What would you do if a stranger on the road asked you to give him money to buy a meal or a ticket?

The experience of meeting strangers and buying food was when I was in college. It was evening, after shopping, the sky began to get dark, an old woman stopped me, said to come out to find her grandson, grandson did not find, the money was lost, let me give five yuan to buy her something to eat, I did not hesitate, I gave her five yuan, I walked not far, I heard her pitiful voice, I turned around, saw the old man stopped another classmate, so the trick was repeated, saying that he had no money to eat. At that time, I felt that I had been deceived, thinking that she was so old, so I didn't go back to investigate.

Of course I'll turn a blind eye! For example, once when I was eating at the train station, I met two people who claimed to be husband and wife, and said that they had no money to eat, and asked for ten yuan to buy food for their children or something, I thought they were idle and unearning, so I said politely, there is no money, you two want to eat fast food, I can pay for you! Listen to the two and walk away!

If I meet someone who buys food directly, I usually buy it for him. Although it is not easy to make money, I can't do such a thing as not saving when I die, isn't there an old saying in China, don't you help the poor if you are in emergency?

In Shenzhen, Xixiang, the place is a bit out of the way, I often go out to buy things at night, often when I come back, I will meet one or two people who claim to be from Hong Kong, doing business, wallets dropped, need to call, let me borrow him 100 or 50, they leave the number, and then I must thank you. I'm a girl, and the place where I met these people is biased, so I decisively stopped pulling and strode away.

We drove around the city every day, and in the first two years, not only at the train station, but also at the dock, and even at the traffic light, professional beggars were everywhere. With the hard management of the relevant departments in recent years, this kind of begging has become less and less. I remember that in June of the previous year, waiting for the traffic light at the train station, an aunt in her 60s came over and said that she was going to the vicinity of Xiamen University, and she had no change when she went home, so she borrowed two yuan to take the bus, and I gave her the only three yuan on the bus.

A colleague sitting in the passenger seat said that you might have been fooled. I said the old man, it's just a few dollars to be fooled, but I can't chill people who really need help.

At the long-distance bus station, I bought a ticket and went in the waiting hall to sit in the waiting hall and wait for the bus, there was no one in the hall at the time, and then a man held a small notebook, saying that he was deaf and mute, let me give love, the boy looked quite tall and delicate, I had no change in my hand at the time, so I didn't pay for it, he kept standing next to me, about a few minutes later, my uncle happened to go home, I quickly stood up, called my uncle, my uncle saw the man standing next to me, and roared at the man in the distance, the man hit me hard, And ran away.

When I encounter such a thing, I can hide as far as I can, but when I see a disabled person playing the violin on the street, or singing on the bus, I will still go up and take the initiative to give some money, as for the last kind of person with sound hands and the ability to support himself to ask me for money, I will not give money.

The first thing they give me is that they are idle and don't work hard. So I told them bluntly, "I don't have any money, and if you want to eat, I can buy you two fast foods." They listened and walked away quickly.

There is steel on the blade. When 'helping or not helping' the elderly and 'borrowing or not borrowing' change, sometimes it is a gesture of effort, and the love is boundless. At the same time, don't let your hard-earned money go into the pockets of the **

I really don't have the ability to distinguish what is true and false, and whenever I encounter such a thing, I will give them a dollar, which is worthy of my kindness.

You can politely refuse, smile and say that you don't want to help him, you don't have to explain the reason, we can choose whether to help him according to our own judgment when we encounter a stranger's request for help, this is your right and freedom.

How to reject others

The simplest and most direct way to refuse, although it may make others feel too indifferent, but instead of managing the image of a good old man and making yourself more difficult, it is better to refuse directly, and maybe it will leave a decisive and upright image.

Sometimes it is not easy to say no, even if you know to say no, it is still difficult to say it when facing the other person. Then use body language. No matter how sluggish people are, they will understand these silent refusal actions, and if you are embarrassed to refuse with words, then use actions to let the other party see your embarrassment.

When we reject others, the rejected person is often haunted by the indifference when rejected, and if he refuses seriously and sincerely, even if he is not helped, he still does not complain.

For areas that you don't understand, recommending the best candidates to the help-seeker will often not only help you get rid of the dilemma of being powerless, but also help the help-seeker find a better candidate and improve efficiency, but at the same time, it may also let your friends jump into the "fire pit".

I've met more than once, what should I do if I meet someone on the road who asked you to buy him food? I googled and found that a lot of people have been in this situation.

