What should I do if parents and teachers have an unpleasant situation?

Being a good teacher loved by students is a panacea for a harmonious teacher-parent relationship. When we become good teachers that children love, children will help us go home and promote us, and parents will quickly recognize us. This is a panacea for us to deal with our relationship with parents.

The relationship between teachers and parents is an extension of the relationship between teachers and students, and as teachers, we must love our students as if they were our own children, and at the same time treat parents sincerely and equally. This requires teachers to start from the role of parents, grasp the psychology of parents, and prescribe the right medicine, which varies from person to person, so that there will be less friction, the relationship will be more harmonious, and the work of parents will be more effective.

Pay attention to the general skills of communication. First, teachers should be tactful when talking to parents. Affirm the child first and then point out the existing problems, first promote and then suppress.

Teachers can not wait for children to make mistakes before communicating with parents and complaining to parents, but usually take the initiative to reflect the child's situation in school, talk about the child's learning in school, get along with others and other aspects of the progress performance, in order to shorten the distance between teachers and parents, which is more concerned and very happy to accept by most parents.

In fact, parents don't like teachers to criticize students, it's better to take care of less, teachers are just an ordinary profession, not so noble and not so lowly, they know best how their children are, just get by, don't think too much.

If parents say something unpleasant, they must endure it and have a big heart to resolve the conflict, and then explain it slowly, and the parents will understand. Patiently listen to parents' complaints, find the crux of parents' problems, communicate in a timely manner, and then understand. ‍‍

Parents come prepared, teachers should be calm, listen to their words, look at their colors, try to resolve unhappiness, communicate attentively, as long as we really care about the children, parents will be angry and satisfied. We are also willing to be good parents. ‍‍

We need to understand the love that parents have for their children. I think as a parent, I should feel that my child is always the best. Because their children have made mistakes, they are just confused for a while, and the naughtiness of children is a kind of cuteness.

And if the child breaks a little skin at school, parents will be very distressed and nervous. At this time, it is important for teachers to understand the role of parents, recognize their needs and problems, and evaluate children correctly.

Respecting parents and maintaining an equal relationship with parents is necessary to ensure a smooth conversation with parents. If we treat parents with an equal and friendly attitude, regard parents as friends, respect parents' opinions, listen to parents' suggestions with an open mind, and are willing to talk to parents, then the relationship between teachers and parents will be more harmonious.

Please let parents know that they really care about their children, and it may be due to a moment of negligence. Generally, parents will not make things difficult for teachers, if teachers follow their parents, parents may feel that they are not right, too much, and will communicate with teachers patiently. ‍‍

Listen patiently and make the parents feel that you really respect them. Parents are sometimes half gone, and when they calm down to communicate, parents must be calm. ‍‍

You should ask what happened first. If it is the child's fault, let him understand his mistake and then apologize to the teacher. If it's the teacher's fault, you should talk to the teacher about it.

To teach children to deal with problems independently, they will be able to improve the relationship with the teacher, and the conflict between students and teachers is the problem of learning, as long as they learn well and can respect the teacher, the problems between teachers and students can basically be solved.

Does it have anything to do with me?

Why did you cross my way to communicate with my parents in the first place?

Let them go.

But when educating children, teachers have their own ideas, and parents will interfere with the teacher's education at this time. Teachers should not be afraid to put forward the child's shortcomings will be unacceptable to parents, to tell parents, what kind of problems the child has, in fact, teachers can only effectively help children improve their grades if they communicate with parents correctly.

And in daily life, you can also have a good understanding of the child's living conditions at home with the parents, so that you can know why the child has some wrong behaviors. Because there are many parents who always talk to teachers about some problems that their children encounter when learning, teachers listen more at this time, in fact, there are still many benefits. I can understand the frustration that teachers feel when dealing with parents, but sometimes some problems need to be solved in the process.

