The absurd breakup words, can it be reversed?

As a lesbian, help you analyze the psychology of women, first of all, you know each other through blind dates, she is likely to be forced by family pressure (the family does not agree with her to interact with her ex-boyfriend, forcing him to go on a blind date), but she is still in love with her ex-boyfriend in her own heart, and their results depend on how much she attaches importance to her parents, but it is unlikely to be together.

Then there is the relationship between the two of you, it also depends on how much she attaches importance to her parents, she attaches enough importance to family affection, you will boldly pursue it, show your sincerity, it is very likely, but if she attaches more importance to love than to family affection, then you give up, otherwise you will be very painful.

If you can't bear it, or, don't say break up. Be cheeky and chase it.

Sober up. It's really hard to give up, but only when you give up can you meet your true love.

If you know that it is absurd, why should you have hope, whether it is cruelty to yourself or to others.

Then let time dilute everything

Let's start with the answer: resolutely no, getting back together is repeating the mistakes of the past, please listen to my six reasons, especially the one who was broken up.

First, if you can separate, often unilaterally, it is equivalent to tilting the scales of love.

If feelings don't go both ways, then what's the point?

If it is just a unilateral effort or retention, even if the other party turns back, it is still capricious, "the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change" This is the wisdom left by the ancestors, don't try to waste energy to tolerate a person who doesn't care about you.

Second, you broke up, and there is no doubt that there is one person who is not persistent enough.

Who's to say that a breakup is necessarily a problem for one of them?

There must be problems on both sides, we adults should have understood that nothing in this world is perfect, and you can be together, at least there is a foundation for feelings.

As long as it's not a fatal problem, such as she has a paralyzed second uncle, or he has a younger brother who is addicted to drugs.

So what problems can't be solved?

Third, you broke up, most likely because of communication barriers.

The fact that two people can be together at least proves that the first step is in place.

But just a few words can't understand a person's comprehensiveness, so it is necessary to communicate many times in order to better understand his Yinshoudong people.

Sometimes you may be very honest, pour out your heart and lungs, and hand her heart, but she can't feel your love.

Moreover, a girl who doesn't want to think may prefer to listen to an unknown poisonous chicken soup expert rather than trust the people closest to her.

Fourth, break up and see character.

Why do some people break up so badly? It's because of the selfishness of his heart.

He thinks that he won't have anything to do with you in the future anyway, so why should he care about your feelings?

An undignified breakup is hurting people, and many people with weak willpower will be depressed after falling out of love, and even have suicidal thoughts.

Obviously, Qin Yan, you once wanted to possess him and let his world be full of you, how could you bear to leave alone after being satisfied?

Fifth, the person who hurts you may hurt you a second time.

The Franklin effect in psychology says that those who have helped you are more willing to help you a second time than the people you have helped.

Those who have hurt you are more likely to hurt you a second time than the people you have hurt.

What do you think if the party you broke up later asked to get back together?

I'm not trash, you say you want it, you say you want it, you throw it away, right? "It's not to fight, it's just to be worthy of yourself.

Sixth, a breakup is a manifestation of willpower.

Do you want to divide if you quarrel? Do you want to divide when you're tired? Do you want to divide the novelty after it has passed?

There are two types of people who answer and don't, the former may have no willpower, and the latter is rock-solid.

If you don't solve a problem, you want to escape, and after escaping, you find that you can't solve it, and you want to get back together. Half-hearted, detached.

Even if you get back together with such a person, it's still very tiring. Instead of stepping into the swamp again, it is better to find another path.

What do you think? I hope I can help you.

If both parties regret it after a breakup, then you can start over, let go of the past, cherish each other, and manage your feelings.

I broke up, how should I get it back?

In relationships, breaking up is a painful and confusing thing. Sometimes, we come across some outrageous reasons to break up that are unbelievable. I'm going to share some of the outrageous reasons I've heard or learned, and I'm going to offer some thoughts and observations.

1、"I don't think your zodiac sign is for me. "This reason is quite ridiculous, because there is no scientific basis for judging whether a relationship between two people is feasible based on horoscopes. Horoscope is just a form of belief or entertainment, and it is not the only factor that determines a relationship.

