are all married, and their former lovers have become colleagues who can be seen every day

Nostalgia... That's all, cherish happiness and don't think too much!

Since they are all married, you must cherish your marriage, if you can be honest with your former lover to be friends, of course, it is good, but you also said that he bowed his head when he saw you, so don't think too much, and don't care if he is watching, what should you do, what do you say?

What if he cares about you, what can you do if you care about him?

Even if you know each other's psychology, what do you want?

If you really can't stand it from the heart, then quit and don't do it, or, simply break through the worldly concept, bravely shout out and get married, we can develop all the friendship and love normally, ask this man out to have a good chat, maybe re-establish an earth-shattering love!

If you mind, you have an idea.

You have to have your own mindset first.

When he saw me, he lowered his head, and I couldn't say hello, but when he walked past me, he turned his head back to look at me, because I also turned his head back and looked at him, and I realized that he was looking at me, and then we each turned our heads back and forth, and you said that he looked back at me, and why did he deliberately look down when he walked over and looked back at me?

- Let's face it!

The brain let the donkey kick, right? When people look at you, you think so much, it's not serious

A person's maturity has little to do with whether he is married or not, and it is not much different from age.

It shows that you need to control or satisfy your personal desires in a relationship or with someone else. So later he said that it was not suitable, and that he wanted you to be a sister and change to another relationship. Your mental state is not balanced, so you voluntarily give up your connection and relationship.

These are the psychology of big ups and downs, which manifests itself as immaturity enough. This may be due to a lack of understanding of the self.

It's been a long time since then, but the knot in your heart from five years ago is still there. So the problem of five years ago has not been solved because of time, even if you will never see each other again in this life, but that problem will always be your heart knot. So, five years ago you ran away, and now your embarrassment shows that you continue to run away.

Now that you're married, what kind of feelings is your embarrassment? Still like him, and the psychology still retains that unwilling desire? Undefeated, even if you are married, you still retain your memories and fantasies about him?

Or do you feel ashamed or shameless about what happened a few years ago? Face your heart truthfully, chew slowly, analyze, think, and face.

At the end of the day, you can continue your friendship, your colleagues. Five years ago you had a relationship with which you had a deeper and earlier connection and understanding than with other colleagues with whom you so-called got along naturally and had a good relationship. Why don't you think you're destined?

At that time, you can also talk to him, listen to his thoughts, get to know the other party's family, and care about his current situation as an old friend and colleague. You can even discuss work and be both friends and colleagues. Are you just afraid, afraid that he's going to get you in trouble, or are you're afraid you're going to get him in trouble?

Afraid of your old love for the resurgence? Afraid that he will snub you again? So that's what you have to deal with, and your troubles are all in your psyche.

You can run away from your relationship, but don't run away from being sincere and hearty to yourself.

I wish you all the best in your work.