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Not long ago, a friend suddenly told me that the "scumbag" who had betrayed her had turned back.
I still remember when they broke up, she couldn't make his prodigal son turn back with such humble begging, and all he said at that time was:
I haven't had enough of it, I can't make up my mind.
But in two years, he seems to have changed as a person.
Although she knew that she would never go back, she still wanted to know what made him, a prodigal son who couldn't settle down, willing to accept his heart.
His is:Tired of playing.
I thought that this kind of talk was just a lie to deceive a simple girl, but he told us a reality:
If I want to play, no one can stop me, unless I don't want to play anymore.
In fact, there is a very strange phenomenon, most girls are easy to like a "scumbag". But the first thing they thought of after seeing each other clearly was not to stop the loss in time, but to try to be the one who made him "turn back".
But it turns out that few girls can wait until that day and will only be scarred.
Desire is nothing more than that, it is better to cherish the moment
In fact, waiting for a scumbag to retract is like waiting for a boy to grow up, no matter how much you pay, it is just a bamboo basket for nothing.
Sooner or later, he will grow up, but it will no longer be you who is warm; Sooner or later, he'll retract, but it's not you who reassures him.
Girls always simply think that as long as they are patient enough and let the other party see their efforts, they can make the prodigal son turn back. Not really.
I know a girl who has never been in a relationship, but the first boy I met with bad luck was a typical scumbag. But scumbags have a fatal attraction to girls, and the reason why scumbags are scumbags is because they understand the psychology and needs of girls very well, and can "prescribe the right medicine".
In just two days, the girl was dead set on the scumbag.
At the beginning, they did have a few sweet and greasy days, but in just two weeks, the scumbag broke up, on the grounds that he had a new love, and admitted that he didn't have enough fun.
Faced with the scumbag's confession, the girl not only did not blame, but was willing to forgive and wait for him to turn back. Although it's ridiculous, I have to admit that many girls will make such a choice.
This is one of the biggest misconceptions of most girls:It's okay to go out and play, it's good to be able to go home.
They must have broken up in the end, but after that, the boy began to show affection in the circle of friends, and the show lasted for two years. The girl couldn't help but ask him what kind of girl could make him such a fun-loving person willing to settle his heart on a person.
The boy's is: I feel tired of playing, I have played enough, no matter how much I play, it is better to cherish the moment. So even if it's not her, I'm the same.
It was then that she realized that what she had been fighting for was actually unreasonable. She thought that someone else had changed him, but in fact, he was the only one who could change him.
No matter how much desire there is, it will eventually dissipate, and there will always be a day when people want to settle down.
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can make the scumbag take his heart.,I think it's because he met true love.,If he really likes a woman who loves her.,Then he will definitely change because of her.,And he won't be in contact with other women.,This girl must be very good.。
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It's very powerful, that girl must have the qualities that scumbags value. It is roughly divided into appearance, personality, education, and family background, and most of the common girls who make scumbags pay attention to them are the ones with more powerful personalities, such as: When in love, the girl is independent, and the economy and emotions are not attached to him, even if the other party splits his legs, he will not be sad for him, and he can even be seamlessly connected, provoking the desire of the scumbag to conquer but he can't really succeed, once the scumbag has signs of splitting his legs, he will not tolerate it.
In short, the girl was not ordinary.
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That girl must have her own unique charm, and she is good enough to make a scumbag take care of her.
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What to say, it's really difficult to set a standard for love, no matter what the reason is to break up, if you really decide to end the relationship, then don't do anything, whether you reject the other party, or drag the other party, this is irresponsible to yourself or to others, although hurting the other party with ruthless and ruthless words will make the other party die, but after all, they have been together, even if they don't love, there is no need to do this kind of thing to hurt others.
If I were you, I would definitely do a reflection, reflect on the bits and pieces of the two together, reflect on why we have come to this point, the question is what is in the other party, or in myself, if it is the other party, then whether this problem can be solved, if it is in myself, then whether this problem will change. If I really decide to break up with the other party, I think I will be more ruthless, the other party wants to get back together, that's his business, and since I have decided to break up, and have broken up, then I will not say particularly ugly words, I will tell the other party that the relationship is over, from this moment on, all your words and deeds have nothing to do with me.
And after the breakup, maybe I will be sad and sad, but since the relationship has ended, it would be good to return to my own life, as for what the other party wants to say and do, it is his own business, as long as he does not do things that harm me and my family, then everything is left to him to do, feelings can not be forced, love at the beginning was because I liked to be together, and now I don't love, then everything has come to an end, what we can do is to control ourselves, as for what others want to do and say, That's his business.
Therefore, my advice to you is to do nothing, say nothing, if you can, start a new relationship, after a long time, the relationship will slowly fade, and finally one parting and two wide, each is fine.
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Hello, let the scumbag take his heart, I think this girl is kind and wise, and will guide the boy to the right path. It's a good girl.
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A girl who can make a scumbag pay attention, first of all, he should be particularly beautiful. In fact, he is also very powerful and can subdue the scumbag. can make the scumbag be kind to her.
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The scumbag is not a scumbag all the time, it's just that he feels that there is nothing in life that he can take seriously. When his girl appears, he will be more serious and responsible than any man.
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You don't need to be very powerful, either you have unlimited charm and various routines, so that the other party has you in their eyes, or you can grasp the initiative and let his world be inseparable from you.
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This girl has to do well on her own, be self-disciplined, work hard, and if the boy makes a mistake, she must have the means, and he will never dare to do it again in the end, and be obedient.
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The girl who can make a scumbag feel less powerful is mainly based on how much she looks like her.
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You just need to show him your attitude, and if necessary, you can lie to him that he already has a new boyfriend, so that he can completely die.
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You should tell him that he already has a boyfriend, so that he can completely die for you and willingly start a new life of his own.
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