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Female college students becoming a full-time wife is actually a life choice and a career, or this career may be temporary, and it may change in a few years!
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Nowadays, there are many female college students who become full-time wives, and I think whether to be a full-time wife depends on the individual's wishes, and some people just don't want to work, they want to be a full-time wife and have a good family.
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To be honest, I think that it may be his personal choice for a female college student to become a full-time wife, and I don't mind doing this, after all, being a full-time wife will have many problems in the future, and it will be very painful if the man does not change his mind, but if the man changes his mind, he will not have the financial ability, which is very painful.
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An individual has a personal way of living, he feels that this is a very good life, this is the wish of others, and people are also an ideal life, so such a thing is understandable, should not be invested in eye fighting, people have their own ideas, as long as people live well.
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How to look at female college students as full-time wivesIt is not easy for a woman, once she gets married and has children, she has to focus on the family, it is really not easy, it is best for a woman to do her own thing, and it is best to have a certain economy.
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I think it must be that the current female college students are too eager or too anxious about their future life, so they will become full-time wives while still being college students.
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I think it's okay for a female college student to be a full-time wife, because now children are the hearts of their parents, and he is at home to serve his parents and take care of the children, which I think is very good.
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Everyone has their own way of life, some people choose to be a strong woman, and some people choose to marry and raise children at home. Whether it's a full-time wife or a professional strong woman, it's all a profession. The stay-at-home wife also gave everything for the family.
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There is nothing for the full-time wife of the female college party, this is a personal choice, for the sake of the beloved silently supporting behind the scenes, which shows that their relationship is very good.
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I think there are many advantages to being a full-time wife for a female college student, because if a female college student becomes a full-time wife, the children they teach are more qualified.
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I think it's normal for a female college student to be a full-time wife, because it's allowed to fall in love and get married in college.
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The fact that a female college student is a full-time wife fully illustrates that in today's society, many people's families are under great economic pressure.
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I don't think there's anything to look at and not look at. It's a personal preference, just like it.
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It is their own choice for female college students to become full-time wives, and although there are some regrets, they must be respected.
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This is a personal choice, and some people especially like their husbands and children, hoping to give their husbands a wider sky. But sometimes you have to think of yourself.
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If you could, you could be a strong woman, and when these things don't make any special sense, you can think of that way.
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It's certainly very comfortable for you to have students start working as stay-at-home wives now, but it's certainly not very appropriate.
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Everyone has their own choice, and of course it is okay for a female college student to be a full-time wife.
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Some people want to have a happy life without working hard, so they basically want to enjoy life.
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College students just think that being a full-time wife at home can take good care of their children and husbands.
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This wife is also normal, because some people are willing to be full-time wives and are reluctant to go out to work.
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Everyone has the freedom and power to choose their own life.
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It's good to take a female college student to be a full-time wife, and now there are many female college students to be a full-time wife, as long as they are happy. It's all good.
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Everyone wants to have a happy and fulfilling life.
However, different people have different answers to the definition of a happy and contented life.
In real life, some highly educated girls become full-time wives after getting married, and different people have different opinions about such a situation. ......Specifically, there are several different specific views on this issue:
1. To be able to have a happy marriage and a happy family, it is worthwhile for a highly educated girl to be a full-time wife.
The fundamental goal of the pursuit of a happy life is the happiness of marriage and family.
Therefore, if a person has a happy and sweet marriage and family, he will feel satisfied ......In order to achieve this goal, it is worth it to do everything yourself......From this point of view, although highly educated girls have high academic qualifications, there is no problem in being full-time wives......With a happy and sweet marriage and family, everything is worth it.
2. Girls should also have their own careers and should not be full-time wives.
Some people think that girls should have their own careers and not be full-time wives.
These people believe that highly educated girls should use their strengths to develop their careers in order to achieve real success ......Therefore, these people think that highly educated girls should not be full-time wives, but should work and develop their careers.
