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Happiness is a person's situation, is a person's vision, we will not have troubles as long as we live happily, happiness comes from our own hearts, don't feel inferior, people, are great, no one is shorter than whom, you have to believe in yourself. Happiness comes from treating life well, not because of the advance and retreat and the growth of the bold spirit and delicate feelings, therefore, happy people can always smile in the face of life, he has the sun and the moon to look down on the world's heroic atmosphere, he can get a quiet and calm in the noise, he always has the virtue of warmth for all the potential beauty in life, he never cares about the gains and losses of a city and a place. He was able to maintain his graceful demeanor even if he was injured by an accident, and just smiled indifferently.
He even likes the wind and waves, like the cliffs, like admiring the flowers and the moon, he is an ordinary and great optimist. True happiness does not belong to the petty tune, nor in the ethereal heaven, but the camel bell on the desert, without the torment of hunger and thirst, without the hardship of labor, without facing death, without conquering the vast wind and sand, you will not hear the wonderful pleasure of the camel bell, if you lie on the soft sofa and shake the golden bell, you can only hear meaningless sound, because true happiness cannot be simulated in a luxurious living room. Only that kind of optimist can reach this extreme state of happiness. Beg.
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Being alive --- is the process from birth to death. The living subject is ourselves, and in the process we can enjoy different states: depressed, numb, warm, active, dazed, false, bland, real.
Enjoying these states is our life, and we can use different emotional experiences to complete the process of being alive. As long as we have feelings, there is meaning in living, and the meaning of it is that we have experienced the process. No matter what kind of life goal you have, you are completing a life experience.
If you don't have a clear goal in life, you are fulfilling another life experience. No matter what kind of life experience it is, its uninterrupted nature is our life. Our lives can change from one state to another, and this is what gives us a taste of different lives.
Then, any state actually has its process and continuity. Its procedural nature lies in the fact that it will have a period of time in which we will enjoy pain, happiness, blandness, and fulfillment. Its continuity can be compared to the inertia in physics, although the state has changed, but it still has a certain impact Just like the waves in the sea, although the surface is calm after it disappears, the power is still there, and when it hits the reef, it will still make waves If we understand the concept of living, we will find that no matter what kind of way of life, it will become the past, and what remains is only the memory of life experience in our hearts If we trap ourselves in this process, we become servants of the process, passive joy, Passive worry, helplessness, excitement, excitement, and confusion.
Perhaps, we should look at this process with a transcendent eye, because only transcendence can turn the illusory into the real and the numbness into the full. Only in this way will we become the masters of the process and enjoy every state of life with an active mindset. If we can understand the above content and take the initiative to adjust our mentality and concepts, we will find that life is full of sunshine.
When we discover the sunshine, our hearts are no longer empty, but full and happy.
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As long as you really want to be happy, you can give yourself happiness, don't think about those who are unhappy, and don't think about the past. Those are in the past. Find yourself and do what you want to do, and you'll be happy!
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