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The various emotional catharsis or feedback we encounter in our lives.
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Hello, the prerequisites for the emergence of jealousy: common needs and individual differences. Because differences in individual abilities lead to different outcomes for the same motivation, and the imbalance of the original balance (i.e., the same needs, the same motivations) is the direct source of jealousy.
Therefore, human differences are the main cause of jealousy, and human differences can be divided into: 1. Natural differences: heredity and natural environment; 2. Social differences:
social division of labor, culture and education, etc.; 3. Individual differences: living and working environment.
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Jealousy is a social psychology of interpersonal relationships. It must have the presence of a second or a third person. And this second or third person may be superior to the jealous person in some way, or it may not be superior, but it has some influence on the jealous person.
The production of jealousy psychology is the product of difference and comparison, and belongs to an inner emotional experience. The result of differences and comparisons is that psychological imbalances are formed from differences and comparisons, and based on this, we want to balance this imbalance.
But the approach taken is often negative. Jealousy is always associated with negative emotions such as dissatisfaction, resentment, annoyance, fear, etc., constituting the unique emotions of jealousy psychology. Different jealousy psychology has different jealousy content, but it is mainly manifested in four aspects, which are reputation, status, money, and love.
Some also manifest themselves as a kind of comprehensive generalization, that is, as long as it is owned by others, it is within their jealousy. The following are the specific characteristics: 1. Obvious antagonism The philosophers of the ancient Greek Scottotes believed:
Jealousy is an annoyance about someone else's luck. The antagonistic character of jealousy is overtly aggressive, and its attack aims to reverse the image of the attacked. Even the relationship between the two levels is close, and the moral scales are toppled due to jealousy.
often does not look at the advantages and strengths of others, but always finds fault with others, and even does not hesitate to reverse black and white and deceive. 2. Clear directivity The directivity of jealousy psychology often arises among people of the same level in the same era and in the same department, mainly because jealousy psychology is an absolute egalitarianism with extreme selfishness as the core. Because they used to sit on an equal footing, or they were once inferior to themselves, they are now capable people, which makes the jealous people resist and antagonize.
3. Evolving venting Generally speaking, except for a slight jealousy, which is only manifested as inner resentment and is not put into action, most jealousy psychology is accompanied by venting behavior. There are three main ways; One is verbal cynicism, the other is behavioral coldness, alienating the envied person, and the other is specific behavior, or aggressive behavior. 4. Imperceptible camouflage Due to the power of social morality, jealousy is despised by most people, so that jealousy is generally unwilling to be directly revealed, and does everything possible to disguise it in an attempt to make it difficult for people to detect.
For example, if you are jealous of someone in one aspect, but you dare not speak out, you deliberately blame or attack from the other side in a roundabout way.
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