What is the real strength of a gentleman, and what do you think of the strength of a gentleman

He believes that a gentleman should do the following four aspects in order to be truly strong: First, harmony but not flow. Harmony refers to a state in which there are differences but they can be well integrated without confrontation.

On the premise of standing on the correct position, there are three states, one is that the opposite side is assimilated, the other is that he is assimilated by the opposite, and the third is that he is not assimilated, seeking common ground while reserving differences, and respecting each other. The second situation is flow, that is, the same flow and pollution. But if you are wrong and corrected, it is not a stream, but a follow.

Harmony without flow is the highest state of harmony, which is not only a distinct attitude towards life, but also a rare wisdom of life. Therefore, only a person with a strong mind and clever means can do it, and such a person is naturally a strong person. The second is neutrality and impartiality.

The key point here is not to rely on a certain force, to find a backer, and to maintain its own independent pattern. There will be several forces in an organization to a greater or lesser extent, and these forces will sometimes coincide and sometimes oppose each other. Individuals often choose a certain powerful power group, but the power is often temporary, and feng shui will also take turns, will you still be attached to it when the time comes?

If you continue to be attached, then there will be no eggs under the nest, and if you are no longer attached and switch to other doors, it will become a wall grass, and it will be even more despised. The key to how to be impartial is neutrality. Neutrality here is not only about maintaining neutrality among various forces, but also about maintaining neutrality and values.

As mentioned at the beginning of the mean, in the unspoken words of joy, anger, sorrow and happiness, the middle is the origin of the laws of nature. Neutrality is actually about maintaining one's correct position in accordance with the laws of nature. Immaturity does not mean disagreeing with or disapproving with the views and practices of a certain force, as long as they conform to the views and practices of China, they should agree with them.

Impartiality is just not driven by immediate interests to abandon "neutrality" and tend to become inflammatory. If harmony without flow is aimed at neutrality between individuals and individuals, then neutrality without bias is aimed at harmony between individuals and groups. The third and fourth articles are aimed at the relationship between the individual and the country, and how the strong individual should behave in the world under the situation of the state and the non-way.

Of course, the national way refers to the country's political clarity and when it is moving forward on the normal track of development, the strong at this time should follow the trend, not to change their ideas in order to reflect their own strength, and to do things that block the progress of social progress, but to promote the progress of the country, which should be undoubted. But when the country's politics are in a dark period (that is, the country has no way), these four words will not change until death can be described as ironclad. On the basis of not changing one's ambitions, those who have the ability to change the overall situation, and those who are incapable of cleaning themselves cannot waver until death on the issue of not changing their aspirations.

In ancient times, there was Wen Tianxiang, and now there is Qu Qiubai, and this kind of strong man who has not changed to death in history can be described as a galaxy, and their integrity is still praised by others.

Tianxingjian, a gentleman strives for self-improvement. The terrain is a gentleman with virtue.

A gentleman must argue, and the argument will prevail.

A gentleman, a learned person, is better able to distinguish between right and wrong than ordinary people, and understands deeper truths, so he must win in debate, and he can win in debate over others.

What is Gentleman? A gentleman is a person who seems to be upright, fair, and just. But experiments have shown that everyone has their own selfishness, which is irrefutable, so why are there such seemingly selfless people?

I can only say that everything you see is not necessarily the truth, it may be that everything is a falsehood, people's hearts, the true thoughts of others, you can never guess for sure, even if it is a person who has an intimate relationship with you, so you can't blindly think that a so-called gentleman is how fair and honest, this kind of person is the most pretended, and most of them are hypocrites, that is, they like to stumble on you in secret, so there are hypocrites, real villains, as far as I see, I think we can't blindly listen to the one-sided words of others, and we should have our own thoughts and considerations, so that we can live comfortably in this unpredictable world.

It is better to offend a gentleman than a villain.

What is the difference between a gentleman and a villain.

How could a righteous person like Xiang Yu take advantage of others' danger. Only a hooligan like Liu Bang doesn't care about fame and morality, and kills Xiang Haojie on all sides. A true gentleman will choose to hand over the peak on the battlefield instead of sticking a knife in the back.

The disdain of the item is for the gentleman's demeanor. But Xiang Yu didn't know that the general trend was gone. Maybe he doesn't care about success or failure, it is his original intention to leave a name for the ages and be famous for centuries.

First of all, I like Xiang Yu very much, and I don't like Liu Bang very much, but objectively speaking, I personally think that it is neither Xiang Yu's woman's benevolence nor Xiang Yu's gentlemanly demeanor. Hongmen Yan didn't kill Liu Bang because Xiang Yu didn't realize that Liu Bang would be his future opponent, not only did Xiang Yu not realize it, but no one in the entire Xiang Yu group realized that Fan Zeng really wanted to kill Liu Bang, but it wasn't because he realized that Liu Bang would be Xiang Yu's future opponent and killed him. Liu Bang dared to go to the Hongmen banquet, in addition to having no way not to go, in fact, he also saw through Xiang Yu and would not realize this problem.

The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and true bosom friends will not meet often. But both sides are often worried. In terms of interests, two people are one person. There will be no distinction between you and mine.

This is the key is a "light" word, which is to make a vivid metaphor for the friendship between "gentlemen", and use a realistic material and sensible thing that everyone has to illustrate, abstract exchanges and feelings between people. The lightness of the water is naturally a contrast with tea and wine. It is said that the interaction between gentlemen is more important than worldly money and materials.

The implication is that this kind of interaction can flow like flowing water.

The various ideas in the Confucian classics seem to be contradictory, but if you look deeply, they are actually just different choices according to the actual situation, which is the golden mean in Confucius and Mencius, and the so-called golden mean is to always make the most appropriate way to deal with it according to the actual situation of the situation, and this kind of response is not slick and speculative or ignorant and pedantic, but the best way to deal with it completely positively.

Sacrificing oneself for righteousness, seeing righteousness and courage" is in the case of the world has a way, people with lofty ideals and benevolence, no survival to harm benevolence, and killing to become benevolent, and the gentleman would rather sacrifice himself at a critical moment to maintain the right path, but also adhere to the principle and not give in. And when there is no way in the world, the gentleman must be wise to protect himself from standing under the dangerous wall, instead of stubbornly sacrificing himself meaninglessly, because even if the gentleman sacrifices his life to fight, it will not help the implementation of the way of heaven.

A gentleman is the same for everyone, and there is basically no difference. The interests of the villain come first.

A gentleman will think about others when he does things, and he will leave room for others, while villains only have their own interests in their eyes.