3. Different people have different choices. As long as you want to, it's the right choice.
Fundamentally, you should make your own choices.
For a highly educated girl to be a full-time wife, it doesn't matter what others think, your own choice is the only right choice......As long as you make a rational choice after careful consideration, it is the right ......
From this point of view, there is no problem for highly educated girls to choose to be full-time wives.
The above is a different understanding of the question of whether a highly educated girl should be a full-time wife......As you can see, what others think doesn't matter. As long as it is a rational choice made by yourself, it is the right choice for yourself.
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I don't think there's anything wasteful about personal choices, both for individuals and for society.
First of all, for the individual, all the choices in your life are a whole. Some of your roads are wrong, some roads are detoured, they are all inevitable, right and wrong add up, one eliminates the other, and it is a complete you. Just like there is a person who can complete a week's work in two days, but he needs to rest for five days to recover, you can't say that his rest time is wasted, he can't have such a high efficiency without those five days of rest.
Everyone is small in society, you are not that important, let alone a person who makes such a choice, when you make a choice, it has already tolerated and ignored you.
Higher education is not linked to psychology and education, not only can it not be linked, but it may also be far away from the requirements of parenting because the choice is too rational and the external spiritual needs are too much.
In my opinion, the proportion of mothers with high education who are misled by profit-making organizations and marketing *** is much higher than that of mothers with low education. Academic success over the years has made you more likely to think theoretically rather than motherly about how you relate to your children. A "crying immunization method" that has harmed countless children around the world for a hundred years, mainly misleading mothers with high education, has been flooded with dregs in the past few years.
As long as there are good enough family conditions and sufficient personal security, whether it is a high degree or a low education, a stay-at-home mother is a personal choice, and a stay-at-home mother is in fact a state of self-employment.
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I don't think it's a waste for a highly educated girl to choose to be a full-time wife in the end.
One, the difficulty of a full-time wife is no less than that of a working woman, and Kochi women are more able to run a family, which is conducive to social stability;
SecondThe meaning of education is to cultivate a person's way of thinking, rather than professional skills, if you don't use professional knowledge is a waste, then you will "objectify" women and knowledge;
ThirdThe entry of Kochi women into this "industry" can promote the development of home economics, husband and wife relations, emotions and even ethics;
Fourth, It's not easy for a highly educated woman to get married, just do whatever you want (this gg is here to smash the field......Just because you have a high degree of education does not mean that you lose the right to choose your life.
Share a quote from Bonnie: "Letting life grow with the trend is a kind of wisdom and a kind of luck." The so-called path is the truest desire in your heart, not driven by utilitarianism, which can take you to the farthest you can. "My dear, have you found your own way?
Whatever Kochi women do, it's their freedom. Therefore, when a woman in Kochi is a stay-at-home wife, the meaning of all life is: you are happy.
In the end, in any case, a stay-at-home wife is worthy of respect, regardless of whether she is highly educated or undereducated.
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Education Is it a waste to be a full-time wife?
In my opinion, the question of this debate is: Is it a waste for individuals to give up social functions that belong entirely to the family?
Kou Naixin said: Is it a waste to be a full-time wife with a degree? So what do you think of being a stay-at-home wife?
Don't you read? Poor learners? Didn't you?
Isn't it stupid? Society's misconception lies in the labels we always assign to stay-at-home wives: low-educated, mediocre, sloppy, and worldly.
In fact, a stay-at-home wife is no less difficult than a workplace, she is burdened with the responsibility of raising children, caring for her husband, maintaining family harmony, and she is the driving force behind the success of the man, the glue of the family's intimacy ......
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Family is the basic cause of society, and everything is prosperous. Indeed, family matters are important, and stay-at-home wives should not be looked down upon because of this. But that doesn't mean that education requires you to be a stay-at-home wife.
If men work together to complete family chores, and men can do housework, babysitting, cooking, and washing dishes in their spare time after work, then why do they need to give up their careers and knowledge to become a full-time wife?
