University dormitory relationship!! Ask for a freshman dormitory convention, thank you!!

After living together for a long time, there will always be friction, there will always be some things that feel wronged, that's normal, let go a little.

First of all, I think everyone has their own personality, and everyone has everyone to get used to, and it's not something that can be changed in a day or two, so don't bother your girlfriend too much... Personally, I think it's good to think about others, and I think each of us should do things with a clear conscience. We can only change them subtly, and I don't know how long that period will be.

I don't know if it's useless for me to say so much, I wish your girlfriend success, and I wish you sweetness!

How do you feel like your girlfriend and me! Hehe. In fact, I don't think it's very important how others are right, the key is to have a clear conscience and be open-minded, after all, others can't live for themselves.

My classmate once said that "to suffer a loss is to take advantage", and self-study is really interesting. My teacher also talked about one thing. One of the students he taught fetched water for his dorm every day during his four years at college.

After graduating, he once encountered difficulties and urgently needed a sum of money, but there was really no way, he was like his roommate asking for help. As a result, each of them lent him 100,000! And the reason is very simple, it is because when he was in college he fetched water in the dormitory, they understood that he was a good person, and they would not lose anything by lending him money.

Tell that sentence and this story to your girlfriend, and she might be much more relaxed. And if her roommates really don't deserve to be too nice to them, they have no conscience, then why should your girlfriend think a lot about them? It's not necessary, but you have to think about it properly.

I often encounter such problems, tell your girlfriend, this is actually nothing to worry about. Anyone's concept is different, if they treat you badly, it means that they are not good character, do not know how to cherish the friendship between roommates, just be yourself. And what I want to say to you is to care more about your girlfriend, and you can make up for the happiness that your roommate can't get.

A lot of people, a lot of things are not that you can get someone else's reward for her, this can only show that your girlfriend is a very good girl, you should enlighten her, tell her to be measured in the future, since others don't think about you at all, this shows that your position in other people's hearts is not so important, such people, there is no need to think too much about them.

Do what you think is right, sometimes it's not necessarily a good thing to be humble to each other, and if you follow your roommate's example, maybe you will really become a person who doesn't know how to think about others in the future, and it becomes natural to get used to it, I think it's a loss for you, so I suggest keeping that truest self!

We have a good relationship in the dormitory, because we are tolerant and considerate of each other, and if we want to have a better relationship with our roommates, we should take the initiative.

Interpersonal communication is a science that requires more than just sincerity... It takes a few tricks ...

You can read more books on this subject.

Just have a clear conscience, everyone has their own principles and ways of doing things, you can't ask everyone to be the same as you, everyone understands you. It is necessary to constantly rub and integrate between people, so that they can get along, know each other, and depend on each other ......

In fact, the problem of roommate relationship is very easy to solve, as long as everyone is humble to each other and communicates with their hearts, these trivial things will be gone, so ah, the friends above don't have to ask this question so much!

Be tolerant of each other, you will inevitably have some small problems, and you may ignore the good of others.

You can choose to be a normal friend, or you can choose to stay away from it.

1. Adjust your mentality, maybe your roommate said something wrong, maybe she did something wrong, but in fact, think about the other party's good, these are nothing. Learn to understand others and give them a chance to make mistakes, while at the same time being your own.

2. Don't take advantage of the small advantage of taking advantage of this kind of talk, you do it once or twice, believe that the other party is not very willing to play with you. Don't take your roommate for a fool, and don't lower your worth. Getting along with roommates generously is the long-term way.

3. Respect each other's privacyWhen it comes to privacy, privacy must be some secrets that you don't want to disclose, and if you chase after a roommate and ask the other party something you don't want to tell you, it may be annoying. On the basis of a good relationship, the limit can be appropriately magnified, but everyone will have a bottom line.

4. Don't care about roommates borrowing money and borrowing money is quite emotional, I believe you don't know it, I won't go into detail about the reasons.

And college, like a small society, allows you to start to get in touch with more things about the social level, interpersonal relationships, it seems to be more complicated, if you can make a confidant, then you are lucky, but most of the time, you will feel that most people, and you, are in two different worlds.

In this regard, my advice is not to give a death sentence to your relationship with your roommate based on feelings at the beginning, if you always reject your roommate in your heart, then you will not be comfortable staying inside, so you can change your way of thinking, it's not that you can't get along with them, even if you are not good girlfriends, you can become friends with good friends because of some common interests.

If you have a good relationship with your stupid roommate, and you make a big warm family, then you're in luck. If you have a roommate who is having a good time, you can be with her and block out others.

But if you're staying with a group of people who don't have anything in common at all, you're going to be very awkward over time, and I suggest you choose to move out at university.

I don't agree with changing the original self in order to fit in, but the premise is whether that self is a good self.

The relationship between the university dormitories needs to be very harmonious, after all, they have lived together for 4 years.

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Children, don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself, and the most important thing is to manage yourself well.

Subtle. In general, admission to the university's dormitories is assigned sequentially by the roster. The relationship between roommates varies from person to person. List two scenarios:

1.Get along well, from freshman year to work, they are good buddies (girlfriends), and even ask roommates to be best men (mothers) when they get married.

2.It's not pleasant to get along.,Four people arrange and combine to form ten groups.,Someone changed dormitories in less than a semester.,Don't talk if you can talk in the future.,When you graduate, you suddenly let go of your grievances.。

Roommates can become best friends, and this is fate in a dormitory. As long as people are easy-going, don't be too blazing and too broken, and seek the same difference in everything. Home and everything is prosperous, and the same is room and everything.

Look at luck, if you are lucky, your roommates are all qualified, and if you are unlucky, it will be difficult.

Mutual tolerance and respect are applicable in any environment, you return the smile, others will return your warmth, say good things and be a good person, no one wants to listen to harsh words, some people can negotiate successfully, some people will fail, communication starts from praise, get along with comfort, be good to others in order to reap the good of others.

They also want you to fit in with them, so that they can have common topics and get along more smoothly. After all, because you watched ** with them every day last semester, but you are not interested in this semester, they will find it very strange to answer, and think that you have an opinion on her behavior.

There will always be a lot of people in life, although you can't force everyone to become a close friend, but at least with the people you meet. There is no purpose in this, treat others kindly and sincerely, don't stare at other people's shortcomings, after all, no one is perfect - in this way, others can accept you, at least not treat you as a stranger or even exclude you, and will help you when you need help. That's how people support each other to live a good life.

You don't have to force yourself to be with them, it's really not interested, you don't have to hide it, but you can't make that attitude too prominent, because it really gives them the misconception that you hate them. You can explain it to them in a gentle manner, but you don't have to be too clear, just be appropriate, you know how to grasp the proportions. It's also important that you treat them nicely and clear up any misunderstandings they have.

It's not the same road, and if you have to hold hands, it will be uncomfortable.