I m tired of work, and my relationships are too complicated and difficult

Talk less, listen more, see more, think more, and think about problems from multiple perspectives.

I know that, but if you don't add points, forget it.

Relationships are really important to us. You said that you felt that the relationship between the friend you used to be good with had weakened because of estrangement, but in fact, everyone's friendship will go through this stage. The relationship between friends is tempered by time, and you gradually feel that they become annoying, perhaps because you have less contact and understanding, so the relationship has faded.

It doesn't matter, real friends don't need to see each other every day, but we can't leave out friends, holiday greetings, the latter is indispensable for coming out to get together during the holidays.

In fact, the relationship between people is very impermanent, that is because we have emotions, we can't guess what friends think, be yourself, how you should treat others, after all, friendship is very rare, to cherish it.

You say that no one should be embarrassed when you speak, so what's so embarrassing? Making friends is wide-ranging! If you can't talk about it, find another one, there are so many people, do you have to be your friend?

In short, remember one sentence: making friends is not about pandering to them like a clown, but about making some confidants, righteous people, don't force it, go with the flow, and maintain a sense of humor!

In fact, the relationship between people is very delicate, you have such an experience, I have had it myself, but then I found that more often than not, I think too much, in fact, others do not think too much, and you yourself are too sensitive, so the more you think about it, the more you feel that there is a problem, so the first thing you have to do is not to care too much about other people's words and deeds, so that when exposed to the sun, all the haze will gradually dissipate.

This is a psychological effect, it's a good thing to make more friends, take the initiative, try to think from the perspective of others, don't have conflicts with friends because of trivial things, chat with others more, exchange sincerity for sincerity, don't others hear, you are saying it again, you want to laugh, people just don't want to deal with you, see that you are really smiling, and will talk to you I wish you a better interpersonal relationship.

I'm glad to be able to answer your question, I don't know if it's fate, I also encountered this problem of yours not long ago, I'll give you an analysis, you may not be good with this good friend to the interval you imagined, you think about it before you let your friend help you a favor that you think should be very easy to help but it's very difficult for him, you think it's such a good friend to help this is nothing, but maybe he has felt that you are strong and disgruntled with you regardless of other people's feelings, There has been a complaint in his heart, and then he is very close to other colleagues, intentionally or unintentionally alienated from you, and you have become accustomed to the friendship between the two of you, his change makes you very puzzling, and then you are also dissatisfied with her, as for other colleagues to ignore you, it is likely that he said bad things about you intentionally or unintentionally when getting along with others, resulting in a group of people who are dissatisfied with you. Remember, try not to ask for help when you can do what you can do on your own, even if you think that you and him are already very strong, try to help others when they ask you for help, and then communicate with them more and play and joke, so that it will gradually get better, but remember not to be independent and ignore anyone because of this current situation, in that case you will be further and further away from the group.

This,Actually, it's because you're still more afraid of loneliness.。。。 Afraid of losing friends and afraid of being isolated, in fact, many times just think it's like this, maybe others don't take it seriously, but you always keep in mind that it's actually yourself making trouble... You don't have to care what other people think, you just need to be yourself, of course, you should also properly consider the situation of others, you and your friends will be unfamiliar for a long time, then you will always contact, feel disgusted then try to think about the good memories between you, try to make you feel good about her again...

I'm afraid of being lonely, so I might be better off by keeping in touch with friends often.

You try to remember what you have that is different from all of them, in terms of personality and doing things. Sometimes, even if you are right, they will reject you if you don't fit in with your surroundings.

Hello, friend.

Because everyone gathers for the sake of profit, and likewise disperses for the sake of profit.

Let's talk to a friend. It's hard to imagine that you don't have a friend in the unit.

First of all, you have to learn to relax yourself, open your heart, let yourself understand your current state, and secondly, you should reasonably control the indulgence of your character, don't blindly only cater to others, and finally use your own strength to win the praise of others again, I believe you can grasp your own!