2、"Your laughter keeps me focused. "This reason sounds rather far-fetched, as laughter is a positive and joyful expression. If a person is unable to concentrate or feels irritated because of the other person's laughter, it could be a sign of other problems rather than a real reason to break up.

3、"I found out about my past life lover and I felt like we were destined to be back together. "This reason may be due to some peculiar belief or superstitious idea. While everyone has different beliefs and understandings of love, a breakup should be based on reason and real emotions, not on the imagination of a past life.

While the above reasons may sound ridiculous, we should also respect everyone's feelings and decisions. Everyone has different values and philosophies in love, and they may have their own reasons and motivations. When dealing with a breakup, we should remain calm and rational and try to communicate and understand with the other person.

"If you have a new love, don't get it back! ”

There are many people who are entangled with such thoughts, thinking about whether to forget it, and at the same time they can't help but ignore all his dynamics.

The reason for the entanglement is that they already feel that it is difficult to recover, and they also encounter the situation that the other party is looking for a new person, and they are even more deadlocked.

I remember at the end of 2015, my ex and I had the biggest common hobby of squatting in the Internet café, at that time, it was snowing outside, the noise in the Internet café, the smell of smoke in the air, my ex was sitting next to me playing games, I wrote a letter to him in the mailbox, and the time was May 20, 2020.

The content of the letter roughly means, I don't know if we are still together, if we are still together and not married, please come and propose to me as soon as you see this email.

At that time, I thought that five years was really slow, there was still a year to graduate, and he and I definitely couldn't get married until 2020, maybe after graduating in 2016, we would get married in 2017, and five years later, our children were two years old, and I was always looking forward to it, looking forward to graduating soon, and looking forward to getting married to him.

Fast forward to early 2017 and we broke up.

At that time, the blow to me was really too great, when I was off on the weekend, I soaked in the bar almost every day, smoking and drinking, I had to find someone to accompany me in my spare time, otherwise I couldn't control myself to think about him as soon as I was free, every time in the dead of night, as soon as the time came to suppress the clouds, I couldn't think about it, I wanted to commit suicide, I wanted to get rid of these difficult emotions, I thought about it, but every time I thought about what my parents would do if I died, I could only scold myself in my heart for having no conscience and no backbone, Why do you beat yourself like this when you break up, every time you think of this, you give up, and the next night, an infinite cycle of death begins. I want to die, but I don't dare to die.

It didn't take long for him to find another girl, and I couldn't forget it for a long time, watching her have a new boyfriend. I indulged in it and blamed myself all the time, whether I was too childish at the time and didn't take this relationship seriously at all, it was my fault. She deserves a better life, and she shouldn't be involved by me.

Now that I'm broken up, of course, I don't have to redeem it here, it seems that it's a little bit like it's broken, so I don't have to break up, so of course it shouldn't be recovered, just like it seems that it's the same broken inside, so there's no need to redeem it.

Love is sometimes unreasonable. Sometimes no matter how hard you try and how hard you put in, you still can't make a relationship last forever. If so, don't be discouraged, fate is a difficult thing to tell, maybe the end of one story represents the beginning of another.

To maintain a good relationship, it depends on two people to work hard, and it is not a one-sided thing, because love cannot be maintained by one person! Love is acquiesced, only two people have a tacit understanding with each other, and only by cooperating with each other can a good relationship be maintained! Don't think the other person doesn't know and do things you shouldn't do.

Also, in the world of love, don't take it personally. Be kind to your spouse and you'll get more back. In the world of love, it is not that the more you take, the more you earn, sometimes it can make your love life more satisfying.

Imagine, when you go out on a business trip, you find that your wife left more money in your wallet and left a note: I'm afraid you won't be enough, so you left an extra 6,000 yuan, don't save it, pay attention to safety. Finally, we would like to remind you that there is sometimes no reason for love to be talked about.

Sometimes no matter how hard you try and how hard you put in, you still can't make a relationship last forever. If so, don't be discouraged, fate is a difficult thing to tell, maybe the end of one story represents the beginning of another. To maintain a good relationship, it depends on two people to work hard, and it is not a one-sided thing, because love cannot be maintained by one person!

Love is acquiesced, only two people have a tacit understanding with each other, and only by cooperating with each other can a good relationship be maintained!

What kind of gesture does this kind of relationship end? If the two sides quarrel and break up in the Cold War because of some minor problems, issues of little principle