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Among today's young students, many people do not pay attention to proper etiquette, and the concept of etiquette is weak, which leads to a decline in ideology and morality. Some people are not respectful, polite, or polite in school; doesn't know how to address others in society, and even does what he wants, full of foul language; At home, it is not uncommon to not know how to respect the elders, to be self-respecting, and to do whatever you want, and these phenomena have to cause us to think deeply. Adolescent learning"Etiquette"It is necessary to learn to respect others as a starting point, and etiquette itself is an external manifestation of respect for people"Etiquette"From the words, the words come from the heart, only from the heart of respect for people, there will be proper etiquette, words and deeds, respect for others is the necessary and primary attitude of contact between people.
Learn"Etiquette"It is necessary to focus on practice, and a person's etiquette can only be reflected in words and deeds, and it cannot be said whether a person has it without saying or moving"Etiquette"On the basis of understanding the requirements of etiquette, everyone should dare to show their civilized and polite image in their daily words and deeds and in their usual dealings with others. Some students also know to be civilized and polite, but when they are in public or meet people they don't know very well, their ..."Etiquette"The norm will not be able to play, which is a sign of their lack of self-confidence.
If you want to be a true gentleman, you must have a gentlemanly demeanor, social morality, and connotation; If you want to become a real lady, you need to have a high level of personal accomplishment in temperament, conversation, dress, etc. In modern civilized society, etiquette has become the foundation for building good interpersonal relationships. In this society, only by learning how to respect people and how to get along with others in a civilized manner can people truly stand on their own feet in society, can they respect and love themselves, and can they create a harmonious humanistic environment and civilized society.
Let us call for etiquette, call for civilization, and call for the near future when our campus will no longer have curly hair, dyed hair, and images with various ornaments; Calling that in the near future, there will be no trace of our campus riding bicycles; In the near future, the students of our middle schools will speak civilized language and do civilized things.
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If you lose today, you don't count as a failure, because tomorrow will come again.
If you lose money, you are not a failure, because the value of life is not in the money bag.
If you lose civilization, you are a complete failure, because you have lost the true meaning of being a human being.
Civilization encompasses the relationship between people and between people and society. Its main role is to pursue personal moral perfection, if someone does not pay attention to his own civilized cultivation, will he have a good public civilization? Personal civility and etiquette are fundamental.
If people want to have a good public civilization, they must first start from themselves and from their surroundings. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun said: "If China wants to exist and compete in the world, its first is to establish people, and then people will do everything."
The meaning of "establishing people" is to improve people's thinking and civilization cultivation, and people's civilization cultivation is not innate, but constantly improved by the day after tomorrow. To improve personal cultivation, we must first devote ourselves to reading and studying, and improve our cognitive level; When cognition reaches a certain level, it has the ability to distinguish between right and wrong; With the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil, we must correct our mentality, not violate our conscience, and strive to make our words and deeds conform to moral standards, so that our self-cultivation will be perfected. This is what the ancients said:
Knowledge, knowledge, sincerity, righteousness, self-cultivation. Perfecting one's moral cultivation will have the foundation for promoting social and public civilization.
And the civilized atmosphere of a society also has a great influence on its people. Why? I believe that some students have been to Europe or Japan, and they have experienced it firsthand.
Don't talk about the big ones, just look at the little things like crossing the road. As long as the red light is on, even if there is not a single car on the road, foreigners will never cross the road. They believe that this is a public civility that must be observed.
Let's ask, in such an atmosphere, who would run a red light unscrupulously? That's where the power of the social climate comes in. But if we don't start with ourselves, where does this social atmosphere come from?
We have been educated in civilized etiquette since childhood, and many students can talk about civilized etiquette endlessly. But seeing lunch boxes and drink bottles discarded everywhere on campus, listening to the swear words spit out by some students, how can you not teach people to be heartbroken! Are we all "giants of speech, dwarves of action"?
