What does Baoyu and Daiyu mean by the conversation between Baoyu and Daiyu about the three thousand

This dialogue between them shows their loyalty to love. Daiyu has always been uneasy about Baoyu, and Baoyu has always been cautious about Daiyu's unease. The quarrels and fighting spirits of the two are also because of this.

Baoyu said that only one scoop of weak water for 3,000 is to drink, that is, to confess his heart, indicating that he will only love Daiyu alone.

Baoyu, Baoyu, you are so ruthless!

It means that I'm going to die, you are actually marrying, and your heart is too ruthless.

Baoyu, Baoyu, you have a good time with Sister Bao!

This is Lin Daiyu knew that she was about to come to the end of her life, so she persuaded Baoyu to live a good life with Sister Bao in the future, so don't always think about me.

This depends on what you think, after all, there is no way to verify.

First of all, the word "weak" is a fake word, and "drowning" means drowning, but in this sentence, it refers to the place where the water is submerged. The meaning of the whole sentence is: even if I am in deep, deep water, I will only take one spoonful of water to drink.

This "three thousand weak water, only take one scoop to drink" was not to express love at the beginning, but from an allusion.

One day, the Buddha asked a man under the Bodhi tree, "In everyone's eyes, you have everything, you have a successful career, a happy family, and you are very rich, why are you still unhappy?" This man: "That's why he doesn't know what to ask for, and what to give up?" ”

So the Buddha told him a story, in which the man was dying of thirst because he had no water to drink because of the bumpy road, and the Buddha put him into a lake so that he could survive, and the man stayed in the lake for a long time without taking a sip of water. The Buddha felt very strange and asked him why he didn't drink the water, and this person: "There is so much water in the lake, and my belly is so small, I can't drink it anyway, so it's better not to drink it."

After > told the story, the Buddha said to the unhappy man, "There are many beautiful things that come into a person's life, and it is enough for us to grasp one of them." "This is".Three thousand weak water, take only one scoop to drink.

The origin of it!

This phrase was originally used to refer to everything in the world, to tell people not to have too many desires, or they will never be happy. It is also the same in choosing a job, try to choose what you are good at, the job within your own major, rather than looking good here and looking good there. Instead, it's going to mess things up.

And this sentence is really well-known, or in a plot in "Dream of Red Mansions", when everyone acquiesced to the marriage of Baochai and Baoyu, and there was no intention to marry Daiyu to Baoyu, Daiyu had nothing to rely on in Jiafu, she could only rely on Baoyu's heart, which was her only hope.

So, Lin Daiyu kept testing Baoyu's attitude and said, "Sister Bao and hello, how are you?" Sister Bao doesn't say hello to you, how are you?

Sister Bao was good to you before, how about you if you don't get along with you now? I'm good to you today, but how about not being nice to you later? You're good with her, she's not good with you, how are you?

You don't get along with her, she gets along with you, how are you? At this time, Baoyu firmly said to Daiyu: ".Three thousand weak water, take only one scoop to drink.

Although Baoyu has many beautiful and sensible girls around her, Baoyu can't see anything because she likes Daiyu. No matter how good a girl is, as long as it is not Daiyu, Baoyu will not choose, from the words that Baoyu replied, we can know that Baoyu's feelings for Daiyu are unswerving.

Whether it's a relationship, or a good work and life, we must uphold a kind of "".Three thousand weak water, take only one scoop to drink. The attitude of facing one's own life.

Because this is Baoyu explaining his inner thoughts to Daiyu, Baoyu only has Daiyu in her heart, so Daiyu is relieved.

Because Baoyu was telling Daiyu that she only loved her in this life and this life, Daiyu was naturally relieved when she got the promise.

Ancient people were more subtle, and the meaning of this sentence is the meaning of I love you. Lin Daiyu was already very satisfied when she heard him say this.

It should be rich and noble, and poor and faithful, and poor and desolate.

Interpretation: When you are rich, you don't know how to be satisfied, and when you are poor, you can't stand the desolation.

1. Out of the spring Xunbi place.

From Cao Xueqin's "Xijiang Moon: Two Songs of Batch Baoyu" in the Qing Dynasty.

2. Original text. Wealth does not know happiness, and poverty is unbearable and desolate.

Pity and live up to the good Shaoguang, and there is no hope for the country and the family.

3. Interpretation. When you are rich, you don't know how to be satisfied, and when you are poor, you can't stand desolation.

It's a pity that I missed a great time, and it is useless for running a family and governing the country.