Both parties are secretly in love with each other, is the crush really liking each other?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    From the perspective of society, you should take the initiative, and my point of view is that whether it is a man or a woman, as long as you like the other party, you don't have to care who should take the initiative, and there is no ** rule in the current society that men must take the initiative. Your current situation is also quite optimistic, but in the end you still need to take the initiative, have you ever thought that this person is yourself, although I said that you don't have to care about who should take the initiative This is my own opinion. What can be done in this case is to keep changing and try to get along with her as much as possible, I don't recommend that you do it in one step, I think you should first use some more subtle language to hint at it, let the other party have a spectrum first, so as not to have an unexpected thing to happen to everyone**.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Two people have a crush on each other, why care who takes the initiative, if you miss it, you will regret it, take advantage of this relationship, don't waste time and waste each other's feelings, be honest, so as not to miss day and night, do you think this taste is good?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Smile and take the initiative to say hello It's a good start.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is there such a good thing that the parties still don't know how to do?

    The white spoon of the female horse is unreasonable.

    Do you think there's another way to do it than to break the window paper?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it's a man, take the initiative, after all, men, it's not a problem to have fewer opportunities to meet.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't want to regret it, then try it, don't wait for her to be with someone else! You regret it again, I hope you can succeed!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Just say to her: Can I have a chance to be your boyfriend?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A dead horse is a live horse doctor, and it is worth fighting for face!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Start by becoming a good friend.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    How do you know she's also having a crush on you?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A crush is a genuine liking for each other. In my opinion,It's because I really like it that there is the fact of "crush".

    Some people say that you may just like his appearance, or his talent, and don't know him at all, how can you say that you really like him? What I want to say is that appreciation is also liking, liking from the heart, isn't this true liking?

    Crushes, according to my investigation and understanding, can be divided into the following situations:

    1. Youth is ignorant, and he wants to stop talking

    This level is often the first crush, youthful ignorance, and just a slight throbbing. But although youth is short, the memory is always the deepest. At this time, you hide your liking in your heart, and when your good classmates and friends talk about whether you like each other, you will deny it and don't want to admit it, but you always think of each other in your mind.

    When I was in high school, I went to a key high school in our county, and when I was in the second year of high school, I was a very beautiful and fair-skinned female classmate at the back table, so I started a crush. She grew up in the city, and the conditions are very superior in all aspects, at that time I was a dirt bun from the countryside, black and thin, and very average-looking, it was impossible to "climb" her at all, so I could only secretly have a crush, usually chatting like a friend, and trying to hide my emotions. Until I graduated, I didn't contact him a few times, and I gradually didn't have any intersections.

    2. Pay silently and look forward to being seen

    The crush at this stage is more humble, but he wants to be seen by him, hoping to achieve positive results with him. You will secretly pay attention to the information of your circle of friends, silently follow your every move behind your back, try your best to be alone with your partner, and laugh at your **. However, dreams often end in disgrace.

    You don't know you, but you'd better fall in love with me", is the best interpretation. You are not sure if they like you, so they often choose to be tempting, such as asking you if you are free for weekends and holidays, such as being in a bad mood and talking to you to see what your attitude is.

    3. Mutual crushes

    The ideal state of crush is to have a crush on each other, both parties have a crush on each other, and they have a good impression of each other, as the so-called "I am about to confess, and you just happen to be "typing". According to the investigation of psychological experts, it is easy for two people to have a tacit understanding when they live together, which is the so-called Lingxi, and their behaviors and thoughts are common.

    The person behind the secret ta, desperate, even willing to give his life for it

    I believe that everyone who has watched "Twinkle Twinkle Twinkle Star" knows that Zhang Wansen is almost the ceiling of the crush world, and that kind of sincerity even transcends life. Even if it is just film and television fiction, it also reflects reality to a certain extent.

    At this stage of the crush, everyone is "Zhang Wansen", as if all the light in life is on him, and he can't accommodate others.

    This crush is almost the best fodder for traumatic literature. "Unrequited love makes me full of literary brilliance, and my manuscript talent is not inferior to Schopenhauer", for the sake of my crush ta, I can make myself stronger and better, just to clear the obstacles for him behind my back and eliminate all difficulties.

    In short, crush is a special kind of mute, it is suitable to say it, don't hide it, I hope that all crushes can be brave and can harvest their love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    One feeling that many people will have, that is a crush. I like someone very much, but I can't let him know, or I don't dare to confess, or I'm afraid that after taking that step, I will never be able to go back. Above friends, below lovers.

    The state of the crush should be a sentence she inadvertently said, you can remember it for a long, long time, you say you like perfume, I will work hard to save money, try to give you a gift and pretend not to care.

    It's sad to have a crush on someone, and it's also happy to have a crush on someone. You can imagine a lot about the future of you and him, you can have a strong motivation to do a lot of things, you know that you are doing a lot of things for him, you will not give up and persist until the end, you will do a lot of things for him, but he doesn't know, you won't mention it, maybe this kind of relationship is very humble, in the end you will realize your own humility, but you just don't want to give up, you always feel that one day he can have a good impression of you. So you stick to it day by day, just for a future that may not be fruitful.

    Many times crushes happen to girls, because girls often don't dare to tell the boy when they like someone, maybe they are afraid of failure, but many times they actually take the initiative and really have a story. Because of the fear of losing this friend, because of the fear of confession failure, so I don't work hard, so there are too many people who miss out. But with so many precedents, there are still many people who choose to give up.