At noon today, I was riding a bicycle past a section of the road to work every day, and suddenly an uncle stopped me on the side of the road, I slid and braked, and then I saw a rural old man in his fifties and a slightly younger uncle coming over, among which the old man in front of me was carrying a pocket, close to me and began to tell me a story, probably they were migrant workers who came here from Luxi to work as construction workers, and as a result, the contractor owed them money, and they wanted to go home. Then he said in a very categorical and experienced tone that he either wanted money, or whether he could buy a meal.

I was stunned for a moment, because I had encountered the same scene in the same location a few years ago, and I remember running away after refusing, because I was suddenly stopped on the way to study at night when I was a child, and I was almost bullied by social hooligans, so I was very afraid of this kind of stranger who suddenly stopped me on the side of the road.

Then I was very clever in using the skills of refusal that I have learned in the past two years, and said bluntly that I will never buy you food, but the police station, there happened to be a police station nearby, I pointed in that direction and asked them to go there for help, they looked embarrassed, I took out my mobile phone and said to help you report to the police, I mean that there is always a difficult story to solve if you can't eat, and calling the police is the first way to solve the problem, I really plan to call the police, because maybe I misunderstood them, Thinking that they are cheating, maybe they are really cheating, and calling the police can prevent them from cheating.

I'm going to call the police**, the two of them quickly smiled and said don't don't don't say goodbye to me, and then let me go, and it happened that next to it was demolishing an empty building that I reported, I took this case to tell them that I am very good at reporting and calling the police, and the police will definitely solve your problems, maybe I'm too strong, the two of them are also very nervous, and said let me go quickly, it's okay, it's obvious that it's a feeling of deception and not finding a home.

I smiled and left, then turned around and pointed them in the direction of the police station.

I remember reading about this kind of scam a long time ago, but I forgot about it a long time ago, and back to the topic of this article, what do you do when you meet someone who asks you to buy him food on the road? I think the method I did today is the most appropriate, without saying a word, call the police directly, the truth and falsehood will naturally come out, I really want to take them to the police today, the natural deterrent effect of calling the police is still very useful.

If you encounter such a situation, you hope to solve it with the police.

You are always too soft-hearted, and sometimes you will be deceived and hurt! Now that you know that he is **, why are you so kind? Therefore, please be careful in the future, and be kind enough to weigh your own ability, whether there will be accidents.

Thankfully, though, this time you're smart!

A lot of this, you just say, okay, I'll help you call ** call 110 for help, okay, they can help everyone.

You joked about this, I've been eating at home for a long time, and I don't like to eat gutter oil and MSG outside, so if you don't mind, come to my house to pair chopsticks.

If you change your favor once, you will ignore it.

Such a person is a little stingy, there is no need to be so serious with him, such a boy is not worth the amount you pay for him, and I personally think that a man should spend money for his girlfriend.

You will say: A big man asks a woman to invite to dinner, and you are embarrassed!

It is recommended that you go to a mid-range western restaurant, the student's financial ability is limited, and I think the teacher can understand.

If you're worried about something, invite two or three good classmates to go with you, and it will be more lively.

What does it matter, why do you invite him to dinner, don't you have any money? A man is also good to open his mouth.

Clean him up! Can't you do this little thing? What kind of thing is he?

Why do you ask him to dinner! If you are willing to invite yourself, then that's fine, if you don't want to ask him to ask for it, isn't it cheap! Find a few random people, clean him up, and see if he can get stuck!

People, it's cheap, clean up when it's time to clean up, or he still thinks you're a bully.

Maybe one such street pick-up is a kind of **.

Example: Once, a student at a school met a middle-aged man who led an old woman and asked people for food. This ** is to pretend to be in pain after eating, and let you pay for the medical expenses. In this case, please do not hesitate to call the police, you will be dumbfounded.

Probably two, they really need help.

If you encounter something similar and can't tell the truth from the fake, but you really want to give someone a rose, it is recommended that you can propose "I will call 110 for you, and they will take you to the aid station in the jurisdiction for help" and other ways to verify whether he is really in trouble.

Common locations for street scams:

Residential areas, streets, markets, shopping malls and other crowded places.

Victims: Most of them are people walking alone, women, and middle-aged and elderly people.

How to prevent and fight:

The first is to be necessary to be vigilant against accosting strangers.

The second is to discuss sudden things with others.

The third is to firmly believe that pie will not fall from the sky, do not covet the size of the cheap, and report to the police in time when abnormal situations are found, so as not to give criminals a chance to take advantage of them.

Fourth, when it is impossible to judge whether something is true or false, the best thing to do is to call the police and let the police help deal with the matter.