If the problem is not properly solved, it will also have a big impact on the child in the end. Therefore, teachers should also learn to communicate with parents, and in the process of communication, they can understand some practical problems of students. At the same time, parents should also distinguish between right and wrong, and do not feel that teachers are obligated to do anything when sending their children to school.

Some small things in life still need parents to educate, teachers must learn to give parents opportunities, and parents must also learn to give teachers space. Only by achieving a benign communication with each other can things be solved well.

Tell yourself the importance of communicating with your parents and try more. I am also a teacher, and I was reluctant to communicate with parents when I first graduated. However, students are not only educated by teachers, but also influenced by parents, and teachers must communicate more with parents in order to understand students better, push themselves more, and try more.

You can improve your mentality, if you don't like to deal with parents as a teacher, it will make parents particularly annoying, and it will also make parents put their children here with the teacher, which is particularly uneasy.

To overcome what you don't want to do, although dealing with parents is very troublesome, dealing with parents is something you have to do.

First, parents should not easily agree with their children's dissatisfaction with teachers.

Because the child is still underage, coupled with the strength of the blood and the anger, the view is often not comprehensive, and even a bit extreme.

Some children may lie in order to avoid being scolded by their parents.

In this regard, parents should keep a clear head, fully understand the reasons for the matter, and communicate with the teacher in a timely manner. If the teacher really misunderstands the child, you can explain it to the teacher.

Second, encourage your child to communicate with the teacher.

It is a good thing, not a bad thing, for a child to have an independent sense and desire to perform. Parents should understand and support this, not suppress it. If you find that your child has an opinion about the teacher, you should encourage your child to communicate with the teacher in a variety of correct and reasonable ways.

Be bold and speak your mind.

The vast majority of teachers are very willing to communicate with their students.

Third, it is necessary to educate and strengthen children's respect for teachers.

The teacher's respect for the students is the source of motivation for the teacher's work; Being respected by teachers is the driving force for students' growth.

Both teachers and students will gain respect and motivation from each other while respecting others.

You should encourage your child to actively admit his mistakes to the teacher. Under normal circumstances, it is usually the child's actions that are really wrong. You need to help him analyze and correct him, and if the child is doing the right thing, then you can find appropriate ways to solve the problem.

This teacher is very unusual, you have to see what the contradiction is, if the child is wrong, you will teach, if the teacher is wrong, you will face it and talk about it. However, the teacher will not deliberately embarrass the child, it is all to correct the child's behavior, and you can talk directly to the former teacher. It's a matter of facts.

When encountering such problems, parents should be patient to understand. What's going on? And then against. The node of the problem is patiently helped to solve.

Discharge cooling is another type of convection cooling. Unlike regenerative cooling, the coolant used for exhaust cooling absorbs heat to the thrust chamber and is discharged out of the combustion chamber instead of entering the combustion chamber to participate in combustion. Direct drain coolant reduces the thrust chamber specific impulse, so the coolant flow for drain cooling needs to be minimized while only using drain cooling at the outlet section of the nozzle that is relatively less heated.

There is also radiative cooling, in which the heat flow is transferred from the combustion products to the thrust chamber, and then the heat is radiated by the thrust chamber wall to the surrounding space. Radiative cooling is characterized by simplicity and small structural mass. It is mainly used in the extension section of large nozzles and the thrust chamber of small thrust engines using high-temperature resistant materials.

When cooling in the thrust chamber of the tissue, a relatively low temperature liquid or gas protective layer is established on the surface of the thrust chamber wall to reduce the heat flow to the thrust chamber wall, reduce the wall temperature, and achieve cooling. Internal cooling is mainly divided into three methods: internal cooling (shield cooling), membrane cooling and diaphoretic cooling of head tissues. After the internal cooling measures are adopted in the thrust chamber, the mixing ratio near the wall of the combustion chamber is different from the optimal mixing ratio in the central area (in most cases, the near-wall layer rich in fuel is used) due to the need to reduce the temperature of the protective layer, resulting in the uneven distribution of the mixing ratio along the cross-section of the combustion chamber, so that the combustion efficiency is reduced to a certain extent.

