How to achieve self discipline and self control in elementary school students

How to achieve true self-discipline? Teach you 3 methods.

One of the obvious differences between children who go to school and toddlers is that they begin to learn to write on their own and have homework to complete every day.

After the child goes to school, on the basis of the early childhood, it is necessary to continue to ask the child to write a daily plan.

In grades 1 to 3, the plan is the same as for young children, and you must write three items: date, time period, and event. Words that your child can't write can be replaced with pinyin or pictures. Write down your daily plan for each time from waking up to going to bed at night, including the school day.

Special note: In the afternoon after school and before going to bed, you can agree with your child whether to do homework or other things first, but let your child prepare everything before doing homework to avoid being unable to concentrate when doing homework. After a period of time, a reasonable arrangement of the plan is reached.

Parents should remember: it is more important to stick to it than to do it well at the beginning!

When your child enters fourth grade, add two items to your daily plan: quantity and quality. Once you have the quantity and quality requirements, ask your child to check the plan every night before going to bed to see if there is anything that needs to be modified and how it is done.

Parents must remember: for primary and secondary school students, persistence is more important than doing a good job, daily communication is more important than inspection, and each time is more important than criticism and guidance.

After the child enters junior high school, parents should guide the child to make a monthly plan, designate a weekly plan around the monthly plan, and set a daily plan according to the weekly plan. In this way, as we grow older, we gradually use long-term planning to lead the medium-term plan, and use the medium-term plan to standardize the short-term plan. In this way, before children go to college, they can form independent learning, self-discipline and manage their emotions and time, and they will be able to achieve their dreams in their future life and work.

Uninvited, tell me about my experience as a child.

When I was a child, I didn't have self-discipline, I didn't watch enough TV, I didn't play enough, I just didn't do my homework, and how many plans I made at that time were all in vain.

In the end, my father was more assertive, and I just played a few times, and since then I have lived a self-disciplined life, eating on time, doing homework, and being obedient to everything, but I don't know if there is such a way until now.

1. Abide by the law, many students act misbehave in their student days, and they rarely consider the consequences, and the result is often because of an impulsive or wrong judgment, resulting in a violation of the law and school rules, and regret it.

2. Study hard - there is a good saying, at what age you have to do what you should do, the most important thing in your student days is to study, although it is very bitter and boring, but the future is beautiful, learning is to change fate, knowledge changes fate, it has become an undeniable fact.

3. Make friends appropriately - making friends is a good thing, which can make the troubles that arise in the student's time and share them with friends, which has a good role in solving problems, but to promote learning, if you just want to play every day, it is better not to make friends.

4. Honor your parents - think more about your parents and let your parents worry less, because the student age is a process of growth, you must learn to grow and share, understand the hard work of your parents, and understand your parents' contributions.

As students, we should be filial to our parents, make appropriate friends, study hard, abide by the law, and if we have hobbies, we can also cultivate hobbies and cultivate personal sentiments.

2. Self-discipline does not mean that children must be self-disciplined in everything. May be on request. With a purpose, self-discipline will be better. So you can't ask your child to be disciplined in everything.

3. Focus on and insist. For example, the time of the assignment. According to the difficulty of the daily work, how much is left, the time is set. Reasonable arrangement of children's activities after school.

4. Let children stick to one thing and form a habit. Eventually, this habit becomes a natural. For example, keep a diary. Or Becky reads articles every day.

5. Don't ask for self-discipline in everything. In this way, parents will feel tired of staring. Children can also get tired. For key things, for example, the number of students burns and learns, and the focus is on. Other things, a little bit more relaxed. Give your child the freedom to make some good choices.

In fact, self-discipline is only aimed at yourself, and don't always compare yourself with other people's examples. Discover your child's progress. Be encouraging.