What is it like to be speechless after arguing with a subject?

Not good at arguing, that is, not good at communicating. Just like my mother, she is very kind, always kind to people, and rarely argues with people. My dad is usually the same person in dispute, and I've hardly ever seen her rub shoulders with others.

I always admired how she could be so good-tempered, and then when I grew up, I suddenly found that my mother didn't want to say it, but she couldn't say it, even if others did it too much, he was used to suffering silently, not aggressive at all, and he couldn't even learn to fight back. So many times when others push her for something they don't want to do, she really can't look past it, even if she is taught how to reject others, she can't learn. On the contrary, people always say why my mother has such a good temper, but I am sharp-toothed, why, because you always bully her.

She never won every time she argued with her father, and every time she finished arguing with me, she told me that I should have said this and this at the time, yes, it was too late to say this after the quarrel, even if she forgot about it next time.

If the other party is not good at quarreling, then if there is a Mao Dun and there is no quarrel, most of the time the information and ideas will not be communicated, and if there is no communication, it is easy to intensify the contradictions, and in the end it can only be a mutual incomprehension and unhappy dissolution. If you are not good at arguing, the best thing is not to meet someone who will not quarrel, then not only will the problem not be solved, but it will also exacerbate the conflict. It's better to meet someone who is good at arguing, in that case, he will make you clear why he is angry in the process of quarreling, although you can't say it, but you must be clear about your thoughts in your heart.

When the two sides quarrel, the party who will not quarrel will not be vented for emotion, and will feel aggrieved and not very happy. Do you think that people who are good at quarreling will be happy after the quarrel? I think it's good that we don't quarrel.

Quarrels can only vent emotions for a while, but cannot solve practical problems. Being able to argue does not mean that it is reasonable, and not being noisy is not unreasonable.

Dumb people eat coptis, and there is an indescribable experience of bitterness. I can't find the words to go back, it's uncomfortable. I especially don't like to quarrel, and my husband loves to make noise. Now that he's changed me, I'm starting to get angry in a few words. If you're in a hurry, you'll beat him.

Once you understand what he thinks, you can slowly figure it out and finally find the contradiction between you. No one will quarrel with someone for no reason, and there must be a reason for the effect. When you understand the contradictions in the matter, you don't have to be good at arguing, just calmly state your findings, and in that way, the conflict between you will be resolved.

Most people think that quarreling is also a way of communication, yes, it is much better than those couples who hide and do not quarrel, but it is better to quarrel in moderation, quarrel more, the heart will be cold, feelings will become weaker, quarrel is not a good way to solve the problem.

When I quarreled with my husband, when I was stupid and said that I couldn't win, I really wanted to kill him in minutes and slap him to death. But I don't want the war to prolong, so it's average"I don't want to talk to you, and you're not allowed to talk to me for an hour"。

In most people's minds, they think that not being good at arguing must be a loss, but in fact, it may not be. People who are stupid and can't quarrel are actually more popular with the people, and babies who are not good at quarreling are generally cuties with a simple and kind heart. So don't go and wipe out your precious nature for the sake of quarreling with someone.