.

I have heard the name of Zheng Banqiao for a long time, and I want to obtain Zheng Banqiao's Mobao, and use the local famous "muddy dishes" to entertain Zheng Banqiao.

Zheng Banqiao was full of praise after tasting the meal. Wang Yuanwai took the opportunity to invite Zheng Banqiao to mention words for her.

Zheng Banqiao, who was enthusiastically bred, happily put pen to Wang Yuanwai and mentioned: "It's rare to be confused".

Since then, these four words have spread, and the philosophy contained in these four words has been used as a warning for people to behave in the world.

Mr. Itabashi, although he is talented, has a long life. Although it is rare to be confused, in fact, the heart is like a mirror.

Life is rare to be confused, and it is rare to be confused, but we still have to face life positively.

After people have experienced a lot of things in society, they will have a lot of dissatisfaction with the society or people, and if they care too much, they will die of depression: Here we are talking about very smart people who understand people, and they are only a small part in ordinary life. The average person can't understand it, so it's hard to be confused, which means it's actually hard to confuse smart people!

And smart people can be a little more detached and live a little easier "It's hard to be smart, it's hard to be confused, and it's even harder to turn from smart to confused. Put it down, take a step back, feel at ease at the moment, and don't want to be blessed later. This is Zheng Banqiao's small character explanation after writing the four big characters of "rare and confused", when he was the magistrate of Wei County.

It's rare to be confused is a helpless word, if you live in an era of social fairness, system transparency, and politics in line with the public, you don't have such a feeling of being confused, let's ask a lot of things we clearly see clearly, why do we have to pretend to be confused, so I said that Mr. Itabashi said this sentence is to express the helplessness of his time!

Great wisdom is foolish, burying wisdom deep in the heart, facing overly complex world affairs, simple life, simple work, not in a hurry, not annoyed when encountered, with a rare and confused encounter, brewing the mellow wine of life.

It is clever for people to pretend to be confused at certain times, and it is also a sign of composure; There is also the embarrassment of concealment and embarrassment.

It fully explains that there is a kind of wonder in the various states of life, each has its own strengths, each has its own use, and there are various manifestations on a certain occasion, so as to seek a satisfactory reconciliation of things.

Pretending to be confused is not a bad thing in certain things, and in the absence of bad effects and bad consequences, it is not a big problem to explain or specify it, so that the person concerned is embarrassed, and it is even wise to be confused and not to say it.

It's not all about being confused; Pretending to be confused in the position is called betrayal, which is not advisable, such confusion is a manifestation of a weak position, which will bring serious losses, and it is not an example of pretending to be confused, it is called a crime and breaking the law, and it must be clarified.

Actually, it's nothing, don't take it so seriously, after all, it's rare to be confused.

Pretending to be confused between relatives may be for your own good, and most people who don't know you well may be for your own good, and if you don't care so much, you can always avoid face-to-face conflicts.

Many people just don't understand when they should understand, and shake their wits when they should pretend to be confused, but they do everything badly.

To be a man, you can't be too shrewd, too shrewd, and cut off your connections.

Be a man, don't be too calculating, too calculating, everyone is alienated.

In this world, most people who are too shrewd and calculating are not happy.

Therefore, it is better to be a person who is a little confused, and if you are confused, you will not be more serious, confused, and can stay away from right and wrong.

Only when people are confused can they be blessed.

In life, it is rare to be confused, and being confused is not to pretend to be crazy and stupid, but to learn to pretend to be stupid.

Don't say what you shouldn't say, don't ask, don't ask what you shouldn't ask.

I know in my heart, don't expose it, just see it through, don't say it thoroughly.

Foolishness, not stupidity, but wisdom;

Confusion is not cowardice, but bearing;

Confused, not mentally retarded, but intelligent.

Confused people can't hear rumors in their ears, can't say scandals in their mouths, can't see right and wrong in their eyes, can't hold resentment in their hearts, won't be troubled by troubles, and won't be troubled by troubles.

People are very simple, but they are terrible, they have a kind heart, they can tolerate everything, and they have a vicious heart, they can kill everything.

Calculating with friends, no affection, competing with family, no warmth, fighting with colleagues, no integrity.

Being too shrewd, being close to people around him, doing things too carefully, complaining and angry around him, fighting for everything clearly, cheap benefits have to be taken up, and in the end, he lost his heart and made himself cheap.

Money and interests are confused, do not hurt harmony, people are confused in calculations, have a good conscience, be confused in the struggle for fame and fortune, do not bother with brains, gossip is confused, do not tire the root of the ear, there are benefits, it is your intentions, no, don't care, there is cheap, it is your should hide well, no, you should stay away, confused is not a fool, and it is stupid to be careful.

No one is perfect, each has his own selfishness, although he will be envious and jealous, he will be unwilling, but deep down he hopes to stay away from right and wrong, and be happy with each other.

The child is confused, so that he can be carefree, the old man is confused, so he can live for a long time, only the people in between are the most tired, because the pursuit is too much, because the greed is insufficient, because the organs are exhausted.

To be a man, to be satisfied, to have a smile, to be a man, to be confused, is a good blessing.