After the age of 40, who wants to live a married life more, a man or a woman?

Couple life is essential for every family. And this kind of relationship is the basic factor that maintains the harmony of the family and so on. If the couple's life is not harmonious, then the happiness of the family will not be particularly high.

Although it is very important, as I get older, such relationships become more and more undesirable, and how many couples break up while walking, and become more and more indifferent and unenthusiastic as they walk.

At the age of 40, middle-aged men and women have completely opposite desires for "married life", women hope that their husbands will have more time to spend with them and express more love; Men hope that their wives will not control themselves anymore and give themselves more personal space; The thoughts of two people belong to the opposite state, so after a long time, there will be emotional cracks.

It is really distressing to have such a woman speak her mind!

She and her husband have only one daughter, and in our opinion, it should be a particularly happy family.

In first-tier cities.

I have a house and a car, and although the salary of the two husband and wife is not particularly high, the average monthly salary of the two is the total amount of the total monthly salary.

is around 10,000, and the company's welfare benefits are not bad. But the seemingly luxurious appearance turned out to be that the husband and wife had been sleeping in separate beds for about 5 years.

The child is more than 5 years old this year, which means that since the child was born, they seem to have been sleeping in separate beds, and there is no husband and wife life, the two of them will always quarrel, and they will quarrel without much of a big matter. The man basically belongs to the kind of guy who has to hang out with his buddies every Friday night for an all-nighter. Husbands and wives belong to the kind of people who can't talk and will quarrel when they speak, and it feels impossible to return to their previous relationship.

Therefore, for women, "husband and wife life" makes them more desired, especially in middle age, they hope that their husbands are loyal to their marriage, and as their children grow up, they hope to have more time in the world of two people, and their husbands can express more love, so that life is full of surprises.

Man. This is determined by the physiological structure of men and women, and it is necessary to follow the laws of nature, of course, the actual situation is not necessarily, it still depends on their respective physical conditions.

Men, men are always very motivated in this regard, and women are also very thoughtful, but men will be more proactive and will think a little more than girls.

Women want to live a married life more, and many things in the family women no longer need to be managed, and now they just want to enjoy life, and living a married life is naturally one of them.

I think it's a woman, and the child has grown up at this time, so she also wants to be loved by the other party, and she also hopes to get too much love and care from the other party.

Rather than saying that a man's life after the age of 40 is better to live a man's life after he matures, and I hope you can live as you like.

1. If you have money, buy a better car you like. Don't be detached if you live in the world of the laity, the monks in the temple have opened seven departments.

2. Don't die for love anymore, and see love as a luxury: you have children, and then engage in extramarital affairs, you are the one who suffers.

3. There should be a few decent clothes in the kitchen, and it is a minimum of respect and etiquette for the host when socializing, and maintain a good body shape.

4. If someone compliments you on being young and handsome, please don't be complacent except to express your gratitude.

5. At least have a high-end handbag with a certain amount of money (card), a spare mobile phone battery, a driver's license and a driving license, and a little bit of something harder than your hand in times of crisis, so as to save losses.

6. Insist on exercising every day.

7. Go to KTV, don't be stupid enough to send a business card to your little sister and leave **.

8. Don't talk to your parents about your living habits, as long as the elderly are happy when they are old, people can't live forever, and it's good to live happily.

9. You can drink too much on any occasion, and drunk men are accustomed to it, but after getting drunk, your hole cards, quality, weight, and level will be unobstructed.

10. If your ex-girlfriend asks you how you are doing, please "very well", and you have to eat to meet your wife and children with you.

11. In addition to mahjong, it is best to cultivate one or two other interests to prepare for future retirement.

12. If you don't know how to smoke, it's best not to study again, the age of 40 is a high incidence of cancer, and it is also a critical period for longevity.

13. If it's not for business, go clubbing less, there are a lot of people who should accompany you, and they are not suitable for bars.

14. Don't trade your own health for anything!

15. The greatest success is to run a good family, and if the family and marriage are not well managed, you will have to pay for everything.

16. There must be a group of brothers and sisters with positive energy, drunk and holding hands and shouting about the glorious years", even if it's ordinary and not glorious, it doesn't matter!

17. Don't accuse your wife in front of your children. In that way, the child will lose confidence in the future marriage. Children will imitate the words and actions of adults and it will be difficult to change.

18. Don't lie at any time, but you can keep it, it's needed!.

19. If you don't have a genius who is decisive, please don't try to abandon business and enter politics, even if you have a superhuman IQ and scheming!

20. Travel at least once a year, with parents, lovers, children, or friends.

Most men and women marry for love, and there are many people who are married to power and money! Whether a man and a woman are happy after marriage needs to be maintained by two people and willing to pay for each other, so that it is possible to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife, and it is also very important to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, that is, husband and wife life, when a man wants to live a married life with a woman, if the woman is not enthusiastic, not active, and often disagrees, for various reasons, as a man, several times, after a long time, the relationship between husband and wife will have problems!

Of course, a happy marriage must be a relatively harmonious married life, and it is a powerful force to regulate the feelings of husband and wife. After a man and a woman get married, they should have the most demand for marital life at that time. In fact, the fact is that men are most in demand when they get married, and then they will decrease year by year, while most women are increasing year by year.

But when women reach the age of 40, what is their attitude towards living as a couple? Listen to these two men tell the truth!

Mr. Liu, 42 years old, 40-year-old wife, husband and wife life do not care very much.

Mr. Liu said that their husband and wife have always been very happy in their marriage, and they have already done things between men and women when they fell in love, and at that time, it was the craziest time for him to pursue his wife. Then they got married. There was no pressure in the first few years after marriage, and at that time I was very eager for love!

But as time goes by, he has lost his energy as before, and he rarely does it with his wife, but his wife also attaches great importance to the education of children early rent, and the children are gradually getting older, and then he and his wife do less, but there will still be a few times a month!