I used to spend a lot of time worrying about whether I was not from others

Novice mom raising baby 700 questions.

Being sensitive is not a bad thing.

If you're in detective, police or counseling, etc., you're using your strengths.

Because he is still young, it is difficult to achieve the kind of Mount Tai who is not shocked, even if he is a seasoned person, it is difficult to hide.

Now that you know your sensitive personality, it's good to know how to observe a lot of things. For example, when doing business, we can perceive whether customers are interested and have any doubts.

Being able to think of the worst and do it in the best direction is a spirit that many people rarely have.

Also, it's someone else who thinks of you. It's okay to do your best, because even if you do your best, there are still some people who just look down on you and can't get used to you.

Have a clear conscience in everything, change what is bad, and encourage what is not.

Be yourself.

Sensitivity is not a bad thing, 25% of the population should be HSP physique, congenital sensitivity, most likely introverted, acquired is not easy to change. Sensitive physique is not suitable for survival today, but in turbulent times, sensitive people are likely to survive. The observation of changes in the surrounding environment is very fast and detailed, and face-to-face conversations can quickly know the psychological feelings of the other party.

It's not wrong to be too sensitive, it's not wrong to be too introverted, sensitive people have strong observation and feeling skills, and introverts usually have a higher IQ.

Therefore, it is recommended that the landlord read more books on behavioral psychology, observe others when socializing with others, and shift his attention to others. Note: Sensitivity is not vulnerability, from a dialectical point of view, it is a kind of "superpower".

The heart is sensitive, there are a lot of ideas, it is not a bad thing, the sixth sense should be quite accurate, which may also be a reflection of high emotional intelligence, but it is very sensitive, it will make people very tired. Every time you want to think too much, you must suggest that you don't think about it anymore and stop there, which is a waste of time and energy. You should also relax yourself, don't take others as important, and stop in the process of dating.

Hehe's not a bad thing, but it's really annoying to be too sensitive. I used to be like this, but now I'm not sensitive, and I should be careful if I change a lot.

The first thing to do is to read more books and understand more things, this is not a textbook. Learn a little more about society, science, and in short, what interests you. Then set your goals, and the best way to get rid of the other-centered life you live all day is to have a goal to work towards.

The next point is that you have to socialize more, make more friends, and there are still more social activities at the age of 20, so that there are a lot of things in front of you in your brain, and those things will not be more sensitive.

The last point is that the sea is inclusive, and there is tolerance. Sometimes nature still has a great impact on a person, often facing the sea, or the macro natural landscape will have a subtle change to a person. When I stood on the Emei Golden Dome and looked at the mountains, my heart was naturally open-minded.

Think about your feelings when I was in my 20s, I think this is a manifestation of lack of self-confidence, especially when you encounter setbacks in doing things, you will feel that it is your own problem. Maybe your family or friends don't usually give you much encouragement.

You don't have to worry too much, as you grow older and have more social experience, you will slowly become more confident.

A little suggestion Position the role you like to play, and perform it persistently and carefully.

Heng Mei coldly pointed at Qianfu, bowed his head and was willing to be a son of a cow) This is the strength of the heart.

Hopefully, these will be good memories on your life path.

There's a classic saying I give him to you: you're just a grain of sand in this world! Coming to so many viewers?

It's simple and clear! You are so insignificant in this world, how can so many people pay attention to you? I don't mean anything else, I'm just saying that you don't really need to care too much about other people's feelings, and the more you worry about it, the more you worry about it, the worse it goes, and when you don't worry about her, it gets better!

In fact, as long as you tell yourself in your heart that I always care about other people's feelings, then what about myself? I'm troubled, I'm uncomfortable, and who cares about me? How many are there at all?

Others don't care about you, but you worry about others, and others don't become happy because of your concerns! Sometimes people even resent your concerns! Adults are always worried about doing things, so how can it be done like this?

