How can you keep yourself from living in fantasy?

Psychologists tell us that fantasy is a kind of imagination that is combined with the desire to live and points to the future, and it is a special form of creative imagination. There are positive fantasies and negative fantasies.

Positive fantasies are often called "ideals" and are produced under the guidance of a correct worldview. This kind of fantasy can motivate people's fighting spirit, inspire people's confidence, and motivate people to study and work hard. A person, especially a young person, if he does not have such illusions, will be short-sighted and narrow-minded, and will not strive to overcome today's difficulties for the sake of tomorrow's joy.

Indeed, positive fantasies are "a precious quality" (Kalinin) of young people. Negative fantasies are often called "fantasies" or "dreams." It is characterized by detachment from reality and the substitution of wishes for actions, as the saying goes, "thinking into what is wrong".

Those who indulge in utopian dreams can only waste their youth and life in vain. There are generally two reasons for pathological utopia: one is the self-consciousness maturity disorder, which is mostly related to the beginning of intelligence, and the psychological level cannot keep up with age; Second, because of setbacks, the reality cannot meet their needs, so they want to get into the wrong and seek spiritual satisfaction in their dreams.

It's actually an escape from reality. Most of the fantasies of teenagers stem from this. If the cause is not resolved, and the will is weak, this kind of sick fantasy can easily become a forced fantasy, and you can't hide from it if you want to, just like you have to receive a rogue visitor, even if you are reluctant.

According to research, compulsive fantasists are mostly introverts, and there are more women than men. This kind of obsessive fantasy, if not corrected in time and the situation is not improved, may develop into depression - a psychogenic disorder.

How can we get rid of compulsive fantasies?

1. Establish a correct outlook on life The task entrusted to young people by society is to learn and reserve capital to serve the people when they grow up. Whether a person's life is worthwhile or not depends on whether he has done his best. The life of the person is thirty-six, and the line is the champion.

2 Divert your attention Choose the subject that you are more interested in, put in your efforts, strive for good grades, and then move to other subjects to achieve all-round improvement. In this way, one's confidence will gradually increase, and the fantasy will gradually retreat. In addition to studying, you should also participate in more activities and socialize with others in order to improve your introverted personality and cultivate multifaceted interests and optimistic feelings.

3 Strengthen willpower When compulsive fantasies come, use willpower to restrain yourself. In this process, it is necessary to learn to be self-suggestive and self-commanding. hint and order yourself not to fantasize; Hint and instruct yourself to redirect your energy to your studies and activities.

If that doesn't work, you can leave the site to visit friends or visit the park.

In a complicated life, sometimes people are depressed and depressed, and they want to escape, but they are inevitably overwhelmed by the cruelty of reality, and can only silently endure the pain brought by life. Such people are often too ashamed to express their hearts, afraid of being ridiculed by others, and even more afraid of being hurt. Therefore, you can only bury the things and people you like deep in your heart.

Without an effective path to liberation, they can only fantasize in their own hearts, unconsciously. I know it's wrong, but I can't control myself.

Do you know what delusionism is?

Like fantasy and fantasy are two completely different concepts!

Maybe you're just more into fantasy.

Just like me, I like to fantasize by myself, before going to bed, or leisure, or seeing certain scenes, it will cause some associations and fantasies, which is nothing! It's not a disease!

If you set yourself the definition of fantasy for yourself, it is really possible to go further and further down this path. Because, people have psychological implications. If you tell yourself that you have a certain disease, you may not have this disease yourself, and after a long period of self-suggestion, it will also develop in a pathological direction.

So, don't rush to define yourself just yet!

Wait for a while, if it really intensifies and it has reached the time to affect your normal work and life, then go to the hospital for diagnosis.

But before, you can observe yourself for a while, you don't have to be nervous, you don't have to blame yourself. Whenever you feel that you are over-fantasizing at this time, it is also good to change your activities, or stipulate that you fantasize at a fixed time period every day and let your mind run wild. Before I go to bed, I always fantasize about things that can't happen, or things that don't happen, but it's a lot of fun if I get it right!

You are a person with a lot of imagination, bless you, as long as you can strengthen your self-control, your life will be full of variety!

Just walk out! Clumsy stupid! It's useless to say more, you have to go inside, and expect someone to pull you! Hurry up and go yourself! If you can't get out, open a road, and remember that you can't stop!!

The world of fantasy is always full of beauty, and it can satisfy your heart's desires infinitely. The more you immerse yourself in fantasy, the more disconnected you will become from reality. Mentally you may be living in your own fantasy world, but physically you are still accepting reality.

