How to make a good job of the awkward atmosphere in the dormitory, and how to maintain the atmospher

I think it's better to keep the whole dormitory quiet after a student has a break. Because as a big collective, who will respect others will achieve better results, and everyone will be more united and respect each other. Therefore, it is very important to learn to communicate with others more and respect others, and you must learn more from professional teachers and master the correct communication methods.

Learning from the teacher and asking questions if you don't understand is the best way to learn knowledge. The most important point in learning is to ask more questions, so students who can often seek support from teachers and ask more questions from teachers are characterized by their tendency to like to ask questions, so their learning effect is also obvious. Because professional teachers are close to us, there are teachers who are proficient in various subjects in the daily learning classes of students, which is also the most beneficial condition and must be fully used.

Many students do not know how to actively ask questions with teachers, and always learn by themselves, in fact, this is not right, it is also very important to absorb knowledge, and their own efforts are one aspect, but if they make up for their own shortcomings by using the knowledge of others, it will be more effective. When some students get out of class, they will run to the teacher and ask the teacher their questions, and the teacher will explain carefully. In fact, this way is very good, students who are good at asking the teacher, they are very positive and optimistic in terms of expression ability and personality, and they can get along with the teacher and classmates very well.

Ask each other questions, dare to ask, dare to speak, understand your own shortcomings from the questions, and acquire knowledge, but you will remember better.

1. Maintain a consistent schedule with your roommates, and be tolerant and understanding in your daily life.

If there are three or four or five or six or even more people living together in a dormitory, it is advisable to adjust it with a uniform schedule. Only when everyone is in harmony and abiding by it can we reduce disputes, eliminate friction, and maintain normal order in life. If you are a "night owl" and go to bed late at night, you will wash up and go to bed only when all the dormitory members have slept, so that it is easy to wake up others and affect their rest.

Over time, you will arouse the disgust of your roommates. Filial piety.

2. Don't engage in "small groups".

Everyone should be treated equally in the dormitory.

People, don't favor one over the other.

Some people like to be very close to one of them in the dormitory, usually whispering to the same person, no matter what they do, they are with one person in and out. This can easily cause displeasure among other members of the dormitory, who think that you disdain to associate with them. As a result, the relationship between the two of you may be good, but you are alienated.

This is not conducive to the establishment of a harmonious dormitory relationship, and the gains outweigh the losses.

3. Do not violate the privacy of your roommates.

Each Rayu person has their own secrets and is curious enough. When it comes to the privacy of our roommates, let's not try to find out. The other party has a special sensitivity to this field by turning it into privacy, and any topic that tries to break into this field is not welcome.

In particular, without the consent of his roommates, he was allowed to rummage through his clothes. We need to pay special attention to this issue, and don't ignore the details casually, just because we are acquaintances. Sometimes it is inevitable to know some of the privacy of our roommates, and we have to keep our mouths shut, telling others is not only disrespectful, but also immoral.

4.Actively participate in group activities.

Don't be naïve to dismiss group activities as a purely costly and boring gesture of disdain. In fact, it is all emotional investment, and it is also an indispensable life experience. Roommates decide what to do together, and we respect their choice.

If you really can't participate, you can put forward your thoughts and opinions, don't force yourself to participate and make your roommates feel that you are coping with something, and don't hurt the interest of your roommates by refusing. It can be said that the lack of harmony in collective activities also reflects the degree of unity in this dormitory from one side. If you don't participate in such activities, it will more or less seem that you are not social.

As a sophomore, I feel.

First of all, we should respect and understand each other, because everyone's personality, thoughts, and living habits are different, don't use your own habits to ask others to be the same as yourself, to understand each other and tolerate each other, for example, the sleeping time is different, if someone goes to bed early, then the person who does not sleep can change the voice or something smaller.

The second is to communicate more, communicate and don't engage in some small groups or anything in the dormitory, because the dormitory is just a few people who can get along with each other, and don't have some ideas that look down on others, they are all more exchanges and more communication in a dormitory, nothing can not be said, take our dormitory as an example, everyone has something to say, directly pick it out, don't have that kind of irony behind your back.

The most important thing is to communicate and respect each other.

Hello everyone, today I would like to share with you some methods and tips for getting along with each other in the Susui Pants House. In the dormitory, we not only learn how to get along with other roommates, but also how to deal with our own relationships with others. So, how do you get along well in the dorm?

First, we need to learn to respect others. In the dormitory, everyone has their own lifestyle and habits, and we want to respect their choices and lifestyles. If we want to make some suggestions or opinions, we can take a tactful way and get the other person to accept them.

Secondly, we need to learn to communicate. In the dormitory, we often encounter some problems and conflicts, and at this time we need to learn to communicate to solve these problems. We can communicate through **, email, or other means to let the other party know what we think and what we stand.

Finally, we need to learn to be patient. In the dormitory, we may encounter some troubles or challenges, and at this time we need to be patient and not rush to solve the problem. We can calm down first, try to get to the root of the problem, and then gradually solve the problem.

The above is the method and skills I have introduced to you how to get along in the dormitory. I hope this content can help everyone and make everyone get along more happily and harmoniously in the dormitory. Thank you!

