Is there true love in a marriage that raises eyebrows and respects each other?

For couples with a good relationship, the two are generally intimate and will not hide in front of each other, and even fart in front of each other feels natural. Everyone should be able to see that this kind of relationship is very good, and this is the relationship that normal couples need to have. However, this is not the case with some couples.

Especially if you have a strong girlfriend, then the relationship between the two is not so close, more about mutual respect, and even holding hands will feel very unnatural. So, is there true love in a marriage that is respectful and respectful? Personally, I don't think there is true love.

First of all, the act of mutual respect is a sense of distance, which is usually the case between superiors and subordinates or friends. Secondly, people who love each other will only be like glue.

1. A respectful marriage has a sense of distance

If you get along with a good friend or a superior with a strong sense of trust, because you both cherish this friendship very much, you will be very careful when getting along with them, which is also out of respect for each other. Therefore, it is generally a respectful relationship between friends or between superiors and subordinates in the company. However, if a husband and wife get along in the same way, then whoever they are will feel that this is not a husband and wife, but a pair of friends.

There is no love between friends, so there is no love in this kind of respectful marriage.

Second, people who love each other will only be like glue

If a couple or couple is very affectionate, then the two of them get along very easily and at the same time will be very sweet. Therefore, in such a relationship, there is no state of respect for each other. If you love each other, you will want to hug each other, and if you love each other, you will want to stick to each other all the time, and you will love each other like glue.

Therefore, there is no love in a respectful marriage.

Through the above analysis, it can be known that husband and wife should not respect each other like guests, but should be like glue, do you think it makes sense?

Exist. This can be achieved by two right people who respect each other and always have each other at their heart.

Of course, there is true love in a marriage that is respectful of each other, because only two people who really love each other can get along better with each other, and this kind of love is also worth having.

Of course, there is true love, two people have a bottom line in everything they do, they will not easily touch each other's bottom line, and each other leaves private space, which is true love.

I think there is also love in this mode of marriage, because not many people are used to noisy married life, and there will be many people who love each other who like to raise their eyebrows.

Of course, there is true love, and love can only be obtained by two people working together and paying together.

If there is true love, because of mutual respect, the relationship between two people will be very good, and they will take care of each other in marriage.

I think there is true love. Only when two people truly love each other will they respect each other, understand each other, and support each other.

There must be, most of the love of the older generation is in such a state, which will give people a strong sense of security.

Personally, I don't think there is real love, real love is more natural, and it is not so much in love.

This kind of love exists, especially among the older generation, but the sense of distance will be more and it will be difficult for people to adapt.

It is two people who care about each other, understand each other, help each other, trust each other, and will face and solve problems together, and sometimes they will quarrel and fight, but they will not hurt their feelings.

The longest-lasting relationship between husband and wife is that two people will communicate when they encounter problems, maybe two people will quarrel, but they will never be cold, they will not be cold, they will not be cold, they will support each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other.

It is that the husband and wife can understand each other, tolerate each other, be considerate of each other, be able to understand each other's hardships, take care of the family very much, and both husband and wife are filial to their parents.

There are eight words, which are called the highest state of love.

If you pick up the ** allusions of these eight words, I think this is nonsense when it is called love.

The most reflected in it is the marriage of male superiority and inferiority of women. Raising eyebrows and respecting each other like guests is not called love, this is just marrying a girl.

First of all, respect each other is like a guest, and a guest is a guest. Treat the people in the marriage like guests, and I don't know how many people can accept it.

There is an allusion in this, a man named Yin Que was convicted for family reasons, went home to farm, worked in the field, and his wife knelt down to serve it to him after cooking, and he frequently expressed his gratitude. This moved a certain official who passed by very much, so he recommended him to be an official.

It's incomprehensible, it's respect. In ancient times, women were required to follow three virtues and four virtues, and the law of etiquette was greater than the sky, and what moved the man was not his wife's practice, but the man's gratitude to his wife. Hehe, you see how natural it is, and it will move others by expressing gratitude.

I thought that love or marriage was full of fireworks in the world. There is the tenderness and sweetness of you and me, and there are also bumpy quarrels. But there will definitely be no distance and indifference like respect, wife Heng makes a booklet for her husband from afar, serves food and clothing, and has to have children, which is not as good as a maid ring.

The case is also from the same story. Meng Guang is an ugly woman, and she doesn't marry anyone in her thirties, so she replied that I only marry that talented man Liang Hong.

Liang Hong really went to propose marriage and married her. The woman is the one who pleases herself, Meng Guang dresses up and dresses up every day, but Liang Hong ignores her. When asked why, he said that I didn't want a beautiful wife, but a thrifty housekeeper. When Meng Guang heard this, he immediately put on coarse cloth clothes and began to weave cloth.

This Liang Hong** doesn't want a beautiful wife, he just wants a working nanny.

Every day, when Liang Hong went home, Meng Guang never looked up, and always raised the tray of food to his eyebrows. That's why it's called raising eyebrows.

The woman named Meng Guang, because of her appearance, thought that she was inferior, and she even had no self, and she was humble to the dust, so her husband was whatever she wanted. And Liang Hong is a talented man, and marrying this girl back is not because of love. Do you think people really don't look at their appearance?

In ancient times, the world of men wanted the women of the world to be so submissive to them. So these two stories that are so indifferent, impersonal and warm are said to be the highest level of love.

Not to mention ancient times, there are many such men and such women now. A few days ago, I saw a complaining person, they talked about love for three years before getting married, thinking that they knew each other enough. After marriage, the husband is responsible for playing games and watching TV when he comes home.

My wife gave birth to a child, and I never cared about crying at night, I was annoyed even to brush a bottle, and I would blame if I didn't cook. Only a handful of sad tears were left of his wife, and he could only complain in front of strange netizens.

