What should I do when I see that others are better than me?

Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person. Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then.

When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others." "When I'm loved, I think:

It's a blessing to be loved! But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by. Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart.

Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears. Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime.

Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world. The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **?

Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent. There are many people who have no soul.

I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world. He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did.

Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

Hehe, you are a little inferior, you see others excellent because you compare your own shortcomings with others' strengths, and you should compare your own strengths with others' strengths.

When you see that others are better than you, first of all, you have to ask yourself, whether you are not good enough, or you are not working hard enough, and maybe there is another possibility, that is, these are not your strengths at all, you are not capable of doing better, but all this is not a reason for low self-esteem, nor is it a reason to admit that you are inferior to others, these are the motivations, everyone thinks about their goals every day, and we often think about what our goals are (of course, not without tooth decay = = ) when we are thinking about these nonsensical questions Why don't you target these people Anything, anything, anyone can be targeted by you. When I was very young, my parents always said that I was not as good as this, not as good as that, and even I felt that I was not as good as them, and they were all better than me, and I was willing to fall for a while, but in the end, I couldn't stand this kind of accusation, I couldn't stand the discriminatory eyes of others, so I started to target them, from low to high, one by one, and they said that I was not as good at studying as others, so I was admitted to a better school than him in the high school entrance examination, and indeed I did it I scored 120 points higher than him in the high school entrance examination Everyone bullied me and said that I was weak and easy to bully Then I surpassed them Everyone will fight Just to see if a person dares or not I did the same I did it Now no one bullies me Of course I will not bully others because of this I pursue ** Pursue the highest level of guitar At the beginning, everyone said I was stupid and I couldn't do anything Then I took them as a goal to surpass them Now those who say I'm stupid They are still intoxicated with their achievements at that time and are laughing at other rookies And I've long since left them far behind, and now the same people say that a person is as good as me, or even better than me, and they leave me and throw themselves into his arms, so this time, I'm aiming at this person, and I'm trying to surpass him, to be above him, to give him the punishment he deserves for taking away other people's things, and when you see that others are better than you, you may be confused because of this, and you may fall because of this, but you can't keep falling because of this, and the color of life is not officially in the countless transcendences, learn to believe in yourself, learn to find what you are good at Don't always use your own shortcomings to compare yourself with others, life is for your own happiness, not to compare with others, as the saying goes, people are more popular than people, I believe that sooner or later, someone will use you to compare others, saying that you are better than them, and this kind of excellence, others can never surpass.

When doing one thing, don't care too much about other people's ideas or opinions, everything depends on yourself in the majority, simplify your own things, don't forget to think complicated, think too much is sad and laborious, troubles are almost self-inflicted, unhappy is to see a person's mentality.

As the saying goes, people are more angry than people, don't care about other people's strange eyes, and take the road under your own feet. If I first feel very inferior, but inferiority is a kind of psychology that many people have, and it is very normal, so I must make myself strive to be as good as him, and then I can confidently stand side by side with him.

I understand very well that when faced with the situation of "he is strong and I am weak", I like a person who is much better than myself, in fact, sometimes I really feel inferior, because he knows the knowledge and fields that you don't know much before, so you will feel that you will be very different from him, if it is a negative person, you will say that I and him are impossible, he is so good that we can never be, how I can become excellent can not reach my own kind of confusion and embarrassment, if I encounter this situation in terms of feelings, I am moved, inevitably added another injury and low self-esteem. Whenever this happens, it's best to put aside those bad emotions first, calm down, and analyze the situation. Sort out the reasoning, and then you will know how to do it.

<> the person you like is better than you, and then work hard to improve yourself and strive to match, and finally you will find that liking is just liking. This process makes us very tired and confused, when we look away, there are many excellent people, but the excellent is theirs, they are still themselves, but they have also become excellent. He doesn't like you yet, which means that there must be a shining point in him that attracts him.

Why should you be inferior, shouldn't you be proud?

In order to consolidate your love and prevent changes: if you have the opportunity, you can try your best to study more, read more books, you can also take self-examinations, try to have a common interest in language with him, and do your best to narrow the gap with him Men and women. You dare to tear apart your weaknesses to show others, which shows that you are very honest, but at the same time you are also stubborn and strong.

I felt that if I were you, I would no longer contact him, and I broke off this thought, because I was afraid that you would not be able to control him. , love is your love and my willingness, no need to be inferior, as long as you work hard, follow fate, bless you with happiness, love is sweet, grow old together.

I think this is a good opportunity, you don't give up, don't be presumptuous, you should show your advantages, you should dress up, you should make money, you must chase her.

Be confident, pick a suitable time to confess, it is best to be together, if you are rejected, it doesn't matter, don't be discouraged, at least you have worked hard, no regrets.

I also want to become better, of course, don't feel inferior, and boldly confess to her, no matter what the result is.

You should work hard to make yourself better, to reach the same heights as each other, and you will naturally have common topics.

Then you should make yourself better, so that you can keep up with the footsteps of others and be worthy of each other.

The more excellent the defeated people, the more diligent the wealthier the people, and the more humble and humble the people are. The root cause of this phenomenon is that good people can always see better than themselves, while mediocre people always see worse than themselves.

For the word excellent, many people should be limited to personal ability or the number of honors obtained to measure, in fact, it can be seen everywhere in life, why do you say that?

Suppose two people are getting along with each other, even if the person who re-votes for peace will have contradictions, disagreements and disagreements, and then whether it is right or wrong, if you are the one, no matter what your opinion is, you acquiesce to yourself and no longer argue with her nonsensically, when you make this small step to retreat, in fact, it is not that she wins, but that you are more tolerant and tolerant, and you are better than her.

In another way, when a person does something sorry for you, you are not arguing endlessly,-for-tat, but not worrying, indicating that she is not good, but because you are excellent. But this tolerance also has a certain limit, and it must also be within a reasonable range, which does not mean that she can trample on your principle at will and intensify it on the original basis.

In fact, many things are not as serious as you think, and trying to make yourself happy is the most important thing!