Wang Shouren, a scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said, "Knowledge is the idea of doing, and doing is the kung fu of knowledge; Knowledge is the beginning of action, and action is the completion of knowledge; Knowing and doing is an ontology and a kung fu. Knowing but not doing, just not knowing. "What is the difference between the fact that we have received education in civilized manners, but we ourselves are stingy in fulfilling them, or even doing the opposite, and never receiving social education!
Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must work hard from this "unity of knowledge and action", work hard from our own words and deeds, and bid farewell to uncivilized behavior.
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Every morning, a ray of local sunshine shines in front of my bed, and civilized etiquette begins its wonderful journey of the day. Look! Under the blue sky, the birds are flying freely, and that is because there is civilized etiquette.
Listen! The little bird stood on the branch to say hello, and the crisp chirping sound drifted to the end of the cape. That's because there is civilized etiquette.
However, when you see those spitting people, he will be laughed at by the birds. When you see someone discarding leftover banana peels on the ground, the birds feel sorry for them. Of course, the creation of civilization requires us to use our brains, erect civilized signs in the grass, and gently speak civilized words from our mouths on crowded streets.
And to write some poems about civilized etiquette, I also prepared one: Civilization is in a wonderful journey, we must also pay attention to the places we have not been to, when we breathe fresh air and spit out the medicine of civilization, then, you have achieved civilized etiquette. At that time, you have done civilized etiquette.
That's a fun game, it's up to you to care, please honor the civilized etiquette. When the sun was driven down the hillside and the afterglow of the setting sun sprinkled over the earth, the civilized etiquette continued to work, he was already tired, and it was we who should help it. I remember seeing many civilized ads :
We have to put the garbage on the ground in the trash can, don't make loud noises in public places, and don't spit&hllip;These are what we should do, civilization is the bits and pieces of life, to open the door of civilization, we must start from the small things in life, everyone has a stop civilization lamp to see if you will turn it on. Whenever you open the door of civilization, he will open a new world for you, whenever you turn on the lamp of civilization, he will light the voyage for you, whenever you experience the name of the text, he will become a guide for you, and whenever you discover new secrets, he will guide you in life. Civilization is at my feet, civilization is in my heart, and I believe that there will be two words in everyone's heart - civilization, always remember: "Civilization and etiquette accompany me." ”
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Civilization, a word that is not unfamiliar, has run through the historical trajectory of China for 5,000 years, crossed the long history of Huaxia Haohao soup, and has been passed down to this day. China is known as an ancient civilization and a country of etiquette, with three outlines and five constants in ancient times, and now there are five stresses and four beauties, and the civilized river water follows the waves of the Yellow River and the blue waves of the Yangtze River, and is constantly beating on the land of China, knocking on the soul of every Chinese son and daughter, and washing the soul of every Chinese son and daughter.
In ancient times, there was a hole to melt the pear, which is a civilization that respects the elder brother; There is Chengmen Lixue, which is a civilization that respects teachers and respects the way; There are three migrations of Meng's mother, which is a civilization that cares for the younger generations; There are mountains and flowing waters, which is a civilization where friends respect and love each other; There are cases with eyebrows, which is a civilization where husband and wife respect each other like guests.
However, the once incomparably brilliant and dazzling Chinese civilization has now become dim and lost its original brilliance, while the thousands of pearls in the long river of history have been covered with a layer of sedimentary dirt by the glitz and noise of the world, which cannot be erased. When the balance of morality and interests has been seriously tilted, when people are deaf to the norms of civilization, when people's hearts are disturbed by worldly fame and fortune, can we still see the faint light of civilization and hear the earnest teachings of our ancestors? Is the name of an ancient civilization and a country of etiquette still undeserved in the world with undeserved perseverance and has never been overthrown?
It is a sad thing that this civilization is suffering from merciless destruction, such as the erosion of precious books by silverfish, the spit and littering of the streets, the destruction of public goods, the appearance of small advertisements on clean walls, the fewer and fewer people giving up their seats on buses, the increasing number of people competing to get on the bus, the pollution of large rivers, the cutting down of forests, and the ...... of a large number of precious species on the brink of deathIt's time for us to do something to make amends!
Civilization should not only be put in the mouth, but also in the heart and manifested in action.
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