How can you not regress your grades while falling in love?

Updated on amusement 2024-03-25
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There shouldn't be a good solution to this. Because at the beginning, falling in love will affect learning. This is normal, everyone's mind will be on each other, and the whole person will be immersed in the sweetness of love and can't extricate themselves.

    If you have to solve it, you can make an agreement between the two of you to learn together and make progress together. For example, you can study together, but you should agree that you should not affect each other during the self-study process, and try to concentrate on studying. In between studies, you can exchange experiences and talk about your outlook on life during breaks.

    But that's hard to do unless you two really take your studies seriously and take them to heart. You can also discuss with each other the knowledge points that you don't know and the other party will know, or you still have to think about learning and urging each other, otherwise there is no solution. Falling in love is very contradictory to learning in the first period of time, that is, it will affect learning.

    It is hoped that one of the two people can preside over the overall situation of learning, so that the ultimate win-win situation can be achieved.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I started to fall in love when I was in high school, although I knew that falling in love affected my studies, but I saw that the person I liked still couldn't restrain my heart, and I chose to be with the person I liked. Put more energy into your studies, get admitted to a good university, and take care of the people you love the most with a stronger ability. So how to deal with it, I would like to share two suggestions with you: face it calmly, express your love at the same time, work hard with the person you love, study to be admitted to a city or the same university, and use this mood as the motivation for learning, what a beautiful thing.

    Common goals, set a learning goal together, such as how much to exceed in the semester exam, what kind of university to score, how to work together for a common goal, etc.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Normal falling in love will not affect learning, but if falling in love will affect learning. Either your methods are not right, or you can't restrain yourself and can't control yourself. Take the example from my own side.

    It turned out that when I was in high school, the class president and the study committee were in love, but their grades not only did not regress, but also improved by leaps and bounds. (Although we said in high school that we are not allowed to fall in love, if it does not affect learning, the teacher will not care!) Two people went from the top 200 in the school to the top 50 at once (there are 2,000 people in one grade in our school, and the top 50 are basically able to go to Tsinghua University and Peking University).

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It doesn't mean that if you study well, you will definitely have a good way out, but if you fail to have a good academic performance, you will take a lot of detours. Now parents are very open-minded, everyone is in the period of youth and ignorance, there is an understandable feeling of admiration, if you can work together and get into the same university together, I believe that your own guilt will be much less. Nowadays, many newlyweds are going from school uniforms to wedding dresses, and hard-won love is to be cherished, but you need to know that it is more important to grasp the current efforts.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When I was in high school, the class president and the study committee were in love, and the two of them urged each other to study, doing everything together, going to the library to study together, and when they were tired of studying, they would go out for a walk together to buy some food and drink, play and relax, and then come back to study. The girl is not good at math, so the boy will teach her one question at a time until the girl understands. The boy's English is not good, and the girl teaches him every day from the most basic grammar and urges him to memorize words, just like that, the two of them were admitted to Peking University together.

    Now I heard that I have met my parents and are about to get married. I'm so envious!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are very few people who can form a family in the end in love when they are students. One is that you are too young to get married, and the other is that marriage needs an economic foundation, and you are still a young eagle that has not yet spread its wings. Therefore, the love in the student period is generally a spiritual love, and it is unlikely to be delayed to reality.

    In other words, even if you give up studying and fall in love wholeheartedly, this love will end without a problem. So you have to think about what you can get.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A quality relationship will not delay your current life, study, or work. Why do you fall in love, because you like each other and want to be together all the time, so that you can have the opportunity to get married and have children, and create a happy family together. In other words, if you have been going downhill in the beginning of your relationship, how can you guarantee that you can build a happy family together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Give up falling in love and go back to studying. Falling in love is "a waste of money and labor"! will dig most of your energy to fill this "love hole", do you still want to do it?

    If you are self-controlled, then falling in love will not affect you much, but may compete with your partner to see who is better at learning, which is of course the most ideal.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1. Arrange time reasonably.

    When many college students are in love, they want to be with each other every day, they are very clingy, two people are tired of being together all day long, and there is no independent space, so it will become more and more unfresh, and after a long time, the two people have not made any progress, and finally they can't escape the fate of breaking up.

