Why don t you know how to cherish when you have it, and regret it when you lose it?

Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

After losing, I know that I have to cherish, people are like this, what I can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

People will be like this, and they will only know the meaning of their existence after they lose it. When I got it, I never thought of separating, so I ......When you lose it, you realize that it is precious!

Because, when you have him, you will think that it is your own anyway and you can't run away, so you never take it to heart and never know to take care of it. And when he no longer belongs to you, you will understand how important he is to you.

Regardless of family, friendship, or love, we must learn to cherish it when we have him, and when we unfortunately lose it, we should replace it with memories and complaints.

People are often like this, they don't know how to cherish what they get, and they don't know how to cherish what they get once they lose it. So, in the long life, how many people sigh like this: it is difficult to recover the water, regret is beyond reach, the sun and rain, the birds and flowers, give everyone fairly; Joy and joy, troubles and sorrows, but they belong to the private property of individuals.

Life is always beautiful, it's not that there are too many troubles, it's just that we don't understand life; It's not that there is too little happiness, it's just that we don't know how to grasp it.

People always know how to cherish after losing! There are many people who don't know how to cherish everything around them, and they always regret it after they lose it. You will meet many people in your life, and she may be an episode in your life.

Having what you shouldn't have, having is a loss, losing is a gain, the world is so big, it's worth cherishing, why is the weight of feelings only added to one person's scale. There is no wrong feeling, but in the relationship you have no love for the person. It's whether you have cherished it in your relationship.

It's enough to have a beautiful melody, not everyone can have it, you have to cherish it, even if it's only memories. When you really lose, you regret it, you regret it. It turns out that so much has been lost.

But there are no people in the world who sell regret medicine, and the roads they have traveled and the things they have done can only be recalled in our memories. Maybe it's sad, it's sad. But everything is already predestined.

Trying to redeem her and save the relationship, she accepted the first meeting. If you can't do anything about it, then let go freely and learn to give up because you have worked hard and tried your best.

Most people are like this, when they have it, they feel that it is no big deal in their hands, and after they lose it, they will desperately look for it and want to redeem it, but it is too late, and it is useless to regret ye.

That's how people don't care when they have it, and when they lose it, they want to cherish it, and they don't want to have it again, so they regret it.

Love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable longing, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation, a kind of striving to create a sky for the happiness of the lover, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a process of dependence and kindness to each other, a feeling of heartbeat (when missing), heartbeat (when we meet), heartache (when parting and hurting) Love someone, understand and explain, apologize and thank, admit mistakes and correct mistakes, Be considerate and considerate, accept rather than endure, be tolerant!!Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth paying without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love. In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you.

I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life.

A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

"I just want more sad people to be soothed here. Xiao Lu, a junior in college, said that this was the original reason why he founded Breakup.com. On March 5 this year, the breakup network, which has no precedent in China, was officially opened, with more than 400 members and more than 10,000 hits in just one week.

Lu Sunrong, a 21-year-old junior at Nanjing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics, had just entered the university in 2005 when he was introduced by a friend to a girl who was studying in Yangzhou. Xiao Lu said that he doted on his girlfriend very much, and no matter what kind of requests she had, Xiao Lu always tried his best to meet them. Two years passed in a flash, because Xiao Lu couldn't be with his girlfriend all the time, his girlfriend began to be crazy obsessed with online games, and even went to meet netizens in the game behind his back, and the relationship between the two gradually cracked, and finally broke up in April 2007.

It was a very gloomy day. Xiao Lu said that he was in a negative mood for a long time. He loves to write, and he began to write the bits and pieces of his girlfriend in the past two years into mood stories, and posted them on well-known domestic forums such as Xici and Tianya.

But he soon discovered that because of the large number of these ** pages, his articles were quickly drowned in the pages that were updated every day. These feelings prompted him to germinate the idea of creating a professional breakup emotion**, "so that the people who broke up can be together to comfort and warm each other".

In October 2007, Xiao Lu began to buy domain names and architecture programs, and after more than a month of hard work, his breakup ** was officially launched. Through various search engines, he was excited to find that this emotional ** with the theme of "breakup" was actually the first in China. The breakup network has been running for more than a week, with an average of more than 700 traffic per day.

Because they are optimistic about the huge business opportunities that the "breakup" may bring, two companies in Beijing and Shanghai have contacted Xiao Lu and proposed to inject capital into the joint venture. However, Xiao Lu considered that ** was to provide emotional catharsis and confiding space for "the same sad people in the world", so he rejected the request of the joint venture.

Xiao Lu's current breakup network has entered the second generation, ** page has done a lot of special sections, such as the moment of breakup, love story, healing, etc., careful Xiao Lu also built a "love wall" for those who are still attached to each other after the breakup, for friends who are depressed by the pain of the breakup to make room for venting, and also to help friends who are depressed and can't think of building a psychological counseling room.

Because when you have it, the mentality is a matter of course, you don't have to cherish it, it's all your own anyway.

Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person. Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then.

When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others." "When I'm loved, I think:

It's a blessing to be loved! But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by. Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart.

Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears. Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime.

Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world. The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **?

Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent. There are many people who have no soul.

I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world. He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did.

Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.