When was the most violent quarrel you had and why?

Once my dad rarely discussed a good thing with me, due to different views, I ignored the hanging look, and finally he was verbose and quarreled with him, that was the first time to see my dad disappointed and sad, I could feel the helplessness, I regretted it at the time, after that time, no matter what problems I encountered again, I would calmly discuss with my father.

The most powerful quarrel was a week before the wedding: before the marriage, I was exhausted by both sides to buy a house first or pull the certificate first, and the quarrel was because my husband picked up my dog and threw it into the nest, I think you are now angry when you fall the dog, don't you want to fall when you are more angry.

Last night, because of the argument about whether to have children now, they were in high mood after an hour of communication, and they were very irritable in the middle of the night, and they began to fight with each other, and then hurt each other......During this whole process, he still held me in his arms, I suddenly said something that hurt the self-esteem of all men in the world, he instantly became angry, got up with his hand and strode out of the room to sleep on the sofa in the living room, I knew that the situation was serious, and I really ...... in my heartIgnore me all day, no kisses in the morning, no kisses after work, no more kisses after work, I can't sleep tonight, I just asked for a hug, he habitually hugged me in his sleep, and it felt the same as before....Well, I'm relieved. ‍‍

When I went home for the Chinese New Year, my boyfriend took me to the station to take the train, and he also went home by the way. We each carried a suitcase, I had more backpacks than him (he helped me carry the backpack), and at the station security check for bags of all sizes, there was a woman who pretended to put her own suitcase on the security belt with a stiff face, like the kind of woman the whole world owes her, and then my dear boyfriend went to help people carry the boxes (and they didn't let him help carry them), and he went in a hurry...Completely treat me as transparent and express himself in front of other women.

Because the long-distance relationship has been in a long-distance relationship for too long, I am tired, and the most unbearable thing is that he said: "Then I can still say Sa, and Saga is good to say", and then he really never spoke again. has been together for five years, survived high school graduation, survived his college graduation, survived 4 and a half years of long-distance relationship, but did not survive the time.

Last year's one should actually have exploded, a daily accumulation. I hate it when he says "I don't know", and every time I mention what I've told him, I say I don't know, and I don't take it to heart at all, even if it's an ordinary person, I should give me this respect. I couldn't bear it anymore, so I threw a pillow at him and said:

Do you have all your brains for pretending to shi? He just treated it coldly, turned around and left.

The fiercest quarrel was in the first half of the year, I was working, he was in graduate school, and every time he went out, we were AA, and then he said that you were working, anyway, you have money, you support me, and then because I changed jobs, I was far away from him, and there was a disagreement between the three views, and there were often small disputes, and we broke up.

The most ferocious time was when I sneaked to his school to surprise him, only to see him with his ex-girlfriend. I silently went back to school, and later he said that they were just ordinary friends, I didn't believe it, and they quarreled, and suddenly felt that they couldn't go on like this, so they broke up decisively. But I really like him, and I've been sad for years since that argument.

Quarrels are normal, and few people never quarrel, but it is not normal if they do not quarrel.

A call to respect and dig the individual to learn to control emotions is a sign of maturity, quarrels must be the only way to solve the problem, learn self-control.

If it's someone who keeps pulling you down and nuclear qualifications, stay away.

If the other party is reasonable, if you are also reasonable, then it will be upgraded.

Because a slap does not make a sound, if one person can calm down, then the quarrel will not start and develop.