    But in fact, if you don't know each other, there is nothing to be ashamed of confessing, it may be a failure, but it does not affect the relationship between you and him, not to mention that there may not be an intersection between you in the future, so if you like it, you should boldly confess, don't be afraid of failure, failure is a big deal to zero. If you know each other very well, you may need to think about whether you need to confess, if you don't dare, in fact, you can let the other party roughly know that you like him, maybe he also likes you, and you can have a better relationship. If you don't like it like that, then it's just like that, back to your original friends, it's still the same.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's definitely ah, a crush is to secretly like each other, and the person with a crush will have low self-esteem, often feel that the person you like is particularly good, and feel that you are not worthy, because you secretly like it in your heart, so you don't dare to say it easily, hide it in your heart, of course, it's sincere, if it's not sincere, how can you talk about a crush, you are willing to like that person silently behind your back, even if it is not realized on the day, you are willing to put it in your heart, and you dare not say it, because you are too afraid of being rejected, and your crush is often a long time. More than anyone else's like, just like **, Xu Sui in the confession is the same as Zhou Jingze, she likes Zhou Jingze more than other girls, she is sincere, any person who has a crush is really liked, and she likes it in her heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because you like each other, you have a crush on each other, but whether you really like each other depends on whether your liking for each other is based on worship, or whether you have an experience with each other and then like it. So whether a crush is a genuine liking for each other depends on the situation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, of course. There are many kinds of likes, and it doesn't have to be a strong possessiveness to really like it, liking someone is hoping that she is good, even if you like it secretly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If the other party has no partner, a crush is undoubtedly the best choice.

    In this way, it will not affect the lives of the two of you, you silently like him in your heart, and you use your way to influence him and express your love for him.

    After all, when a person sits next to the fire, he can also feel the temperature, so you have to see his reaction, whether he loves your reaction.

    A crush is very uncomfortable for the crush, and the crush may be uncomfortable and bored, and it is necessary to stop it in time at such a time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The crush is just what you think you like him, and it's basically perfect, but when you are really together, you will find that he is also an ordinary person.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, you should say it out loud to him, I like you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. A manifestation of a crush on both sides. 1.

    will often secretly look at each other, because they don't know each other's minds, and they are afraid that the other party will hate themselves, so they will secretly pay attention to each other; You may look at each other. See the other person's eyes. 2.

    Both will think about each other but will not tell each other; 3.Both people will be jealous because of each other's friends of the opposite sex. Because I like it, I'm jealous.

    The performance of Lu Sui's crush on both sides. 1.will often secretly look at each other, because they don't know each other's minds, and they are afraid that the other party will hate themselves, so they will secretly pay attention to each other; You've long thought they'd look at each other.

    See the other person's eyes. 2.Both will think about the opponent but will not tell the other; 3.

    Both people will be jealous because of each other's friends of the opposite sex. Because I like it, I'm jealous.

    4。In fact, the crush on the stupid forest attack is a sweet and painful thing, that is, I am worried that the other party knows about Chuntuan and I am afraid that he will not know, but the most fearful thing is that both parties do not know that the other party likes them.

    Hope mine is helpful to you. ♥️

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Summary. Honey, seeing you ask this question, I wonder if you have a crush on you! I'm glad for you!

    In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet, and it is even more difficult to meet the person you like. If you have a crush on someone, but you don't know if they have a crush on you too. Generally speaking, it is easy to find out if you can observe more!

    Crushes generally secretly pay attention to anything about the other person, and because they are not sure, they will secretly pay attention. Two people will think about each other when they do things, but they don't tell each other. If you think he has a heart for you, you might as well tell him!

    Honey, seeing you ask this question, I wonder if you have a crush on you! If the first person is really happy for you! In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet, and it is even more difficult to meet the person you like.

    If you have a crush on someone, but you don't know if they have a crush on you too. So generally speaking, you can observe more, and it is easy to find it! Crushes generally secretly pay attention to anything about each other, and because they are not sure, they will secretly close the muffled hand.

    Two people will think about each other when they do things, but they don't tell each other. If you think he has a heart for you, you might as well tell him! Let's talk about a just good relationship!

    Girls don't want to give you micro because they don't want to be friends with you.

    It's all possible.

    Probably embarrassed.

    You may also not want to add.

    So how do you think she's interesting to you?

    There should be, but the reason for the rejection should be that I am leaving this factory, I said that I will leave tomorrow, deliberately making excuses that I have a boyfriend, is this nonsense.

    If two people look at each other, will the person next to them open out?

    Girls look at each other, how boys look at each other, look at it.

    How do you usually get in touch?

    Possibly! If there is a misunderstanding, it is better to unravel it.

    Girls sometimes think too much.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Summary. Good afternoon, dear<>

    More often, a crush refers to having a love or affection for another person, but for various reasons, this love cannot be declared. The reasons are usually nothing more than timidity, one or both partners already have a partner, and so on. A crush is a type of love that is not reciprocated and is even asked to give.

    The phenomenon of crushes occurs in a wide range of age groups, whether they are young people, teenagers, middle-aged people or the elderly, but the phenomenon is more common among teenagers. Similarly, the phenomenon of crushes occurs equally in men and women.

    Whether the crush is unilateral or bilateral.

    Good afternoon, dear<>

    More often, a crush refers to having a love or affection for another person, but for various reasons, this love cannot be declared. The reasons are usually nothing more than timidity, one or both partners already have a partner, and so on. A crush is a type of love that is not reciprocated and is even asked to give.

    The phenomenon of crushes occurs in a wide range of age groups, whether they are young people, teenagers, middle-aged people or the elderly, but the phenomenon is more common among teenagers. Similarly, the phenomenon of crushes occurs equally in men and women.

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