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In the movie "Galaxy Cram School.
There is a sentence that touched me deeply, people must do what they love in this life. This sentence is easy to say, but it is very difficult to actually do, how can you do what you love and let yourself live a simple and simple life?
First of all, we should set a goal for ourselves, if we want to do what we like, we must first look at what we like, see what we want most in life, know what we want, and let ourselves work in that direction. <>
If you like to do what you like to do, in the eyes of the world is a perverted thing, can you persevere, if you like to do things can not bring you any benefits, or even be able to support you, can you stick to your original intention? <>
Only when people continue to be strong and let themselves have a certain control over their lives can they say willfully and do what they likeSo before that, we must continue to work hard to improve our ability, so that we can become better and better, and when you have a certain ability, you will have the confidence and ability to do what you like to do.
If you want to do what you like to do, you should stick to your principles and bottom line, and keep your original intention in mindDon't care about other people's behavior, don't care about the world's eyes, don't easily change your thoughts because of a sentence or two from others, and keep your inner calmness and calmness, so that you can stick to it. <>
If you want to do what you love to do, you should dilute the desire in your heartAdhere to the purest and most simple things in your heart, dilute your own gains and losses and utilitarianism, ignore external views and personal gains and losses, pay attention to your inner satisfaction and the improvement of your spiritual realm, and let your life return to simplicity and purity as much as possible.
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So first of all, what you do should be more like, and don't pursue too much, as long as you like to do what you feel comfortable, then you can make yourself live a very simple and simple life.
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Don't forget your original intention and strive for what you like, so that you can live a simple and simple life.
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Do whatever you like, adjust your mentality, keep a low profile at all times, and don't think about things that are not practical.
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It is to be brave enough to try something that interests you when you encounter it, so that you can find something you like, and the most important thing is hard work and perseverance.
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I think you can't be bound by the world, you have to live according to your own ideas, make your life simpler and happier.
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<> "Dig into the way you like to live your life."
No matter what kind of role you are in.
Be able to accept yourself stupidly.
Allow anything to happen.
will live with strength.
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When I was in college, there were four sentences: freshman year didn't know he didn't know, sophomore year knew he didn't know, junior year didn't know he knew, senior year knew he knew. I don't know if other people are like this, but I'm still confused and don't know much about myself.
As early as the Renaissance, it was popular to say that we should emancipate ourselves and understand ourselves. When I was a freshman, I didn't think about exploring what I wanted, until my sophomore year, a teacher from Taiwan, Mr. Zhang, taught us many times to know what we wanted, and then get closer to that direction.
As the saying goes: I know a lot of truths, but I still can't live this life. It's one thing to know this, it's another thing to be able to command and not be able to do it. I've been looking for the job and life I want, but to no avail.
Looking back, it seems that the crux of the problem has been found.
If you want to live the life you like and do what you like, you must first know what kind of life you like and what kind of person you want to become, so that you can work hard to move forward. If you don't even know what you like, how can you talk about what kind of life you live? How can you find a job you love?
Therefore, Brother Hengpi is back on the road of self-exploration. The road is long, its cultivation is far away, I will go up and down and seek ......
Break away. If you haven't found what you like and haven't found the direction of your efforts, you can change the angle, eliminate the things you don't like, the look you don't like, break away in time, and give up your life to an elimination method.
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Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "We used to look forward to the recognition of the outside world, but in the end we realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others." ”
Everyone wants to be affirmed by others, to be praised by others, to be supported by others, and to be able to understand and understand what they do.
This kind of psychology is understandable, who doesn't want to show himself in front of others is positive energy, a righteous gentleman, and a "good person" in the eyes of others.
But everyone has different views, different outlooks on life and values, and different ways of dealing with things and treating everything.
If you like to travel, some people support it, feel that it broadens your horizons and stretches your mood; Some people don't like it, feel that it is a waste of time and money, why do they toss when they have nothing to do, make people exhausted, and spend money to buy a tired.
If you like to sing and dance, some people think that they are entertaining and having fun; Some people feel that they are not serious, do not do their jobs, and spend time in useless places.
