How to communicate with stubborn children? How to communicate with a stubborn child

Try a different way of communicating with your child.

Hit once, today's children are lawless, I can fight a lot when I was a child! 、

In fact, if many children have a stubborn temper, most of the cases are caused by improper education methods, because their ability to understand most things in the world is stronger than that of children of the same age, and they are even more self-aware and have strong self-esteem. Therefore, when they have a strong sense of self, they will not obey discipline, and if their parents interfere at this time, it will only have the opposite effect. So how to do it, let's take a look.

1. Listen and understand.

Once faced with this situation, many parents will be very angry for a moment, and at this time in fact, anger is the most wrong decision, parents should first find a place to be quiet for a minute or two, and then communicate with their children, otherwise if the two parties are very anxious to communicate, it is very likely to endanger the parent-child relationship. No matter how unreasonable the child's behavior may seem in the eyes of the parents, you should think about the problem from his point of view after calming down and ask him what the trigger is. For example, if you really don't want to go to school today, maybe it's because of the problem of school violence, so you need to solve this problem.

Ernian Qin, praise the child more.

Many children with stubborn tempers actually have stronger self-esteem than their peers, so in the process of growing up, parents must praise their children more in the face of such a situation. Only in this way can he become more confident, and he should interact more with him at ordinary times, so that he can feel the attention of his parents, and he will gradually become peaceful after a long time. It is possible that they will show off to their parents after they have done something, this matter may be small, and parents will not care about it in their busy work, but at this time, if they praise their children more, they can make him feel his own ability, and it will also make him build better confidence.

Many parents always say that they love their children very much, but this love is not verbal, they must let their children feel love, only in this way will the children release kindness to the world. It is wrong to only keep love in the mouth and stay in daily care, but ignore psychological problems, and we should start from the roots, learn to communicate, and let children feel that they are needed and respected.

But Yancha told children that when they encounter any problems, there should be a particularly good way to solve them, and they should also have a good expression, and they should not be angry, because anger will not solve anything, and will only make their mood worse.

First of all, parents must lead by example, teach by example, set a good example for their children, whenever the child encounters something, must let the child face it himself, because this can cultivate the child's ability to be independent, and also tell the child that it is not right to do so, and also to give the child a good behavior habit to judge.

Tell your child that he should not lose his temper in life, because this will cause problems with his physical health, and finally go to the hospital for injections and infusions, which will become very painful. You should find a solution that suits you, and you can solve it well.

You should guide him, you should listen to other people's opinions, develop a good habit of listening, and then make your own decisions.