My girlfriend owes 20,000 yuan, should I help pay it back?

Updated on Financial 2024-03-28
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It seems that she will have a plan to spend money in the future, so persuade her to save what she shouldn't buy. To make it clear, it's up to you to plan and repay the money. Her salary card is handed over to you, and Alipay is deactivated.

    Give it a chance and don't be allowed to borrow money from friends. Found once. Break up immediately.

    This kind of woman also has to sign a property agreement when she gets married. Otherwise, you will bear the consequences. This is not a matter of owing 20,000 yuan, I personally think it is related to consumer values.

    First of all, this money is not a debt caused by family treatment, buying a house or other unexpected reasons, it is simply that I can't support myself, and I feel justified. Secondly, she earns less and spends more, there is no plan, even if this kind of person earns one million to her, she can spend two million. It's okay to not borrow money, the question is whether you borrow it or not, or if you repay it and continue the previous consumption concept, and then you owe more, borrow more, and borrow more?

    This has risen to the level of character. If you can earn it, you will spend more, and no one will say that you will spend less, if you can't earn so much, you will plan to spend less, no one will say that you will be speechless if you spend more in advance for a long time and rely on borrowing money to consume. <>

    Personally, I think it's better to divide it, this kind of person is too tired. My brother is like this, how much to spend, how much to spend, credit card debt, can't borrow money and shut down, hid by himself, gave my number to the debt collector, no money to ask, borrowed money before and didn't pay it back, no one borrowed money outside, and now I see him very annoying, it's just a crime. She's just your girlfriend now, leave this kind of person as soon as possible, it's really too tired, find a down-to-earth life and worry free.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. Dear, hello, in fact, your idea is right, but as a woman, he also has his own ideas, in fact, she just wants to pay off the money and live a good life, have a stable home, our man's original intention is to shoulder his own responsibility, this is the reason for your breakup.

    My girlfriend and I both owe money, her family helped pay it back, my family can't pay back my money because my family can't help me pay it back, and then she broke up with me, what should I do.

    Hello, I am Zhou Yu, a co-teacher who asks a question, I am good at the field of life, and I have been engaged in the personnel management industry for 3 years now, and I am happy to serve you.

    Dear, there is no way to do this, take a good look at the communication with your girlfriend, and promise that you will pay off the money as soon as possible to see if you can get it back.

    It's good for girls to coax, but they also need to make promises.

    It's already broken up.

    She was determined. Actually, she loves me, I know, because she helped me pay back some of the money she owed.

    Later, she told me to tell my family.

    My idea is that what I owe should be borne by myself.

    Dear, this situation is unavoidable, since it is a problem of money, the essence of the solution is only money, even if this time is over, there will be a next time.

    Later, I didn't say it, she felt that there was something wrong with my attitude, but in the end I told the family, the family still couldn't solve it, she broke up with me, she said she thought about our future, she gave her all the money that my father bought him to fill the shortfall, and I never considered her, she shared it with me, what I wanted to ask was that I knew that the family was not on it, I didn't want the family to bear this kind of thinking is right or wrong, she forced her father's money to help her pay off the debt for our future, was my idea wrong or did she just think so, But the two of us are not married yet, and the money we owe is either paid by our parents or borne by ourselves, why do you say that this idea is for our sake in the future, can you give me an answer?

    Dear, hello, in fact, your idea is right, but as a woman, he also has his own ideas, in fact, she just wants to pay off the money and live a good life, have a stable home, our man's original intention is to shoulder his own responsibility, this is the reason for your breakup.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. My girlfriend gave me an IOU of 30,000 yuan today and didn't pay it back, in fact, if you don't pay it back in this case, you can go directly to the court to sue, in this case, you don't want to give her any face, and it is natural to repay the debt.

    My girlfriend gave me an IOU of 30,000 today and didn't pay it back, and if I didn't pay it back, I could go directly to the court to sue.

    The main problem now is whether you and her want to get back together, once the trouble goes to the court, it is almost impossible to argue if you want to get back together, so you have to think about it clearly, there is no way back to carry Hua Kai.

    Hello, I gave her a late 70,000 yuan banquet, recently broke up with Xiangliang, 70,000 yuan and half of us alone, I also called the police, in front of the police to call me only Li Tiao, what should I do if I don't pay it back.

    It's impossible to get back together.

    If you don't pay it back, you can go and put the current period is not.

    If you don't pay it back, you can go to court to sue, in this case, it's best to discuss with him and ask him to return it, if it really doesn't work, go to his parents.

    This is also too much.

    His parents don't care, I don't know what to do.

    How old are you, you tell the teacher.

    I'm 27, she's 24

    Uh-huh, Ben came to this age and was rushing to get married.

    It seems that he still doesn't love you.

    It's all spent so much money, really, she doesn't spend a penny herself.

    Oh, yes! She deliberately cheated out of money.

    Did she tell you when she would return the money to you, and did you know if they had their addresses?

    Knowing that she was at home, she often came over and made an appointment to repay the loan.

    Mm-hmm, that's fine.

    It's all time.

    What are you worried about?

    People have said when they will pay you back.

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