There are too many examples of these in life to mention.
If you always care about other people's evaluations, with mixed reviews and opinions, you will never be happy and will always live in the shadow of others, because other people's thoughts will always affect your mood.
Looking at the eyes of others, it is inevitable to be uneasy, to think left and right, to look forward and backward, and to lose oneself. Eventually, you'll feel exhausted and living in someone else's world, not the life you want to live.
In fact, in life, it's good to do what you like, to please others, it's better to please yourself and be a true self.
There are always some people in this world who are very brave to be themselves, they don't care about the attention and evaluation of others, and quietly do their own things, do what they like, and do what they think is meaningful.
They only ask to have a clear conscience, be worthy of conscience, be a kind person, be a responsible person, regardless of the criticism and opinions of the outside world.
Life is not easy, in the first half of our lives, in order to make a living, we worked hard and lived a hard life; If you have free time in the second half of your life, it is better to choose suitable hobbies, do what you like, and live a simple and plain life.
Focusing on what you love to do is not only pleasing to yourself, but also making life beautiful and fulfilling. In this way, life will become meaningful and not wasted!
Life is actually so simple, life is your own, and you are responsible for making decisions. Be worthy of your heart, harmless to society, and do it without distractions!
Life is geometric, simple and true, no regrets, satisfying yourself, pleasing yourself, no regrets!
Author |Violet.
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In life, food, clothing, housing and transportation do not depend on others, including children; no longer intervene in the lives of others; Interfere less in the affairs of children, but pay attention to the next generation, and try to help in time if there is difficulty; no longer value the power and material wealth of others, and accept your own ordinariness with peace of mind; Accept the wrong decisions of the past, the imperfect things;
Hide in a small building to become a unity: you should have your own hobbies as spiritual support: or play tai chi; or play a game of chess on your phone; or sing a song, or Tongqin Zhaofu or pull or play; or to educate the next generation as best they can; If you don't pursue famous works, you can get a few works by yourself and put them in the room, and you can change them at any time; Drink some weak tea, drink some wine when it rises; is not completely decoupled from society, there are one or two friends who rent a bureau, occasionally sit, drink tea and chat; A small courtyard, the house can be good or bad, but it is guaranteed not to leak rain; A small field, grow your own vegetables, and raise a bonsai in the second or third year; A small study, in which according to their own hobbies to set up a painting case, chairs, etc., the material can be better, not much, pleasing to the eye; I don't participate in any associations, I don't hold any calligraphy and painting exhibitions, I just write and paint...
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Start with the actual jujube Zen and sort out the chaos at home. When you come home and see that your home is chaotic and full, your mood is naturally not much better. Maintaining a clean environment is important for the mood impact.
Streamline your group of friends. What you need to reach out to, and what you need to take time to treat, are those real friends. Don't deliberately fit into a certain circle. If you are good enough, the circle will naturally move closer to you.
Know how to make trade-offs and reduce choices. Sometimes people's troubles are not about what they lack, they can be overwhelmed because they have too many choices, and they don't know what to leave behind and what to give up.
Reflect on yourself from time to time, whether the current life is what you want. And what is your goal life? Keep a clear mind and know what you want.
Life is inseparable from material things, but don't be burdened by material things. Choose what you can afford. On the basis of the basic rock dust that you can do, you should appropriately raise the requirements for yourself.
When you don't know what to do, it's better to enrich yourself and invest in yourself. There's nothing wrong with comparing other people's lives, but don't feel sorry for yourself. You also need to struggle.
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Simplicity must be an adjusted order on the basis of necessity. Starting from a person's social survival needs and psychological needs, on the basis of basic guaranteed diet, sleep, and exercise, self-sufficient work and good intimate relationships are carried out around mental health. Other needs need to be vigilant.
In particular, the town should not fall into the trap of consumption and propaganda to induce you to pay and pursue things that are not within the scope of your ability to pay for and own. In summary, it is about carrying out your daily activities regularly and within your ability.
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