It is recommended that you still have to come out mentally and change yourself from the point of view. I hope this service can help you, you can click on my avatar to follow me, and if you have any questions in the future, please consult me again, I wish you; Have a good life and all the best!

Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you, I'm your exclusive ** answer teacher, thank you for your patience! How to live in your own fantasy world with the spine is fantasy. The world of fantasy is always full of beauty, and it can satisfy your heart's desires infinitely.

The more you immerse yourself in fantasy, the more disconnected you will become from reality. Spiritually you may be living in your own fantasy world, but the body is still accepting reality. It is recommended that you still have to come out mentally and change yourself from the point of view.

Is there any way to live in the world of your own fantasy, don't persuade me, just say it.

Dear, you can put yourself in the form of writing **.

He is a character in the TV series, I always imagine myself as the heroine, I love his first draft very much, probably because I have the same experience, Ken is because I sympathize with his experience, so I love her very much, I love her very much, I love not the actor, but the character in the play, so I really want to meet him, say a word, hug, I always feel that he is real, I think he is the only reason for me to live.

Although it is ridiculous and outrageous, but the fact is that this annihilation is the same, I hate this world, I hate everything in this world, I hate the people around me, I hate myself, but I only love him, he is the only spiritual pillar for me to live, as long as Shi Chenji can see him, brother, I think I am worth it if I die.

Dear, I think it's necessary to meet each other, because that's quite your experience. Maybe you can meet him, you tell him goodbye, I'm going to move forward.

Dear, because it's the plot that stays in the past, your plot is still developing. You are the protagonist of your life now.

I just want to be the female protagonist and the male protagonist living in that world and escape from this world.

Dear, I suggest you can get in touch with that script more, because**There may be people who just want to live in the world of the male protagonist.

Is it possible that he is real, that he is possible to be by my side?

Dear,You have to believe that he is actually the male owner, then she must have the same experience as the male owner and will make the same choice as the male owner.。

I don't quite understand what you mean, the person I like is the character in the play, will he be real.

Dear, just think that you like the heroine in the play, because she has the same experience as you, so is there a possibility that someone has the same experience as the male protagonist.

Summary. Hello, dear. Here's how to live in your own fantasy world:

You can experiment in the inner world, a lot of imperfections in the real world, you can design and update in the inner world, those who have the ability can make the inner world into a cosmic world, and the inner world of those who are not capable is a mess. Manage your inner world well, it is countless times more important than the real world, the real world is just the center of material resources, and the inner world is the center of wisdom, giving you endless wisdom power.

Hello, dear. The way to live in your own fantasy world is as follows: you can experiment in the inner world, many imperfections in the real world, you can design and update in the inner world, those who have the ability can make the inner world into a cosmic world, and the inner world of those who are incapable is a mess.

Manage your inner world well, it is countless times more important than the real world, the real world is just the center of material resources, the inner world is the center of wisdom, and give you infinite wisdom power.

Hello, dear. Extended Material: The world of fantasy is always full of beauty, and it can satisfy your heart's desires infinitely.

The more you immerse yourself in fantasy, the more you will be disconnected from reality. If the flame of fantasy wants to become more and more raging, it must be filled with more fuel from reality. The more you fill it, the more you can't get out of the fantasy.

If you want to get rid of it, you first need to reduce your unrealistic desires. That is, all the goals that you can't achieve in the short term are eliminated. Organize your schedule and organize everything you have on your hands.

Can you make it clearer?

Hello, dear. If you want to live a fantasy life, then work hard towards your goals.

My fantasy world is an unattainable goal.

Hello, dear. You have to have confidence in yourself, that's the most important thing, to have a good attitude towards everyone around you and everything.

You don't have to persuade me, just say the god of shirts, is there any way for me to live with the people in my fantasies for the rest of my life in the world of my fantasy and escape from this world.

Hello, dear. Then it's just dreaming. Except when I dream, I can't be in a fantasy world at any other time.

Isn't that mental illness just living in its own world?

Hello, dear. That's because psychosis is already a state of illness. The world of the mentally ill is very "dreamy", and the patient will envy and often have unrealistic fantasies to disturb him, which will affect his normal life, and even make bad noises, so that the patient will hurt the people around him.

Isn't there any way I can meet and reach that person in my fantasy?

You are good at the mountains, dear. There is no way to do this, you can only let the state go through the traffic yourself The magic world is generally an illusion, and it can't be taken seriously So, if you want to think of a person in the spring, you can say a ** greeting.

Isn't there anything I can do to live in a dream for the rest of my life?

Hello, dear. No, you might as well live your life.