As he spoke, he went far away. So if it's a man, you just let it go and do it! Even if you do it wrong?

Wrong, you have experience, right, and you like! People can only succeed by constantly groping! So your concerns can be a stumbling block!

Do you understand? I don't know if it will unlock the solution in your heart! But please remember to let go of everything!

Thinking too much will not only make you miserable, but it will also involve a lot!

Good luck with LZ!

You are a typical non-assertive type, as far as the situation you described, I personally think that what you lack is self-confidence, if a person does not have self-confidence, the consequences are very serious, such as your current situation, because of a little thing, you will associate a lot of things, this, you have a more important problem, suspicious and suspicious! If you are not confident and suspicious, then it is normal for you to have similar problems!

So, I suggest that you start with yourself and solve your own problems first, so that you can no longer worry about some small things. Socializing with people is a very artistic thing, but if a person does not meet the standards of this art, then he is easily tired by this art!

Being a person, doing things, the most important thing is self-confidence, with self-confidence, you are easy to succeed in everything you do, but if you are not confident, then you will first doubt yourself, if you even doubt yourself, then who else can you trust? What else can be done?

Remember one sentence. You can't ignore what other people mean, but you don't have to care too much about it. Men should be a little more nervous and a little rougher.

Damn, it should be a girl leaning in the arms of a man, why is the little bird now trembling and becoming a brother? Take a little bit of manly spirit, set some principles for yourself from now on, force yourself to obey, and if you break your oath, there will be no little brother ......So you won't break your vows, will you?

I'll draw you up a few.

One, if I disagree with my girlfriend, then be sure to listen to me. Of course, the premise is that your own opinion cannot be too outrageous.

Second, if I'm wrong, I will never apologize to my girlfriend. But I will compensate her with actions.

Three, the time to think before speaking cannot exceed five seconds, if it is exceeded, I am undefeated in the East.

Fourth, the earth revolves because of me, and I don't have to think about what will happen to others. If my words hurt others, it hurts, damn, if I keep thinking about this, the person who hurts me is myself. Pumping her !!

Fifth, change is formed step by step. If I am brave enough to say even a sentence today, it will be a step towards success!

Of course, the above is a severe medicine, an extraordinary practice in extraordinary times. I hope it helps, but don't become an orc man.

In fact, you don't have to care so much about these issues, you can say what you want to say, and it doesn't matter if you say something wrong, everyone will say the wrong thing sometimes.

Well, I think you should go to a psychological counselor, because after all, we are not professional、、、 I think it is related to age, I also have this situation, always think about things, afraid of this and that, sometimes I don't know what to do, I don't have an opinion on what I do, I don't care about the feelings of the people around me, I don't hurt them, but sometimes I hurt others, and I blame myself very much afterwards, and then I can't extricate myself from it、、、 maybe we're too young now. Maybe it's because we have too little experience, it's always like this, I sympathize with your situation, I hope you can read some books about life, watch some inspirational videos and discuss with others when doing things, don't face it alone, communicate with your girlfriend often, I think she will understand you, won't worry too much about you, and don't think about so many things in your heart, your mind is calm and naturally cool, don't worry about too many things, your spirit will be fine, as for you can't sleep is also due to this, so you have to be kind to yourself, Don't keep thinking about so many troubled things, be happy with your girlfriend and family, and you will be fine soon、、、 come on、、、 I'm tired to death、、、 welcome to score.

I wonder if you can replace the word suspicious when you say sensitive? You care too much about what others think of you, really! From the things of your girlfriend, you can find that you are actually very "empty" inside!

I don't think it will do you any good if you go on like this for a long time! What you lack is self-confidence! You can't guess what else you think, there are some things you should pay attention to, and some things that are not necessary!

Even if you say the wrong word, the wrong thing is wrong, and the next time there is such a problem, you don't want to make it! Why go back and think about what happened to you? I used to be a little worse than you, at least I would have thought about how to phrase it at the time, but in hindsight it didn't seem appropriate, then I'll remember not to commit it next time!