Throughout the debate, whether it was positive or negative, it was all from the perspective of a vested interest, demanding how sex should be.
In particular, Chen Ming's remarks were particularly masculine and dogmatic. He said:
The state spends so much money to train you academic qualifications, p. 2.
As a result, you run away to be a stay-at-home wife, of course you are a waste! Why don't you start by leaving these educational resources for those who can contribute to society?
So what does this mean: Only low-educated, low-quality full-time wives are not wasted? What kind of standard is this to measure the value of individuals?
Finally, by the time of the debate, Berbonnie's words represented several voices:
China is so tired. There is a reason to leave the family, but the man does not return to the family. What do you mean?
Working outside the home, tired and tired, looking at the face of the boss, earning unfair and low wages. But back home, she still has to take on the main chores. Otherwise, her mother-in-law will count her down:
What is there about wandering around all day ? Even the home is not well taken care of, p. 3.
Even the male child is not well served, what is such ?
Almost all would say that it was a failure, no matter how successful her social affairs were.
China is so tired.
Going back to the beginning of the chapter, I think that "whether it is a waste or not" depends on three points:
Is it willing or forced to become a stay-at-home wife?
Stay-at-home wives are also divided into two types: exclusive and non-independent.
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Received such an education.
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Support for the Debate Tournament
Once I watched Strange Wonderful, there was a topic that was very eye-catching--is it a waste for a highly educated girl to be a full-time wife?
One side believes that if it is not wasted, a highly educated girl being a full-time wife is objectifying a highly educated girl.
It is more difficult to be a full-time wife than a working woman, and the other side believes that Kochi women are a waste of society's resources and a waste of their talents.
This logic is very interesting, now the matching rate of college students' graduation majors is less than the mouth, that is to say, at least 3 percent of people work in the wrong industry, doing work that does not apply what they have learned, but no one judges them as wasting resources.
I didn't understand it before I gave birth, but I didn't understand it until I gave birth to a baby.
The work of a stay-at-home mother is a high-intensity job that integrates education, child psychology, medicine, economics, and sociology.
And the energy and time invested by mothers often train themselves to become experts:
At first, I just wanted to teach English to children, but I didn't expect to become an English expert; Troubled by children's eczema, slowly understood from dealing with pediatricians, shed tears for children's adolescent rebellion, and mastered the way to get along with children in the process of crawling and rolling; For the family's firewood, rice, oil and saltBefore marriage + refers to the girl who does not touch the spring water of the sun and learns to prepare meals for the childand learned to manage money.
If you want me to say, a stay-at-home mother is the most energy-consuming and talented jobShe took a blank sheet of paper as a child who first came to the world and shaped a sound personalityIsn't this work a waste?
Stay-at-home mothers are just experiencing another life in a limited life. In a small period of life, it is not too much to take a few years and do what you want to do.
There is a lot of discussion about stay-at-home mothers being out of society.
I don't know what the criteria for detachment are, even if it is, detachmentJust get rid of it, just like working mothers can't accompany their children as they wish, this is an objective shortcoming. Don't neglect to have it because of your shortcomings, after all, there is no such thing as a perfect life.
2 Learning knowledge is not for the sake of being a housewife
Becoming full-time wives for highly educated women is a waste of their knowledge. When you choose to be a stay-at-home wife, the academic content you have studied before will naturally withdraw from your life circle. Expertise also doesn't translate into a driving force for your personal development.
However, getting an education is about improving your qualityKnowledge is not necessarily a means of making a living, and the most important thing about a high degree is to cultivate the way of thinking and values that we are.
I think it's not good to be a full-time wife, because it's easy to be out of touch with society after staying at home for a long time, and the gap with the other half will get bigger and bigger, and there will be problems in communication between husband and wife over time, which will affect the relationship.
College students skip classes very badly, there are very few courses during college, but there are also many people who choose to skip classes to do other jobs.
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