My boyfriend is lazy but treats me well, should I break up with him?

Updated on society 2024-03-18
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should propose to break up, because with such a boyfriend, you generally don't feel happy, and you will feel particularly tired, so breaking up is a wiser choice.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, after all, the beginning of a relationship is not easy, at this time, you still have to communicate and communicate with your boyfriend in time, I hope he can correct it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think you should break up with him, if he is really good to you, and you are sincere to him, you can communicate with him more in life and help him correct bad habits.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, you should break up with him, because if you are with him in this way, there will be no happiness at all, and he will not give you the life you want, and you will be very tired in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The boyfriend is very lazy, it is recommended to communicate well first, if there is no change in what you say and how to persuade, you can consider breaking up. In this case, you can change him with practical actions and let him develop a good habit in his daily life. You can also tell him that if you continue to be lazy like this, it will affect the relationship between the two of you.

    1. My boyfriend is very lazy, what should I do?

    2. How to get rid of the habit of laziness?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If your boyfriend is particularly lazy, you should break up with him at this time, because there is no good future with such a person.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    should break up, because such a boyfriend has no sense of responsibility at all, and there is no sense of responsibility, and it is useless to keep it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should break up, because such a boyfriend will only hurt you, and you will also be wronged.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your boyfriend is very lazy, in this case to see if he is obedient to your words, if he is very relaxed with your words, and you feel good together, don't break up in a hurry.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If he doesn't have any self-motivation and only knows how to ask his parents for money, then this kind of man doesn't want to be with him, it will be difficult for him to give you happiness, and it will be difficult for you to see hope in him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If a person is lazy, then most of them are unmotivated, unenterprising, such men have no sense of responsibility and do not understand that they still have people to take care of. If he's been lazy, then it's time to break up!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The boyfriend is very lazy, well, if you love him very much, you find a way to change him, make him diligent, so that you don't have to break up with him, if you can't change him and can't accept him, then you can break up with him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your boyfriend is lazy, you should use this case. His own practical actions to change him. For example, let him develop a good habit in his daily life. And tell him that if he is too lazy, it will affect the relationship between the two people.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think we should break up, because two people need to pay for each other when they are together, you say that he is lazy, it means that he is not willing to pay, how can there be so many good things in the world, and you want to get things if you don't want to pay.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your boyfriend is really as lazy as you say, then you should communicate with him and tell him that the man should be responsible and should take responsibility for his responsibilities, otherwise you will not be able to be with him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't you tell me that your boyfriend is very self-motivated and works hard, but usually there are more people at home, and you can tolerate more of them, and if he is lazy about everything, he will only break up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If a boy is very, very lazy, I think of course he should break up, if he doesn't break up, he will go to society in the future, if two people are together, if he is so lazy, who can stand it?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My boyfriend is very lazy, I think I should break up, lazy people are not able to make money, and they are not able to support their families, so let's break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you are very lazy, it is recommended to break up, because lazy men have a small sense of responsibility and are easy to live up to your expectations.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You may have to ask if you can accept this, whether this can last for a long time, and whether the economic conditions can support it.

    If it's just an occasional thing, then there's no problem, after all, the ultimate purpose of making money is to stop running around for money, to be able to enjoy old age in peace, and it's nothing for young people to enjoy it occasionally.

    But if it's always like this, then there's a problem, ask yourself if you can accept this status quo. Since ancient times, good birds have chosen trees to perch on, and so have people. If the destiny of your life is so unbearable, you can really consider changing it.

    Thanks if it helps.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    We all want our partner to be self-motivated and responsible, to see if he has always been like thisSee if his environment allows him to be lazy and lazy, whether he can be independent, if not independent, then he gnaws at the old or gnaws at you?If you have a change, give it a chance, and if you don't change it, you can divide it, and if you can't say it, don't gamble.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't break up and keep it for the New Year, his current is what you will look like after you get married.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    So unmotivated, breaking up is a must!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Men must have the spirit of hardship and hard work, develop the quality of hard work, character determines your pattern, quality determines your level, and you decide what to eat if you are lazy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's better for a boyfriend to be self-motivated.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you have a daughter, what do you want to suggest to her, that's the answer you want.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Can you endure it for the rest of your life.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    So when choosing your significant other, you shouldn't just look at his feelings for you。Although I know that girls are generally more easily shaken, sometimes it is a little bit of a boy who is kind to him, and he will feel very happy in his heart, and at this time he will mistakenly think that this is love. But it's important to know that sometimes it's just a feeling of happiness and can't be called love.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I didn't know that your boyfriend was good to you, and he was a**. A person's biggest shortcoming is that he is lazy to eat, because laziness is the root of all evil, unless you are willing to accept such a person, you will generally not be happy.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I don't think it's time to continue dating. Because you don't see the future in him. It will only increase your negative emotions. If you are always sad like this every day, it is better to separate from each other earlier.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You should continue to have a relationship, as long as he is good to you, sincere to you, and loves you, then you can continue, and you can't deny him because of his little fault.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I don't think I can continue to associate with him, because he is lazy and irresponsible for your future, so I can't continue to associate with him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It depends on whether you can bear him or not, if you can tolerate his laziness and are willing to do all the work at home, then you can continue to associate with him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Such a man is lazy and will definitely not be able to associate with him, as a man, first of all, he should have a sense of responsibility, be able to support his family, and he doesn't even have a job, no matter how good he is to you, it is useless.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I don't think we should continue to have a relationship, because if he is lazy and unmotivated, then you may not have a future, and it will not last long.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Of course you should break up, a boyfriend who can't see hope, if you don't break up, will you stay here for the New Year to cut meat and eat?

