I want to die, what should I do

Maybe many people have had such thoughts, but sometimes we are really involuntarily, old and young, life still has to be lived, death can not solve any problems, it will only bring pain to relatives and comfort to enemies.

Therefore, no matter what hardships and hardships life brings us, we can only face them bravely, and there is always a way to solve them.

You're not even afraid of death, what are you afraid of?

Seeing your description in just two lines, I can feel a heavy emotional ......I really feel sorry for you like this.

It is said that home is a warm harbor, but from your description, it seems that all you feel is pain and coldness, so much so that you want to give up your life ......

Q&A mailbox: I often have thoughts of wanting to die, what should I do?

You said that "you grew up in a beating and scolding environment and listened to all kinds of ugly words", which shows that your parents' parenting style is simple and rude, which makes you unable to feel the love of your parents and the warmth of home.

Then you talk about "your parents have been in a cold war for many years", and you can understand why it is difficult for them to take care of you because the relationship between their husband and wife has not been handled well. In the family, the relationship between husband and wife is greater than the parent-child relationship, and a couple who are always arguing or fighting coldly are already scarred by each other in the relationship, and naturally have no time to take care of their children. Even, sometimes the beating and scolding of you may have nothing to do with you, maybe they are venting their emotions.

You also said, "When I was in elementary school, I wanted to die, and I really can't get over this hurdle lately, and I cry every night." It seems that your emotions have accumulated at a very early age, so what has happened recently that your emotions that have accumulated for years are difficult to control?

Q&A mailbox: I often have thoughts of wanting to die, what should I do?

Of course, it doesn't matter if something has happened recently, but the accumulation of emotions over the years really can't be ignored. In your heart, there is a lot of sadness and anger, and they have nowhere to release it, but to point at yourself and attack yourself, so you have the thought of wanting to die - suicide is directing your anger at yourself.

Considering that your inner emotions are more intense, and even affect life and death, such a reciprocal and long-term accumulation may lead to depression, and even lead to depression. It is recommended that you go to a professional hospital for a check-up, and if you are diagnosed with depressed mood or depression, it can be adjusted with medication. At the same time, you can also work with a counsellor to deal with the impact of past childhood trauma and gradually improve your ability to cope with and deal with intense emotions to help you get through this difficult time.

Summary. I committed suicide once when I was in junior high school, and as a result, the pesticides I used to commit suicide were diluted many times by my grandfather with water, and I didn't die, and since then I have wanted to open it, people will die when they should die, and so many people die in various accidents every moment, car accidents, fires, **, etc. But at the same time, there are many people who have survived all kinds of dangerous things, don't be bent on dying, it's not easy for you to live until now, you will die when you should die, you want to die because you want to escape from reality, in fact, those things are not so terrible, in the face of it, will that thing make you die?

If you have to face it, you want to die anyway, what are you afraid of; If it won't let you die, then you have to face it even more, you have the heart to die, and you don't care so much, just do it. When you do it, you realize how ridiculous the idea that you want to die.

I want to die now, what should I do?

I committed suicide once when I was in junior high school, and as a result, the pesticides I used to commit suicide were diluted many times by my grandfather with water, and I didn't die, and since then I have wanted to open it, people will die when they should die, and so many people die in various accidents every moment, car accidents, fires, **, etc. But at the same time, there are many people who have survived all kinds of dangerous things, don't be bent on dying, it's not easy for you to live until now, you will die when you should die, you want to die because you want to escape from reality, in fact, those things are not so terrible, in the face of it, will that thing make you die? If you have to face it, you want to die anyway, what are you afraid of; If it won't let you die, then you have to face it even more, you have the heart to die, and you don't care so much, just do it.

When you do it, you realize how ridiculous the idea that you want to die.

I don't want to persuade you with stories of survival or disability. Because, for most people, they are not afraid of anything, but they are most afraid of death. But you, with the exception of those who are not even afraid of death, what other questions can be frightening?

Live well! Because, there are many people who are worse than you.

I had the same thought. It was probably also at the age of 26 (2010). No job, no money, no friends.

The family doesn't care. Less than 100 dollars in his pocket. You can only spend 5 yuan a day to eat.

But I'm fine now. At least the problem of food and clothing is solved. And a girlfriend.

I would love to go back to 26 years again. Because I gave up a lot of things at that time. A lot of time was wasted.

I don't live now just for myself. It's also for the sake of that old me. It's also the best consolation for me who is dead.

It's easy to die. The difficulties you encounter are not the only ones. Someone must be in the same situation as you.

Even worse. What to do if there is a family discord.

Strangers go looking for what you like to have fun and want.

At least it has more backbone and dignity than the dead.

Don't care too much about other people's feelings, because they don't seem to care too much about you, otherwise you wouldn't be like this, relax your heart a little, and life is more than what is in front of you.

Go to the distance and see the fields.

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What if you want to die but have worries in your heart.

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Dear, if you want to die but you have concerns in your heart, then you still have to live well, can you tell me what you think in your heart?

I went to a new school, I went to another city, I didn't know anyone, school started soon, I still had to stay, I really couldn't accept the feeling of not having friends, I wanted to escape with death, but there were too many things in my heart.

You go to another city, a new school, and you don't know anyone, which makes you feel strange and helpless, right?

Be. Whose choice was it to go to school in another unfamiliar city?

Can you tell me about your concerns?

Summary. Hello, I'm Dabang emotional brother, I'm happy to serve you, I do my best to help you.

I've been in a bad mood, I always want to cry, I have a thought of dying, what's wrong with me?

Hello, I'm Dabang emotional brother, I'm happy to serve you, I do my best to help you.

Hello, according to the symptoms of your condition, the preliminary consideration of this situation is depression, it is recommended that you usually pay attention to relaxing, keep a good mood, avoid excessive stress, tired and stay up late, I wish you health and happiness.

Hello problem analysis: At present, this is a manifestation of anxiety and depression, which is affected by the factors of life on psychological changes and emotional changes, which has not yet reached the severity, and it is necessary to make psychological adjustments as soon as possible to prevent depression and anxiety. Guidance Recommendations:

Therefore, at present, it is necessary to adjust one's life behavior in a targeted manner, achieve the purpose of psychological adjustment through life changes, and have a standardized life behavior plan, just like the curriculum schedule, cultivate hobbies, enrich life content, have physical exercise time every day, outdoor activity time every week, and control coffee and tea drinking.