What can we do so that we don t have such pain that life is worse than death anymore?

Don't say so easily "she is your only one", your real only thing is not going to leave you.

Only those who love each other can stay together for a lifetime, and the person who can stay with you for a lifetime is your "only".

There is nothing wrong with loving someone. But there are many ways to express love for someone, not necessarily if you love her, she must be by your side.

Love her, you should want her to be happy and happy. If she doesn't love you, and you insist on keeping her by your side, if you are unhappy, she will not be happy, let alone happy. If you really love her, let her go. You can love her silently and protect her!

If one day this has your real "only", don't hurt her, just take good care of her!

What belongs to you, you can't push it away; It's not yours, and it's useless to be tied to you.

Feelings are a matter of two people, not your own decision.

Don't discourage yourself, the "one" that truly belongs to you is still waiting for you to discover her. Waiting for you to love her and protect her.

Life still has to go on, you have to learn to regulate your mind. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

Wishing you happiness!

If you want your family and friends to watch you suffer so much, then you will continue to do so, this kind of heart disease, no one can help you, only on your own!!

Find something to do, the earth will not be less who does not turn, remember to give up on you is her loss, she is better than anything can prove.

Find something else to enrich yourself with and don't think about it. Time will dilute everything.

Try to get a dog. Be ruthless and leave him. Time will do the rest.

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, but how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Life is like a mirror, if you smile at him, he laughs, and if you cry at him, he cries. If you feel pain, it must be painful, and if you feel happy, that is happy. Life is inevitably frustrated, more or less, and it is very tiring, but tiredness does not mean pain.

All I think about in my mind is that if I am unhappy, it will be very painful, and if I am unhappy, I will let go, do what I love to do, and find happiness for myself, and my life will not be so painful.

How can you live without pain, your heart should be relaxed, not that your heart is wide, don't be so careful in everything, don't pay too much attention to gains and losses, do your best in everything and don't regret it, don't care too much about other people's evaluations and visions, just do your own thing.

Look at everything, don't take it too seriously, time will dilute everything, and it is not a problem to think about the troubles in front of you in a few years, so live a good current life and be happy.

You need to be cheerful. You want sunshine in your heart. It's good to see everything. Be happy every day in your heart. Everything will pass.

The pain is because you are missing in your heart and do not have a good attitude! Don't overcomplicate things, keep things simple. Let go of everything that makes you feel painful, be your true master, focus your life on yourself, don't care about other people's words and eyes, add some outdoor activities to yourself, enrich your life, and make life colorful!

Be a confident and sunny person! You're the best!

If you want to live a less miserable life, you must first have a good attitude, be full of sunshine for the future life, usually find some study and sports that suit your interests, enrich yourself and cultivate yourself, and forget all the unpleasantness of the past! Change yourself.

A person's life has to go through ups and downs, if you want not to be so painful, first of all, don't compare with others, although you don't have too much money, life is no problem, but your body is great, you don't have loans and borrowings every day, you have enough food and clothing, the mood is let go, today's society is not illegal, you can do whatever you want, how good it is to travel!

If a person pretends to be confident, he will slowly become confident! So pretend not to be painful, and naturally not feel painful when you get used to it.

Everything has to be opened. Don't take everything too seriously. Don't worry about anything. Earn money steadily. Don't be swayed by others. Burn incense and worship the Buddha to calm your own mentality.

Don't think about the unhappiness of the past, look forward, except for birth, old age, sickness and death, everything else is not a big deal, or you can go out for a walk and see the beauty of the world.

Working hard or working hard to make money, first of all, let life be worry-free, and secondly, take a step back in case of trouble, which will reduce pain and increase the happiness index.

If you want to open it, you won't live so painfully. Life is like that, there are ups and downs, and those who want to open up and live are not painful.

Forget everything, don't think about anything, play and eat when you should play, let go of yourself, and you will live a very relaxed and comfortable life.

Good mood, strong immunity, good health. This is the basis of the value of life.

Low desire, little desire, no matter what is done, the mind is quiet, it is the sublimation of the soul.

The pain can be endured, and what can't be endured?

No one cares about "me", so who else do I need to care about?

All living beings are eating, drinking, and sleeping, so what exception do I have?

Work hard, work hard, keep learning, improve yourself, accumulate knowledge, accumulate contacts, and give full play to your strengths.

The most important thing is the mentality, even if you are not doing well, live.

It's tough, if you have an optimistic mindset and be open-minded.

I think it can be easily solved, and it hurts.

Bitterness is also excessive, happiness is also excessive, and there will never be any change.

Change, only your own mentality can be changed, not entangled.