If love and marriage are so "respectful and eyebrows", it is better to be single for a lifetime. These eight words are a true portrayal of the status of women in ancient times, which is a beautiful love, a happy marriage, and a harmonious husband and wife.

Of course, many people believe that these two idioms have been given new meanings in modern times. So do you think that respecting each other and raising eyebrows together is the highest state of love and marriage?

It is better to explain idioms word by word. Modern people often interpret idioms with habitual interpretation, and the habitual one becomes the harmony of husband and wife, but the original meaning of raising the case and raising the eyebrows is to put it bluntly, that is, after marriage, the woman will raise the case to the eyebrows when she offers food to the man, which is a very respectful and obedient performance. If you put it in modern times, in fact, it is quite hard to pay unilaterally, but if it is really a shake s and a shake m, both of them are willing, in fact, there is nothing bad.

After all, marriage is a matter between two people, and at most one baby is added, and it has nothing to do with others. It's good if both of them are happy.

The word "guest" is a more distinguished guest. Both husband and wife are more respectful of each other. In modern terms, both parties are careful to observe the size between people, and the honorific character is expressed in the fact that both parties do not exceed personal ethics and do not make excessive demands, and both parties regard each other as individuals, independent people, rather than treating each other as their own subordinates.

In fact, this is also a matter of looking at people, some people prefer this feeling of some distance, and some people like to become two people with three legs all day long. In fact, it still depends on the feelings of both parties. I'm tired of getting annoyed, get along in a different way, and occasionally play with a little ambiguity when I'm respectful is also a kind of fun.

But there's no need to respect it when you're in London.,All hormones are stimulated and desire is released.,Who has nothing to do with the guest negative contact.。。。

The wife holds food and her eyebrows high by the table and offers it to her husband. Modern marriage cannot accommodate such requirements.

It is people's yearning for a good marriage.

Then it's up to you to pursue. I think it's pretty good.

If you are pursuing a life that has a particularly good relationship between husband and wife, a life like glue. Respect each other as a guest may not be acceptable to you.

But I can accept it, I think it's good to respect each other like a guest, it's better than that kind of quarrel, it's better than the kind of person who just doesn't talk to each other all the time, and respecting each other like a guest is already a very good state for many couples.

That kind of glue-like married life is simply luxury, and it is a luxury like love, so ordinary people don't think about it.

Respect each other like a guest, and ordinary people don't think about it.

Two people who love each other care a lot about each other's feelings because they respect each other. I know your warmth and coldness, and I understand your joys and sorrows. It's like your shadow.

That's why I have a lot of respect and adoration for you. In this way, we respect each other as if we were guests. You respect me like a guest, and I respect you.

This has established my tall image in your mind. It also made a deep impression on my heart.

Respect each other and embrace each other. Actually, this is also a good thing. Although it should be said that there is no distinction between husband and wife, you and I flirt.

They are of the same age, and they will feel that together, as long as they make each other happy, they don't have to respect each other too much. It's very happy.

But some of the older ones walked together. They care more about how they feel about each other. In the vast sea of people, I can hold hands with you.

A solemn pledge of love. I only silently guard, accompanying you, is my responsibility. Your food, clothing, shelter and transportation are guarded by me.

Your health and happiness walk with me. This is the different way young and old people seek happiness. Same idea as me, just take it!

Two people who love each other, their respect for each other is like a guest, and it is a higher level. It's not the same thing as being respectful to your guests. Two people who love each other are easy to lack wisdom and restraint because of love, and it is easy to hurt each other with selfishness in love, which in turn makes the other party gradually lose their love for themselves.

Respecting each other is an art of getting along. Modern people have an emotional foundation in love, not a situation where there were no feelings in ancient times. So this kind of love is not selfish, it is more mature.

Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng "gambled on books to consume the fragrance of tea". It refers to a kind of joy of life. It's not really angry or playful.

In today's society, there are fewer and fewer good wives and mothers. The so-called personality and strength are common everywhere. Most of the girls who can really respect each other are kind, benevolent, gentle, and wise girls.

Often, such girls can finally be truly happy. Therefore, the process of changing oneself through hard work, understanding and tolerance is itself a kind of self-cultivation.

In real life, it can be realized that once a quarrel arises, it is not easy to be controlled. Love is a kind of ability, the first ability is to learn to control their emotions, when quarrelling, especially girls are emotional and irrational, it is easier to vent emotions and dissatisfaction unscrupulously, do not control it, will not choose words, and even fight to hurt fate and feelings, this is not what Li Qingzhao said "Yaqu". Husband and wife are the core of the family, the family must be valued by harmony, the family and everything is prosperous, how can the chicken and dog be prosperous?

The so-called "respect each other as a guest" should not be compared with his words, just experience the spirit, in fact, it is to respect each other, get along harmoniously, and use the kindness and wisdom of women to harmonize the harmony of the family.

People have always regarded respecting each other as guests and raising eyebrows as the highest state of marriage. Perhaps, as a country of etiquette in China, a marriage like Pentax should be the best choice. However, I don't think so.

Admittedly, I can't deny that it's not good to respect each other. However, if the husband and wife are polite to the host and the guests, is this kind of marriage still interesting?..Qingzhi Nalan is still virtuous and yearns for Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng's elegant taste of "gambling books and pouring the fragrance of tea", wouldn't it be a hundred times better to fight like a guest than to respect each other?..

Of course, there is also the necessary politeness between husband and wife. So, I don't think it's very good to be respectful.

The above is only a humble opinion.

ps: Coincidentally, I have also written an article about respecting each other and raising eyebrows in the past, and it is also to discuss whether it is good to respect each other and raise eyebrows. However, I have always felt that this kind of marriage is not good.