What should I do if I suspect that there is someone outside my wife?

Here's the thing, one day my wife** rang, I glanced at the back was a man's name, but she turned back to me and said it was harassment**, so she hung up directly, and didn't answer, which caused my thoughts, obviously an acquaintance**, why did you tell me that it was harassment**That, since it's nothing, when I take a ** in front of me, the more I think about it, the more I feel wrong, is it that I am green, I also want to talk to her directly.

Talk, but I can't say it, this kind of thing, no matter what the other party says, I can't pass it in my heart, but there is no substantive evidence! What to do.

Ah, and the name that ** called, I clearly remember that she said, if I'm afraid it's because of a misunderstanding, it's not going to be ah, it's all old husbands and wives, where did so many misunderstandings come from, that's what I hung up and said to me harassment**, I'm a little incomprehensible, we are normal couples, and when we meet a boyfriend or girlfriend, we will say it directly, there's no need to hide anything, I want to prove something, but there's no way, after all, I don't want to prove anything, but this matter has always been in my mind, Think about it. Please have experienced people to help me with ideas ... Recently, the two of them always went out very late at night and came back, saying that they went out for a run, and one night they came back at more than 11 o'clock, and I told me that I went to dinner with friends, three women and a man, these are nothing, but if the husband and wife don't trust each other, everything the other party does is easy to think more, especially this kind of acquaintance**, but it is said to be strange**, selling insurance or something, yesterday was mainly I told her to go back to my hometown at night, she was alone at home, the more I thought about it, the more scared I was, it wouldn't be to tell the adulterer, I'm not there at night, and then something happens, the more I think about it, the more depressed I become, but I can't ask her directly, I can't say, last night's **obviously has a name, why do you say strange**, even if you ask, she is afraid that I will misunderstand and can also say the past, but I always feel that it is not so simple in my heart, she has been very abnormal recently, WeChat voice is very small to listen to, as if afraid that I will hear it, I don't know if it is unintentional or intentional, in short, I think it is very abnormal,

Now, because of you, I always have a thought that wanders in the dark and never publicizes, I always have a dream banished at the end of the world and do not want to take it back, and I always have a love hidden in my heart and can't bear to live up. As long as I can be with you, as long as I can be loved by you, all my grievances can be turned into a breeze under the sleeves of red dust, and all my obsessions can be turned into a smile for the passing years. Your love should be my life's offering, my dear, how can I be willing to forget about you in the rivers and lakes?

Although I have only held your hand in the wind in this life, it is enough for me, even if you only come to my world for a ride, I will remember it for a lifetime.

I silently look forward to the day when your fingers with a faint smell of tobacco will gently pass through my three thousand green silks, and I look forward to the comb you gave me in the future to comb through my thousands of thoughts. I want to send the peach blossom words filled in with you in this life, and the dream of a river of smoke and rain woven together to send it to my next life. May you and I meet as soon as possible in the next life, and there will be no more time and space interlacing.

May in the next life, we no longer have empty wine glasses, and each of us will be cold under the moon; May in the next life, we will no longer be far away from the clouds, each full of loneliness.

First of all, he quietly loves and pampers his wife even more. See how he reacts. If he can reduce his contact with the outside world because of your affection.

Return to the family, then you will rot in your stomach and don't talk about it anymore. If you are on him. 's care and love, he can't see it, he still does his own thing, and he still contacts people outside, so you can talk to him at the beginning.

If he really can't let go of his lover outside, then divorce.

Then think about your own problems first, if you do a good job, but she is unwilling to be mediocre or dislike you, then there is no benefit for you to live, and there are no children, if not, talk about it, good to get together and disperse, if there is, it is also recommended to hide for the child, or don't let the child feel it.

If you don't have children, you will divorce, divorce immediately, can you bear this thing, why should you be together if you have no feelings, since she made such a thing, she made a decisive decision for so long, if you have a child, then you have to think about it again, there is room for redemption for so long Try not to divorce, that will have a great impact on the children, let your wife make a decision, see what she thinks, don't leave if you can ignore it, <>

Frankly speaking, either the external division continues, or the internal division continues.

At this time, it may be because your wife is insecure, you should give your wife more security, you can communicate more with your wife at ordinary times, and then you can take your wife out to play.

If you encounter this situation, you should accompany your wife more, and don't hide anything from your wife, and you must report to your wife when you go out, which will make your wife feel more secure.

This is because your wife is insecure, so you must let your wife fully trust herself, go home early or take her out to play.

I don't think you should explain, because explanation is a cover-up, and it is better to dispel her suspicions with practical actions.

Explain that you are not giving her enough security, and you should communicate with her well. At the same time, think carefully about what problems you have and correct them in time.

Affirming that there is no sufficient sense of insurance should be the same. At the same time, think carefully about what questions you have, and correct them in time.

You should patiently explain to your wife, and you should show your evidence to your wife.