Why are people impulsive? Does human impulsiveness work?

The transfer of information between people requires communication! In life, we all know that talking is the easiest thing, but talking is also the hardest thing. As the saying goes, a word prospers the country, and a word loses the country.

A sentence can make a person perfect, a sentence can ruin a person, it can lead a trend, create an era, cause a war, or eliminate a war. So the Chinese have a saying called: a good horse out of the legs, can people out of the mouth, this communication ability is a key skill Everyone sees that there are many people around us, in the process of communication, communication, work, life, eating and driving, they are particularly easy to be impulsive, especially easy to be anxious As the saying goes, impulse is the devil, but in life, because of impulsiveness, and the phenomenon of doing things out of the ordinary abounds.

Find 2 groups of students to copy boring numbers, and read an essay to each group of students before copying them. The content of the essay for group A is: How to practice eye-hand coordination through copying and improve the significance of brain thinking efficiency The essay read to group B is:

The reasons for laboratory rules and obedience are as follows: when a person only cares about what he feels in front of him, he must be impulsive and unable to control himself, but if he can see the meaning and value of the overall situation, he can control himself. So whenever something happens, people have two modes of thinking:

One is called meaning thinking, thinking about the overall situation, thinking about meaning, thinking about value. One is called feeling thinking, thinking about what is in front of you, what you feel locally. Therefore, people who are generally impulsive tend to only look at the present, not the overall situation, and only want to feel, not meaning.

Here's an example: When I'm driving on the road, I often encounter vehicles changing lanes at will. This kind of behavior is quite unpleasant, because it is already congested, and when there is no turn signal, changing lanes, it is easy to have a traffic accident, but if I do irrational things out of anger, the anger in my heart will disappear.

But every time I encounter such a thing, I will tell myself that I drive out, that is something that needs to be dealt with, others are still waiting for me, and I can't delay myself and the people waiting for me because of a moment of anger. The driver who changes lanes at will, maybe he has something more anxious than me, so let him give way and wait for one more red light at most! Impulse is a mode of thinking, and as long as we transform the mode of thinking into a pattern of meaning, without using a pattern of feelings, the impulse of the person will be controlled.

The control of a person's temper is like the training of this muscle. As long as he practices every day, he will definitely strengthen. <>

Are you doing a statistical survey? I'm still curious about other people's things.

The most impulsive thing I did was that I picked a set of big lottery numbers, just a set of seven, and I bought 200 bets at once. Two dollars a note, a note is more than 6 million, I bought 200 notes at once, if you win the lottery will get several hundred million. Because I read reports that someone has won a jackpot of more than 100 million yuan.

That's how people buy it. Only in this way is it possible to win hundreds of millions of bets. If you just win one bet, it's just a few millions.

My thought was to get rich or not. Of course, it turned out to be a miss. If it's so easy to get rich, everyone will do nothing and buy lottery tickets.

This kind of thing is theoretically possible, but in practice the possibility is very small. But if you don't try, you don't even have this theoretical chance. Others are also human beings, and they are all with one head and two hands.

So at that time, I bought ten times at a time, four hundred times, four hundred. It's like the money was stolen on the way. Anyway, everyone loses money, and there are many people who lose tens of thousands of dollars every day.

That's what I thought at the time. It wasn't until my fiftieth birthday that I felt a little too impulsive when it came time to know the destiny of heaven. It's not that I feel sorry for money, but I think this idea of getting rich without work is ridiculous.

In addition, I find it strange to have a question like yours in air transport, there are 1.4 billion people in China, do you want to know everyone's private affairs? Do you have any reference for this? 10,000 people, 10,000 answers, 10,000 stories.

What can you do after you know? Are you going to put it together in a book? Because there is no need to learn from others in this kind of thing, I don't understand what the purpose of this is that you ask?

Just curious? Just like learning about other people's pasts?

I've done a lot of impulsive things. I always feel that the consequences of impulsiveness are not too good, but in retrospect, it is not so! Let's write down the one that I can remember.

At the end of the college entrance examination in 2018, I filled in the volunteers, and my brain filled in Guangxi University, as a Jiangsu candidate, I ran so far, it seems unbelievable to others, what is the picture? This is indeed the case, every time I talk about this in Guangxi, I will ask me why I went to such a remote place because the conditions in Jiangsu are so good, and every time I explain the past with "my grades can't go to my favorite university in Jiangsu". In fact, they didn't know that I just wanted to stay away from home, break free from my parents, and satisfy my own selfishness.