    In a relationship, what you are most afraid of is not poverty, but what you are most afraid of is not seeing hope。The future itself is extremely slim, and there is no hope for happiness in sight, and there is no need for this relationship to last.

    As you said, your boyfriend is lazy and lazy, and he hasn't looked for a job since graduating from college, and he lies at home every day, can he lose money in the sky by lying at home? Will there be a career when lying at home? Can you be happy lying at home?

    If he can lie at home every day, have a good income every month, and his career is constantly improving, then I have nothing to say, but I don't think your boyfriend is so good.

    A parasite who has no income and does not know how to motivate, and is still parasitic on you, if you don't suck up your blood and get rid of the parasite, what are you waiting for?

    I'm so sorry for you, falling in love with such a person, there should really be no happiness at all. We live in this society, and everything is inseparable from the material foundation.

    Even if he wants to give you a little romance, he doesn't even have the money to buy a bouquet of roses. Even if he wants to surprise you, what will he surprise you with every day?

    Your boyfriend is in this state, and he is completely poor. Xue Zhaofeng has a very warm explanation of poverty, the two words are separated, poverty means that there is no money now, and poverty means exhaustion, that is, there is no hope in the future.

    For this kind of people who have no goals in life, no pursuits and no hopes, they may feel very happy when they lie at home. But for you, it's not like that.

    You should find a person who works together, even if you are poorer now, but you can work hard and down-to-earth, and there is still hope for the future.

    Hurry up and break up, kick this bloodsuck away, and let him fend for himself.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    In fact, to be honest, I also hate those who are delicious and lazy, because there will be no future with such people, so I advise you to separate, because those lazy people sometimes do some very bad things, and you are still the one who is injured and wronged, so it is indeed quite bad.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If it were my own boyfriend, I would definitely break up with him. Such a big person, and he doesn't look for a job, do you always gnaw at the old family, even if you have a mine at home, you can't do this, I advise you to break up with your boyfriend as soon as possible, you and him are not suitable. Such a boy has no sense of responsibility at all, don't think about how much he can love you, and he hasn't even thought about the future of the two of you.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Only if you give him a new life, I believe you can change him! I don't think he doesn't know he's wrong, it's just really hard to correct. There is a way to know if it is feasible or not.

    Some students who are disgusted with learning have dropped out of school and their parents have left no use, and they themselves feel that they are capable, so they end up working on construction sites and factories, and after a few months, they become more diligent. I was also lazy for a while, and I had a friend who had a big temper and had a good schedule because she had to work.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If it were me, I would choose to break up, although it is difficult to find a job now, there are still many opportunities, and he is young and vigorous after graduating from college, if he is not picky, he can still find a job, and it should still be possible to meet the problem of food and clothing, but at the age when he should struggle, he chooses to be decadent, and I will think he is an immature boy.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I quite support you to do this, because people who do good things basically don't have any future, lie down every day, play at home every day, don't look for a job, and don't even have the ability to support themselves, so what good life do you have with him?

    So leave early, enjoy happiness early, leave early, at least you won't let yourself have too many entanglements and troubles, I support you to do this.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    To be honest, for this kind of boy, I recommend breaking up, they all say don't bully the boy to be poor, but this premise is that the boy has unlimited hope and future, what a man is most afraid of is that he has no fighting spirit, he can lie down for a few days, maybe he will be so lazy for the rest of his life, stop the loss in time, or break up. Of course, if you love him very much, you can still communicate, maybe he can get lost.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Don't do it for a while, talk to him, see if you can solve the problem, go out and look for a job, if you can't, break up, see what he says, if it's still like this, leave for the time being, let him reflect on himself, and when he understands, he will know that only you are the most important, and working hard to take care of you is the best result.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Then you should break up, because she is difficult to do good things, because he doesn't look for a job, because he doesn't want to help you share the burden of life, and he doesn't want to give you a better life, so if you are with such a person, he will only consume your youth, as a girl, why waste your good youth on a meaningless person?

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Of course you have to break up, if you don't break up when you meet such a boyfriend, do you want to raise your son and raise him?

    In this era, even girls are embarrassed not to work at home, and only eat boyfriends at home, how can there be a boy who can do such a thing, his face is in **? How thick is the skin? If you don't break up now, it will only make him think that you are a bully, and there is no hope for his life in the future, so break up quickly and find his own happiness.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Such a boy is actually quite irresponsible. If I were you, I would probably break up with him. With such people, I don't think I can see any future.

    In the future, he will still not look for a job, and will stay at home every day, do you want a girl to support him? If I mentioned this to him and he still doesn't correct it, I think it's better to break up.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    First of all, I wish you happiness and all the best.

    This society is very realistic, the reality of material money!

    Therefore, the person who truly loves you will not leave you when you are seriously ill or even incurable, and throw all your money in the hospital; People who really love you will not leave you for a better material life because your family is poor or you are poor; Someone who truly loves you, he will know to work hard with you for your future; The person who truly loves you, he will love the people around you as much as he loves you; The person who really loves you will accompany you when you are most embarrassed, sad, and embarrassed!

    In many cases, true love can only be felt after the water has flowed constantly, or true love can only be seen in a surprise event. If you want to know true love, don't worry, time will tell, I wish you happiness in love!

    Love is happy, I believe you are happy!

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