Membrane cooling is similar to shield cooling in that it cools the thrust chamber wall by establishing a uniform and stable coolant film or air film protective layer near the inner wall surface, except that the coolant used to establish the protective layer is not injected by the injector, but is supplied through a special cooling belt. The cooling band is generally arranged in a cross-section of the combustion chamber or the convergence section of the nozzle. There can be several cooling bands along the length of the combustion chamber.

In order to improve the stability of the membrane, the coolant often flows through the gaps or small holes in the cooling belts, and when sweating is used, the thrust chamber wall or part of the inner wall is made of porous material with a pore diameter of tens of microns. Porous materials are usually sintered with metal powders or pressed with metal mesh. In this case, the number of pores per unit area is increased by making the micropores in the material as evenly distributed as possible.

The liquid coolant penetrates into the inner wall, creating a protective film that reduces the density of the heat transferred to the wall. When the flow rate of liquid coolant used for sweat cooling is above a certain threshold, a liquid film is formed near the wall of the thrust chamber. When the coolant flow rate is below the critical flow, the inner wall temperature will be higher than the coolant boiling point at the current pressure, and some or all of the coolant will evaporate, forming an air film.

In addition to the above thermal protection, there are other thermal protection methods such as: ablation cooling, thermal insulation cooling, hot melt cooling and composite protection of chamber walls. 3. Thermal protection scheme of high enthalpy gas generator Based on the above methods and the actual situation, the thermal protection method of high enthalpy gas generator is obtained.

The combustion chamber of a high-enthalpy gas generator differs from that of a liquid rocket engine, eliminating the front thrust chamber part, making its structure simpler and more effective. Then, the thermal protection involved is the thermal protection part of the combustion chamber wall. As the fuel enters the combustion chamber, it quickly decomposes and releases large quantities.

First of all, I think as a parent, you must be calm and find out what the reason for the conflict, whether the child is doing something wrong or the teacher is deliberately finding fault. If it is the child's fault, as a parent, the first thing to point out the child's mistake is, especially to let him recognize the mistake, take the initiative to communicate with the teacher to admit the mistake, before that, the parent can first communicate with the teacher, I believe that the teacher as an adult generally will not care about children.

If it is really the teacher who deliberately finds fault, first of all, calm the child's temper and do not deliberately contradict the teacher. After that, go to communicate with the teacher, if you really can't communicate, then you can only find another way, change to listen to lectures in class, the teacher can't stop teaching because you are alone, if you ask him a question, he can't, you can find a teacher outside of class, and how developed the Internet is now, you can always find the answer. It's really not possible, parents who can afford it can transfer their children to another class or even a different school.

Of course, you can also give his superiors or the Education Bureau a reaction to the situation.

Investigate the whole story, the ins and outs, and then analyze the right and wrong points with the child, especially how to deal with the mistakes better. After all, teachers are elders and must be respected, and teachers should not be contradicted for any reason.

I don't think you can easily change classes, because other teachers know the conflict between your child and the teacher, you don't want to apologize to the teacher first, but think that you should change the class first, will other teachers be willing to accept your child? The point is that people may not want to deal with parents like you unless they change to another school where no one knows about you.

When a student and a teacher have a conflict, as a parent, you should start from two aspects, investigate the situation first, and make a decision. If it is the student's mistake, the teacher should be apologized. If it is the teacher's mistake, we will face it with the resolution method of turning big things into small things and small things into nothing.

We should approach the teacher-student relationship with understanding, tolerance, and humility.

Personally, I think that teachers, as educators, hope that their students can learn knowledge and be reasonable, even if there is a misunderstanding, students should be calm and clear to the teacher! After all, teachers should be respected! Students or parents should be active in understanding the situation and criticizing the student's behavior!

After all, as a parent, you may be able to make your child more aware of the teacher's good intentions!