It was this impulse that I fell in love with this lovely place, and in the past 4 years, I have traveled to many places in Guangxi, as well as Yunnan, Guizhou, Hunan, Jiangxi, Guangdong... I think if I went to school in Jiangsu, I guess it would be impossible to go. I have met friends from all over the world, my sister in Guangxi, who has always taken care of me, my friends in Gansu and Tianjin, who have a good relationship, and my sisters in Yunnan and Jiangxi, who are like best friends....Many, many interesting things, vivid!

Of course, there are also things that are lost, because I have not been in touch with my high school friends for a long time, and then I will slowly fade away. There are gains and losses. For this decision in life, I am fortunate and favored!

During college, I once wanted to fall in love, but I decided to go back to Jiangsu to develop, and I have been suppressing this idea. There was a girl who confessed to me (I still don't know what I could attract to the opposite sex at that time, is it because of good grades?) Manually save your life), which I refused.

I'm a hard person to say no, and that time I was so determined. I don't know where I got so much determination, but I kept telling myself in my heart that I would not stay in Guangxi in the future, and my current promise may become a pain in the future! I don't know if it's a good or bad decision, but at least we're both doing well now, so let's take it as a good one.

To put it funny, when I was a sophomore, I didn't know which tendon was wrong, and I suddenly dyed my hair, which was originally the kind of burgundy color, which was more obvious under the sun. The one later faded to a full yellow hair. It happened that time when I was preparing to join the party, how could I join the party organization with yellow hair, and the ** hair on the information was temporary, and the day before the meeting, I went to the barber shop and dyed it black.

I advise you to get a regular hair dye, or you may dye it once, and give you another color at a time! In the end, this decision should have been wrong at the time, but it did not have any far-reaching implications.

Since I was a child, I was someone else's child: a good student in the eyes of my teachers and a good child in the eyes of my parents. My parents also have complete trust in me, so they are very supportive of any ideas I have when I decide.

So, there is hardly anything rebellious in my life. So, let's talk about one of the most impulsive experiences of my life. One of the most impulsive experiences in my life was when I was filling in the college entrance examination.

Since I was a child, my dream was to become a doctor in Western China. After the college entrance examination is completed and the score is completed, after filling in the volunteers, consult the teacher's advice. The head teacher of Banpifu thought that it was difficult for me to get into my ideal school and major, and I estimated that I would need to repeat my studies, and it was very difficult for girls, especially for me, to study clinical medicine.

After listening to this, I was very apprehensive, but I still reported to volunteer. After volunteering, I consulted with another senior teacher two days later. She also has the same opinion, and mentioned that the food profession will definitely be good in the future.

So, I wavered and went to the Education Bureau to take back the volunteer form that had been submitted and fill it out again. So, I chose a school with a top ranking in food majors to apply for the exam, and randomly filled in a second major. At the time, I didn't even know the city where the school was located.

Later, I was successfully admitted to the school I applied for, which was more than 150 points higher than the admission score of the school, and that year was the highest admission line of the school, and the score of Sichuan University, which I originally wanted to apply, was the lowest in the past. Unfortunately, I was not able to learn the first major I applied for, and I was admitted to the second major. Faced with the result of burning and being prepared, I was a collapsed Ole in my heart at that time, and I was very annoyed and entangled.

I regret my impulsiveness, I regret that I gave up my childhood dream so easily. I wonder if I want to repeat it. But I didn't repeat it, and I chose to make a mistake.

Therefore, I was not happy in the first few years of undergrad, and I wanted to go back to repeat my studies many times in the first semester of my freshman year, but I still tried to persevere in my studies, and my grades were not bad. Later, graduate school was also an undergraduate major, and finding a job was also related to the major. Now it seems that this major is also good, the employment prospects are much better than the food major, and at the same time it is also very interesting.

Now that I've grown up, I look back and think that if I really studied medicine, I might not be able to afford it. Maybe this is the wonderful arrangement of life, not everything will come according to plan, but as long as you always remember to live hard in the moment, there will be beauty and happiness. An impulse that changed the trajectory of life.