Now the little girls born in the 80s are very realistic

Those who were born in 1987 will be 31 years old this year. Alone, the Northeast people drifted in Suzhou. Because of these reasons, I walked out of the campus in 2016 and moved from Tianjin to Suzhou.

Am I still young? Can I say that I am young when I have reached the age of establishment? <>

If I'm no longer young in terms of age, I'm past the age of crazy play and chasing. But in terms of personality and circumstances, I found that I was still young.

Maybe it's not young, it's easy to be seduced. Or maybe it's not that you're easily seduced, but that you see different colors. After graduation, I found that my former self was like a lazy snail, squirming forward little by little, smelling the fragrance of flowers and basking in the sun.

Even though there is a little anxiety in life, in such an environment, I have passed leisurely year after year. <>

After graduating, I opened my eyes slightly and saw a different world. It turns out that some people have begun to become super individuals, and the breadth and height of cognition are beyond people's reach, but they also want to become such people. <>

As a result, at the age of 30, I had many new life experiences. I have attended many courses, met many people, and seen a different life, so I am eager to change!

Because I still have the courage to change and the courage to pursue a different life, I think I am young.

The post-80s, like most post-generations, have come to the forefront of their own times. As a group that is about to "run four", we are no longer young after the 80s, from the first time we heard children call uncles and aunts to the current safe and easy, this is a process from not very mature to mature. The post-80s generation sits in the young unbus from the age level.

In the blink of an eye, the post-80s generation has gone through almost 40 years. From a young guy, slowly began to enter the ranks of middle-aged people, is this a good thing or a bad thing? It is obviously not appropriate to describe it this way.

As I get older, I ...... studying, working, and starting a familyThe trajectory points of life are slowly extending forward. Most people live an ordinary life, moving forward and moving forward at this point by point.

I happen to be a post-80s generation, and most of my friends, classmates, and colleagues are also post-80s, we are a group in this era, and we are also a generation that has grown up with "black", just like the "post-90s, post-00s" who are being commented on now. However, we are always on the road. Some time ago, it happened to be the day of our graduation ten years, and the students met for a class reunion.

For such gatherings, it is not uncommon in our lives, the more the development of the Internet, coupled with convenient transportation, the contact and communication between people has become very convenient, and students from all over the world have gathered together with a message.

Class reunions are inevitably clichéd, and everyone is happy to get together, I think it's because of people's nostalgia, which is a kind of nostalgia for past life experiences. Some students also brought a group photo at that time, and when these youthful ** were passed on the hands of the students, laughter and emotion sounded from time to time. People are like this, when they were young, they wanted to grow up quickly, and when they really grew up, they began to miss their previous lives.

As a member of the post-80s generation, we are tiny members of society. After the 80s, we truly live in our own world, working hard for life, work, and family every day, all the way forward.

I think the post-80s generation is still young, and the oldest post-80s generation is not yet 40 years old, so they can still struggle.

After Dandan, they have all begun to become adults and begin to break into society. What are the post-80s and post-90s girls busy with?

Post-80s: Busy for children: The post-80s girls are probably all old women in people's mouths now, and they are all in their 30s, and they are all children. Children are the most important existence in the eyes of mothers, and these post-80s generations who are married and have children are busy for their children every day.

At this time, the children are only a few years old, and it is the most difficult and worrying time, their food, clothing, housing and transportation, their academic performance, and their ideological and moral character have to be handled by their parents.

Struggle for life: If the family who is married now does not buy a house, then the vast majority of people are ordinary families and have to pay off the mortgage every month. In addition, various living expenses, as well as children's expenses, are a lot of money.

It is impossible for a woman born in the 80s to only take care of her children at home, and the burden of life will overwhelm her man. Women will also choose to go out to work to earn money to subsidize the family, and the children will be handed over to their grandparents to take care of, so that the life of the family is getting better and better.

Worry about your parents: women born in the 80s, their parents are nearly 60 years old. The body is getting worse and worse, and the need for children to take care of them is increasing.

They will often shuttle to their mother's and in-law's homes to see if they are doing well and if there is any discomfort that needs timely treatment.

Post-90s: Ready to talk about marriage: Today's girls always don't want to get married so early, after all, no one is comfortable in marriage. If you put it in the past, the girls born in the 90s are already second-child mothers, but now?

The post-90s girls are busy talking about marriage. When the age of marriage is reached, even if you are not in a hurry, your parents will force you to get married. At this time, those who have a partner are going to start talking about marriage, and those who don't have a partner are starting to be arranged for various blind dates.

The sweet period of marriage: Many post-90s Guliang have just entered the palace of marriage, and they are still enjoying the happiness of having a lover and finally becoming a family. At the beginning of marriage, it always feels good, but after a long time, there may be constant quarrels However, I hope that all women's marriages are happy and happy.

Busy with work: Basically, most of the post-90s girls have come out to work, and a few 90-year-old tail girls are still studying. Today's women don't rely on men, they know that men can't be relied on, only on themselves.

They work hard outside the home, earn money to support themselves, and can also be filial to their parents. You see, isn't it nice to have such a girl? Self-reliance.

Girls born in the 80s or 90s are gradually moving towards a stable life. The years are urging people to get old, and we used to be always young in people's mouths, but now? It's not a small age, we have to do what we have to do, and we have to work hard for the rest of our lives.

I am a junior in the 90s, about to graduate, I think most of the post-90s have the same living state as me, now I am in the school every day at three o'clock in the line of life, the dining hall dormitory classroom every day endless cycle, boring and boring, has long lost the vigor and vitality of the freshman year, the rest is just the pressure of life, because they are about to face the pressure of further education or employment.

As I am about to graduate from my junior year, I now have to review for my final exams, prepare for my professional certification, and prepare for interviews for internships and employment. I am also full of confusion about my choice, I don't know whether to continue my studies or work first to accumulate experience, these are all places that I need to choose.

Of course, in addition to me, some post-90s generations are now living a very chic life, they have no pressure to work and go to school, because their families have already laid everything for them, so every day is to eat, drink and have fun, show affection, show positioning, show beautiful pictures, sometimes envy them but envy themselves and have to work hard to live after envy.

After talking about the post-90s, it is time to say the post-80s, the post-80s have basically started a family now, and even most of them should have children, my sister is a typical representative of the post-80s, she has to take care of the family when she goes to work every day with her children, she has no free space in life, she has to deal with the work assigned by her superiors, and she has to do a good job in the education of her children, and she has to keep her home in order and strive to maintain her relationship with her husband.

Whether it is a post-80s or post-90s girl, most of them should be running around and working hard every day for life, and there is no way back, so they can only move forward bravely and go to the dark one by one.

I'm 86 years old, and my child is already in elementary school. I feel that I am still satisfied with my current life, stable work, happy family, cherish life, and spend every day happily. To sum up, of course, there will be troubles in life, but we must have an optimistic and understanding heart.