    Only by arranging the time of two people reasonably, maintaining their respective circles, not that there is nothing else to do except each other, such a love can last for a long time, and only when two people have a common goal and continue to work hard for it, can it get better and better.

    2. Two people learn from each other's strengths.

    Two people who are attracted to each other must have their own advantages, two people learn from each other's strengths, learn from each other, and make progress together is completely okay, falling in love is to play all day long and have nothing to do in everyone's stereotype, but in fact this is not the case, two people can not only learn from each other, but also grow together in unknown areas, contact new things together, and become your common memories for each other.

    3. Improve self-control.

    In the early days of love, many boys and girls are unable to extricate themselves after experiencing the joy of love, and they don't want to be separated from their other half for a moment.

    Improve your self-control, do more things that belong to you, instead of being tired of being with the object all day long, if two people want to make progress and have follow-up development, they must remember that they must control themselves.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you want to be long-term, if you want to give him a home, you must take responsibility for each other, which is not limited to talking about love and saying I love you, but to become each other's things, make progress together, encourage each other to grow together, lay a bread foundation for the future together, and then enjoy the sweetness of love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Dear, falling in love is a beautiful thing, and falling in love with your own mastery can not affect your academic performance. When you go to school, you should focus on your studies first, and don't be distracted by love when you are in class.

    Dear, falling in love is a beautiful thing, and falling in love with your own mastery can not affect your academic performance. When you go to school, you should focus on your studies, don't be distracted by regret and love when you go to class, and you can also encourage each other and work together when you love the mountain.

    When the two of them are together with Zen, Ranpei and his girlfriend enjoy a bright future, such as what kind of school you want to go to, what you want to do in the future, and the two of them can work hard towards a goal.

    Dear, do you have any other questions?

    Is there any specific method.

    The specific way to do it is not to put all your energy on falling in love, make your own plans, allocate your own time, which time period to study, which time period to accompany your girlfriend and friends, but you must concentrate on the stool when studying. Jujube is large.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, falling in love and studying are two things that need to be balanced, and here are some suggestions that can help you fall in love without affecting your grades:1Determine your own learning goals and plans, make a reasonable schedule, allocate time well, and ensure the time and quality of learning.

    2.Communicate with your partner and tell him about your study plan and goals, so that she understands your schedule. 3.

    Learn to say no, if you feel that your study tasks are very heavy, you can appropriately decline some dates or other activities to make time for studying. 4.Use fragmented time, such as on the road, waiting for a bus, or waiting for someone, to read a book, listen to recordings, take notes, etc., so that you can make the most of your time.

    5.Get enough sleep every day and develop good habits to be physically and mentally healthier. 6.

    Learn to manage yourself, don't let love affect your emotions and mentality, maintain a positive attitude, and overcome difficulties in learning. Remember, love and study can be taken care of, as long as you manage your time and energy reasonably, you can enjoy falling in love and studying at the same time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Don't break up reluctantly. A reluctant breakup will inevitably affect the emotional and mental pressure of both parties, and it is not conducive to learning, so don't break up reluctantly.

    2. Gradually fade. If you want to break up, you can take the approach of gradually diluting the relationship. For example, reduce activities such as late dates and chatting, and focus on studying.

    3. Help each other. If the two parties are temporarily inseparable, they can put the emotional focus of both parties into learning, such as learning from each other's strengths and weaknesses, and helping each other to learn.

    4. Keep your distance. In the recent study stage, or when facing the exam, the two parties do not walk to and from school together, do not eat together, if it is a chat, it is also a simple greeting, and all the mental attention should be devoted to studying.

    5. The two parties agree. Both parties agree not to affect each other's learning, and if either party affects the other's learning, they can consider temporarily terminating the relationship. Sleepy <>

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Falling in love will drop your grades.

    2. Because when a person is in love, his IQ will decline, so it will affect his grades. Falling in love will definitely occupy a part of your thoughts and life, and your daily work and study are very full, and then falling in love will definitely divert your study and work time, which will affect your work and study to a certain extent. Falling in love is easily affected by feelings, resulting in mood swings and inability to concentrate on studying, so it is best not to fall in love during the study period, and your grades will decline.

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