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Episode 19 Communication How to Improve the Aura of Communication.
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As for how to change yourself and break through yourself, it's up to you.
Why do you say that you rely on yourself, that is, you must say your psychological feelings and inner thoughts, don't be afraid!
There is also a general problem with not being able to express yourself, that is, you have no self-confidence and no guts.
Every cheerful person will not have such a problem, and when you are happy, you will share your joy with others.
Remember, to be a cheerful person, you have to treat everything as if it were a comedy!
Finally, I would like to tell you again, what is expression? If you know what that means, you'll understand.
The so-called expression is for you to say your thoughts and emotions! If you don't say it, don't express it.
There is also a reason why you can't express yourself, and that is that you don't have the ability to organize language! Talking a lot will make you perform quite well!
As for not being good at communication, the problem is that I know too little.
When you are not good at talking, you should listen more to how others chat, and at the same time as others chat, you will know some things that you didn't know before.
things, then you will have a little more experience, so that over time, you will know more and more, and after you know more, you will have to go more.
Tell what you know, and when you talk to your friends, you need to know his personality, temperament, hobbies, and joy
Talk more about topics you don't know and the person you're chatting with knows more! In this way, others will also have something to talk about
Talk more, learn more, and after a long time, your eloquence will be exercised!
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Make more friends, the most important thing is humility! Threesomes must have my teacher! Be patient, it will take ten years to train in society, and you will have a qualitative change!
Eat open! To put it bluntly, it's about using each other! There is no friendship at all!
Social reality! Learn to be a man and thank you for drinking wine and eating meat! Friends grow like snowflakes, and the days go by more and more comfortably!
On the contrary, you will be old for the rest of your life, and you will not be able to get aspired, and you will not be able to go on! In the end, he died prematurely!
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For a very simple example, a football lover and a literature lover, the two of them are together, and they have nothing to say So the football lover learns to read some literary works, and the literature lover goes to watch some football news I didn't expect the two of them to be together for a few days, and they feel that they have something to say, and the football lover can teach his football knowledge to the literature lover, and the literature lover will teach his own literary knowledge to the football lover, and the two of them will have something to say.
It can be seen that the key to communicative skills is to cultivate a wide range of interests and hobbies, if the interests are not broad enough, even if you are brave enough to talk to others, you will fall into an embarrassing state if you can't say a few words I have a brother who is like this, always want to improve his communication skills, but still have nothing to say, on the contrary, if you have a wide range of interests, even if you are introverted, you will be more confident in communication because of what you are interested in, and you don't have to worry about communicative stage fright, and finally send you a sentence to please people, it is better to win the trust of people, When communication reaches a certain level, you can't just say things that make people happy, so people will get tired of saying something in-depth, don't read too many communication books, and use that time to go out and practice communication!
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All theories are nonsense, and having more contact with talented people is the last word.
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The hand wants to be in the right frame of mind, calm, relaxed, and talk to others, especially strangers.
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Your situation is a psychological factor, which is commonly known as stage fright. First, you can participate in more social activities after work, which is conducive to improving your ability to cooperate with others, and can also enrich your life, second, you can start with familiar friends to train to sing together in the case of many people, or talk, and then expand to colleagues or people who meet for the first time, in the case of more than a dozen people to give speeches or sing entertainment, and in what situation try to find opportunities for yourself, as long as you take the first step, to overcome this psychological stage fright. I have a way to overcome it by myself at the same time, and I am very successful, and I wish you success soon.
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