What are the common bad things in confinement for pregnant women, and how to alleviate them?

No one takes care of themselves during confinement, the child's crying, physical pain, etc. will make people feel bad, and the family will try to help the pregnant woman as much as possible, care for her, be considerate of her, and take care of her to relieve the worries of the pregnant woman.

During the confinement period, one is the pregnant mother's physical discomfort, generally have wounds, at this time must not be reckless, try to let the husband's family take more responsibility for taking care of the baby, in addition to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the concept of parenting will also make many mothers during the confinement period upset, at this time it is best to unite with the husband, emphasizing scientific parenting, and it is not good to say that the husband and mother-in-law communicate. Finally, if you are not proficient in neonatal care, you need pregnant mothers to learn newborn nursing knowledge as soon as possible and enhance their self-confidence, believing that they can take care of their children.

Speaking of the bad things in the confinement, it reminds me of the time when I gave birth to Dabao, the month I sat on, and the bad thing still makes me very sad.

Because our small family is located in the county seat, and almost all the relatives of my mother's family live in the county seat. When I just gave birth to Dabao, my mother proposed that the child send rice candy, so it was more convenient to find a hotel in the county seat to invite guests. At that time, my mother-in-law was full of promises.

But when I was discharged from the hospital and returned home, my mother-in-law changed her mind and had to go back to her hometown to deliver rice candy. At that time, my husband and I had two opinions, I wanted to deliver rice candy in the county, and my husband had to listen to his mother and go back to his hometown. As a result, within a few days of returning home, he sent us back to his hometown just to deliver rice candy.

I was very angry at the time, because my mother-in-law went back on her word, so that my mother couldn't hold her head up in front of her relatives. Originally, it was all said to be good, but it was so improvised. I couldn't resist my husband, so I had to go back. This month has become very bad because of this incident.

At my mother-in-law's house, my mother beat over and over again, saying why she didn't come back yet, when would she send rice candy. And I was at my mother-in-law's house, and my husband just wouldn't let me go. I have an awkward fight with my husband every day, and my husband just doesn't listen to me.

I was in a terrible mood during that month. Living at my mother-in-law's house is also very uncomfortable and awkward. I don't like it here, and I can't do anything if I stay here.

As a result, one day, I cried all day and didn't eat for a day. That's it, I still haven't been able to get my husband to listen to me. It wasn't until after the child was full moon that I returned to my hometown.

Then my husband wasn't ready to send rice candy, and I couldn't go because I stayed at home with my children. In the end, under the persuasion of my husband's classmates, I sent rice candy. It's terrible to think about this month.

The sin should be my father-in-law, who smells of smoke all over his body, treats my children with his rough lifestyle, and I can only try not to let him touch the children.

My husband and sister brought two children here, and they were noisy, and the children and I didn't have a good rest, and then we tore up with them in confinement. Now let me have a second child, I can't go back to them directly, and I won't give birth if the first child is not done.

The worst thing about confinement is that there is no baby, only the empty confinement of oneself, sadness, tears, and the shadow that cannot be walked out.

Tortured me and my newborn child every day, and my husband thought that my mother-in-law had the experience to listen to her for everything, but I ended up with a confinement disease, and the child was thin and small!

The worst thing is to feed a bunch of people around to watch you feed, drunk.

During the confinement, relatives and friends of various elders came to visit, and they did not shy away from watching me breastfeeding, and my mother still felt that there was nothing wrong with the problem. I was breastfeeding in my house, and my mother was packing up next to me, and someone knocked on the door to visit, and my mother directly led someone to my house to watch me breastfeed. I said it once or twice, and she also said that I didn't dare to let my relatives and friends come to the house like this, and that it was not good to be a person.

I said I'll move a bench and sit downstairs so that everyone can see me breastfeeding, and you'll be a good person, right? There was a big fight, and finally I didn't bring anyone with me when I was breastfeeding

The husband of the first child had to go back to his rural hometown to give birth to a child in confinement, my husband stayed at home for half a month, everything was fine, the leave for work reasons was over, my nightmare began, not to mention what confinement meal, one night I had acute gastroenteritis, the pain was dying, the child also cried the history, my mother-in-law slept next to us, I didn't care, I went out in the middle of the night to find a bottle filled with hot water to warm the stomach to relieve the pain, and also held the child coaxing, less than a month, their autumn harvest, forced me to help in the yard during the day to help a Kuang Kuang to lift cornLater, I wet the bed at night for a long time, and it slowly got better after half a year. At that time, before I was three months old, I took the child back to my parents' house......Now that the second child is about to be born, I will never go back to their countryside, and my mother-in-law will not come to my house to serve me......

My worst baby jaundice is hospitalized, alone, without a baby in the days like years?

My mother-in-law wants to go to work, she said to take more than ten days off to take care of me, and let my husband take leave to take care of me for the remaining ten days, and let me bring it myself after the confinement, and she will help me bring it after half a year old. My husband said that he would invite me for a month until I finished my confinement. To be honest, I can't accept it in my heart, at least you have to help me in the first two or three months, right?

I can't interfere with what she likes to go to work in the future, but people don't do it, saying that it is unnecessary to waste money in the months when the two of them are together, and that one person is enough. Should I understand my mother-in-law?

Live upstairs and downstairs with the old couple, give birth to a child is my husband and my mother and my sister go, confinement cooking, washing diapers, informing relatives to hold a banquet and everything is in charge of my husband, and then, the point is here, my mother-in-law doesn't care about anything cool even if he goes upstairs and quarrels with me a few times, I can take advantage of my husband's absence.

The bad thing is that the older generation always thinks that they eat more rice than I eat salt, and they always say what will happen if you do this? What happens after that. There is also an old woman who left because of half a month of work, leaving me alone in confinement and not understanding anything, but fortunately, the old woman listens to me for everything, otherwise she will definitely be angry to death.

...... in the middle of a swollen milkIt felt like there were two bombs hanging from it