Look for your own strengths and see what others are not as good as you! What are the aspects of yourself that are inferior to others? Compare each other!

Everyone has a flaw, find out and correct him! It's like if you're afraid of saying something that hurts her heart, then I suggest that you say less when you communicate, even if you apologize so much, just correct it next time!

It's a blessing and not a curse.

It's a disaster that can't be avoided.

The first time I saw this kind of thing, I saw it for a long time.

Sister Hua was usually very good-looking when she was a child, and she was better looking than ordinary people. I think it should be, or I suggest you go to someone to calculate.

Sister Hua's life tradition: Sister Hua's life, fateful, the first half of her life is bumpy, if you don't die in the second half of your life, you will be lucky, rich and prosperous.

Suggestion: It happens to be autumn in front of the eyes, choose an auspicious day to invite a shaman master to dance the gods, and you will definitely be auspicious.

Listen to you, it's pretty much ......is outstanding, has a bumpy fate, and when it comes to marriage, it doesn't go well, and there are suicidal tendencies in ......But I sincerely advise you, you can be optimistic, at the age of eighteen, you can live 28, 38, 48 ......As long as you pass 48 and everything is fine, since you have a national faith, why not turn to your shamanic ......May He bless you!! It's better to find someone who knows how to do the math, and don't talk about ...... on the InternetGot it??? This kind of thing can't be said too clearly, you have to be secretive, and you can't offend the fairy ......

Sister Hua: I really don't understand, but I know that there are no wonders in the world.

Just looking at the title, I thought you were talking about Sister Hua who drank flower wine. . .

I sincerely bless you, and may you grow old!

In the future, manage the relationship well, passing her test is only the first step, the test from life will continue, and you must be happy forever.

Then take advantage of it, and I hope you will have a good result in the end.

"May the passing years live up, may the time not regret, may the smile still be as bright as summer flowers" The meaning of this sentence is:

Live up to the time, try your best to do what you want to do, don't regret the lost time, and still face life with a smile.

It comes from the appreciation of American literature, and there is no specific author.

The sentences that appeared at the same time as him are: spread out the time, talk about the passing years, live up to the time, live up to you.

"May the passing years live up, may the time not regret, may the smile still be as bright as summer flowers" This sentence means: I hope to live up to the beautiful time of our youth, do not regret the time we will pass, and hope that your smile is still as bright as the flowers blooming in summer.

With a happy expression on his face, he made a joyful voice. Laughter is an expression of a good mood. Medical scientists have found that many people who live long lives have one thing in common - they love to laugh. The old birthday star in my country's mythology is a smiling image.

Refers to the state of expression on the face when smiling. There are many types of laughter, such as smiling, chuckling, laughing, shy, embarrassed, and mocking, among which the smile is the most beautiful.

1. There are many kinds of laughter, such as smile, chuckle, laughter, shy laughter, embarrassing laughter, mocking laughter, etc., among which the smile is the most beautiful.

2. A smile refers to a smile that does not show teeth and the corners of the mouth are slightly raised.

May the passing years live up to ......In fact, I think that in a lifetime, people do not necessarily have to make great achievements and great careers in order to live up to this life. As long as you feel very satisfied, even if you have little money, food and clothing are not rich, and your heart is satisfied, you will live up to the passing years.

May time not regret ......Time is talking about our own hearts, and our hearts have never regretted all our actions and intentions, that is, we do not regret it. This is to let us seize the passage of time and hurry up to do what we can still do, still want to do, but have never done.

May the smile still shine like a summer flower......By the time we are old, many opportunities have become a thing of the past, and at that time, we can laugh like summer flowers, naturally, without fetters in our hearts, without sighs, without regrets.

If a person can still do this when he is old, how satisfying this is, and he must be very happy. When I think about it, I wish I could do the same.