Those unpleasant emotions, face it with optimism, everything will be.

It's okay.

I don't know why you're in so much pain, you're sure you've experienced something particularly important in your life, and you're very tired of supporting yourself! I understand you, too, but I can't help you because I don't know what the specifics are, but I still want to cheer you on!

Life is life, ups and downs, this is life, many people will experience many, many things, and some people may experience more than a hundred times more than you! Think about how they survived, and think about how they turned around gorgeously!

If you think about your current difficulties, maybe they are not worth mentioning at all! People often say that people should be strong, and being strong is not shown when you are having a good time, but when you encounter adversity in life! Come on, you have to remember that your destiny is in your hands!

After all, this is life, this is experience, after a tempered life, it is perfect, after a stormy life is considered mature, not afraid of failure, not afraid of pain, not afraid of injury, afraid of falling and not getting up, sad and sluggish, such people are looked down on by others, even themselves look down on themselves, do a fall, climb up, move forward bravely, enjoy the life of time!

Let him know how to be grateful, let him be sensible, let him grow up, let him understand you. Let go of your mood and live well, after all, your future is still very long, think about the beauty of your motherhood, and be confident in the future. Go for it!

Such a man is not worthy of being a man, don't be discouraged, take care of your body, be ruthless, leave him, find it again, it's boring, someone who doesn't cherish you, no matter how well you do, he will pick on you. We are all female compatriots, we have the ability and ability to support ourselves, we don't need to rely on men, people who really care about you will not only care about themselves, people who really love you will not know how to cherish after losing, live well, life is beautiful, there is no need to waste youth and waste life for an unworthy person, because he is not worthy at all. Also, women must learn to cherish themselves and hope that you can see and leave him.

First of all, I want to say that you must be strong, since you have children, you must not beat him off, otherwise you are killing your own flesh and blood! Secondly, he may have his own problems, I am a woman, but I think your family is not doing it right. Why do you need to ask for a key money?

Since you think 28,000 is not much, what's the point of asking for it? It's like selling a daughter. The gift money is actually given by the man independently, how much is good, and it is good to be filial to his parents after marrying in the future.

Many people are not in harmony because of the issue of gift money, so why bother? I hope you can forgive your boyfriend, get along with him, and raise your child to be a useful person!

Actually, judging from what you said, you are pitiful and cute. Because from your self-report, it can be seen that you are a girl who occasionally spoils.

Misfortune is different, but happiness is the same. There must be a communication problem between the two of you. He's complaining about your family's demand for 10,000, and this request may have dealt him a big blow. So it's possible that he was really entangled in his heart in this matter and couldn't let go.

Since you have deep feelings for him, it means that he actually has shining strengths, so I hope you can take the initiative to talk to him.

Feelings need to be understood, and more importantly, trusted. You should be calm about the problems of both of you, instead of learning to be cold to him. If you continue to stalemate, you will be hurting each other. And it will be more difficult to recover the situation.

Suggestion: Calmly talk to him about how to resolve the current conflict. I hope you both can cherish each other.

I still support you to find true happiness, you can treat you like this when you are pregnant, and when the child is born, you will not have any value at all, think it out for yourself, the person who really loves you will not treat you like this, the long pain is better than the short pain, the final decision is still up to you, if you really have that confidence to change him, you can also choose to persevere. Wishing you happiness!

Can you really not care about him? You can't, because he is the child's father, the person you love, treat it with a normal heart, let him be quiet, let yourself be quiet, and think about how to develop.

If you want to leave him, or change him, no matter which one is very difficult, and the amount of work is also very large, in fact, it is better to give each other a chance, don't be fettered, don't be emotional, tend to try to change first, don't rush to get married, don't ruin yourself.

The world is always like this, one party cherishes the other, and the more the other party cares about it, the more he looks down on the love you give, because he feels that it is already ok to get your heart, and the other is normal when you are air. But you really have to be kind to yourself. If it's someone else, it should hurt you in every possible way at this time.

Everything is unknown, no one can determine the future, maybe when you give birth to a child, he will change his attitude towards you, or maybe it will still be like this, no one can say. Life is gambling, if you bet right, you will be happy for a lifetime, and if you bet wrong, you will suffer for a lifetime. No one can control anyone, only on their own.

I don't know how long ago you have lost yourself, and now you don't seem to wake up, and you have been living in the world of others. Regardless of whether he loves you or not, in terms of his attitude towards you, do you think he deserves your love? Is it worth your effort?

Women don't live in fantasy all the time! Knowing that it won't last long, why are you reluctant to let go. Do you have to wait until it's painful or hurtful to let go?

Also: Do you think that man will make the child happy?