In fact, according to my life, many contradictions are in small things, such as whether to clean up the house and littering, everyone's living habits are different, so as a dormitory director should also give everyone a norm, such as stipulating that someone sweeps the floor or takes out the garbage on a certain day, such things will also make more people believe in you, and you should do more work, so that the dormitory will be more harmonious and better.

You can talk and talk with the members of the dormitory every night, so you can create a good atmosphere.

I think you should organize a dormitory team building at the appropriate time, increase recreational activities on weekdays, and maintain a good relationship with roommates.

Mobilize roommates to clean up together. In the course of labor, the distance between roommates will continue to increase.

Take the initiative to provoke some topics of interest in the dormitory, often organize some team building activities, and help roommates when they are in difficulty.

It's best to take everyone out to do sports with you often, and share the ups and downs in the process, so that you can adjust the atmosphere.

You can adjust the atmosphere of the dormitory by diverting the topic and hosting more recreational activities. A good dormitory manager is able to get to know your roommates well.

You should take the people in your dorm out with you, such as going to a playground or a theme park.

You can often ask your brothers in your dormitory to go out to dinner together, or go to karaoke or something like that, so that you can adjust the atmosphere.

Small activities can be organized. Increase the affection between roommates through these activities. It can also better liven up the atmosphere.

Chat with them more, play games, and have something to eat and play.

You can first analyze and analyze the reason, whether there is some kind of misunderstanding between you and them, a conflict of habits, or a disagreement between the three views. If it's the former, you can try to communicate with them to see if there is a problem, (provided that you care about this relationship, if you think they are like that, like they ignore your overtures, to some extent, it shows that they are a model of dealing with the world, which you may not recognize), if it is the latter, (for example, they love to follow dramas, you have more adequate goals to achieve) Then it is good to be harmonious on the surface, if most of the other classmates (except your roommate) approve of you, why should you care about the attitude of your roommate? They only represent a small part of the society, they don't recognize you as just them, you can make other friends, you can't make friends in school, ......Of course, at worst, maybe something you're doing wrong, then you need to think about it (more often than not, it's just a different way of talking and behaving, which is offending by a roommate who is different from you).

Finally, don't care too much about the relationship between roommates, if you really don't get along, roommates are just roommates, randomly assigned, and intimacy is just a probability event. (In the same dormitory, conflicts are inevitable, as long as they don't rise to life and health, or any kind of fighting.) Don't be too nervous about the level of "hurting each other" such as rumors).

Then be more considerate of each other and accommodate each other. Help each other a little more.

Take the initiative to greet friends in the same room, work more, clean up, and help him get some water, which can alleviate the embarrassment of friends with colleagues and colleagues.

Keep a good attitude, keep smiling, and be tactful in your tone. Time will tell, come on. Look at what you are embarrassed about, distinguish who is light and who is important, and maintain a good attitude, it is good for everyone.

Be a friend with sincerity and sincerity, only like this! It's the same in your future life, how happy it is to get along! Finally, I wish you a happy and happy life! Happy and happy friends!

To alleviate the embarrassment with your roommate, you can say some other topics and make some jokes to get rid of the embarrassment.

Don't think about your own image first, take the first step boldly, and say a word first, this is a cultured person, sisters, there are some things I don't do right, I hope you don't have the same knowledge as me, because I don't have a heart, I am a rectum, I hope the sisters will bear with me.

I think it, in fact, friends live together, there must be awkward times, and there is nothing that can't be solved, so let's be humble to each other, if he suddenly ignores you, you can ask him, take the initiative to find him, ask her if she is not doing well, to see if he is ** made him angry, between friends, there is no face, all have face, then no one bows their heads, isn't it to die to face and suffer from it, if you feel that the relationship with him is average, there is no need to curry favor with him, Then you don't have to deal with him, the cold war is the cold war, but if you think you have a good relationship with him, then put down a little face and go to him to communicate, in fact, sometimes, the person who apologizes first is not losing, but just more generous, in this way, he may be more embarrassed.

Because I think that in a friction, it is impossible for only one person to make mistakes, and the other person is completely right, just like a slap does not make a sound, friction is also a matter of two people, so often sometimes one person's efforts or one person's desire to get rid of all the baggage does not have a positive effect on solving the problem between the two of you. So if you want to solve the problem of the cold war between you and your roommate, you must first have someone take the initiative to speak, first solve the problem of two people not talking to each other, and then sit down and analyze the problem between the two of you after both of you are calm. Everyone starts with their own problems, analyzes their own mistakes first, and then analyzes another person's mistakes, and then everyone actively corrects them.

I think if a person is not willing to admit his mistakes and is not willing to correct his mistakes, then there is no need for us to continue to be friends with her, even if she is our roommate.

There will be a lot of joy in the dormitory life in the group, but because the six people may come from different places and have different living habits, it is normal for us to have some friction in normal times, but after all, we still have to live under the same roof, we must solve these frictions as much as possible, rather than let these frictions continue to escalate and eventually deteriorate the relationship between the two. So first of all, don't speculate on others with malice, don't use your own subjective will, preconceived to look at some of her behaviors, but from a more objective point of view, without personal emotions to objectively analyze who is right and who is wrong, of course, I know that this kind of analysis is difficult to do, because most of us always see other people's mistakes first and ignore our own mistakes when dealing with some things, but I think if you really want to change the relationship between you and the people around you, so that you can learn to examine yourself first.