Should you be more rational or follow your feelings more?

If you are less than 30 years old, you can follow the feelings, people live a lifetime and pass quickly, people need to do something they want to do, make themselves happy, so, you can follow the feelings, as long as you are happy, but after the age of 30, please be sensible, because you need to plan for your future, what you need must be able to stay with you for a lifetime.

You probably already know this question yourself! Dealing with feelings In the world of feelings, how much sanity do you think you have? People who are too rational are not suitable for love.

It's better to be sensible in your feelings, otherwise both of you will be hurt, are you willing?

Emotion and reason restrain and influence each other, people are emotional animals and rational at the same time, sometimes emotion prevails, sometimes reason presses down the germ of emotion, the story of emotion in life is moving, but the rational decision makes people feel that wisdom, like a balance, can maintain the balance of the two by adding a little weight to the low point, and it is impossible to say who is more than the other. When you make a judgment, you can't tell whether emotions control the intellect or whether the intellect restricts the emotions.

1. When you encounter things in life, you need emotion and reason, and if you rely on emotion alone, you will not be able to achieve great things, which makes people feel that mother-in-law and mother are always around emotion and less wise.

2. Relying on reason alone, it seems to be too boring. When the leader of the unit resolves the conflict between his subordinates, we will always say that he is too emotional or he is too rational and lacks human feelings, and the solution is not satisfactory, even if the judge resolves the civil dispute.

It is also necessary to be with emotion and law, which shows that emotion and reason are mutually restrictive, and it is best to achieve a balance.

3. Should the relationship be emotional or rational, two young people with different backgrounds are in love, but the door is not right, the difference between the two is very big, outsiders say that it is not suitable, if the two are emotionally good and willing to be a Bo, the two may go to the soup for love and get married together, and then the two families are too different and contradictory to affect the relationship between the two and finally separate. But love requires all your strength, which is not a life experience, and many people may not be brave for love in their lives.

4. Generally speaking, marriage is to be sensible, because the content of marriage is more, but in order to reduce sadness and treat marriage too rationally, there are many fewer unforgettable love stories. For emotional life, if you want to grasp the balance between feelings and reason, reason needs feelings to spice up, and feelings need reason to restrain it, there will be less tragedy and more peace.

5. Emotion and reason are equally important, the two can be best balanced, neither absurd nor rigid and tasteless, life is countless attempts and choices, there is no standard answer. What we need to maintain is a balance between emotion and intellect to make life better.

In the final of the 2006 Football World Cup, French star Zinedine Zidane, in the last ten minutes of extra time, hit his opponent with his head, and ended his World Cup career with a red card, and caused the whole team to give up the championship to the Italian team. Of course, this is just an example of irrational and irreparable consequences, and in real life, there are not a few things that have caused big mistakes because of emotional irrationality, we often see gossip on the Internet about so-and-so committing suicide for love, or who fights with whom because of a girl. I think these are irrational behaviors.

Many people think that love is to be desperate, even if it is something that is not recovered, and I think that it is too naïve, the so-called dead and alive are things that only exist in ** or TV series, in the face of reality, we have to think too much, and irrationality will only lead us to the abyss, difficult to extricate ourselves, all in all, whether it is to treat feelings or others, we need to be rational.

If there is no reason in the relationship, then what will happen? Let's start with what happens in every relationship, and that is quarrels. If it's a petty fight, sometimes it's okay for girls to be irrational.

Just need to coax her as a boy and she'll be fine. But if the boy is not rational in the small fight, it is easy to turn from small to small into a big fight, which is not a good thing.

Let's talk about another thing that will happen, and that is the solution to things, which can also be said to talk and communicate. Actually, this is similar to a quarrel, but in general, it is different. Because a quarrel is a quarrel, and it is a heated discussion about two parties with different ideas.

But the solution to the problem, talking and communicating, is to consider both sides comprehensively. Or whichever side makes sense, then listen to which side. If you don't have reason in this regard, the consequences may be like a quarrel.

If it is small, it will be noisy, and if it is cold for a few days, it will affect the relationship between the two sides.

Let's put it another way, in a relationship, if you are sensible, then no matter what happens, it will be much easier and more convenient. Let's take the same example as above. If in a quarrel, both parties are a reasonable person.

That quarrel may not happen. Or even if it happens, it's a big thing and a small thing. It will also not cause any harm to the feelings of both parties.

This is especially true when it comes to talking and communicating, and how things can be solved. Because in fact, whether it is in the relationship or not. In life, we should be rational when we talk and communicate with others, as well as when we solve problems.

Let's calm down and help us think.

So in general, sanity is a must in relationships. Learn to be a sane person that will benefit us very much throughout our lives.

There are many kinds of human feelings, including family affection, love, and friendship. We can't do without such a feeling, and our life is incomplete without each of them. Our life needs to be decorated with these feelings in order to become more colorful.

However, I can think about it from another angle, if you don't have a little sense when you face feelings, then what awaits you, when you encounter a little unhappy or don't do it, you are extremely impulsive and rush up, when facing your boyfriend, you shrew scolded the street and asked questions, without understanding the ins and outs of the matter and questioned randomly, I think slowly you may be farther and farther away from your boyfriend, he will feel that you are often unreasonable, and hate to understand, So you're going to slow down your relationship with each other When you're not rational about friendship, then you're going to have to lose and lose and don't trust your friends as much.

So I think you still need to be rational in the face of feelings.

I think that feelings need to be rational, and each of us will have different feelings, and we will have different attitudes towards different things. Although many people feel that feelings are just simple giving, simple returns, it is so simple that liking is liking, disliking is disliking, there is no third choice. But I think in our current society, we need to face emotions rationally.

Maybe you will love someone and love him all over the world, I used to think that feelings should be like this, no matter where others are, of course liking is all! But now that I think about it, it's an unrealistic idea, and it makes me feel ridiculous. We all think that a relationship should not be mixed with any benefits and gains, but who can do this?

Even if we grow up, we know that I will strive for what is good for us, and I will grasp what is good for myself.

Some people are injured in a relationship, and they give their whole hearts or they really think about each other sincerely, but in the end there is no good result. This kind of love, this kind of affection happens from time to time. Maybe you lost the happiness of this life because of a momentary love, and maybe you lost the innocence that is difficult to get back in this life because of a temporary compromise.

Time is only once for us, the years will not let us go, and we should not let down the years. What happens in this life is unpredictable for us.,Maybe I shouldn't have talked about feelings so worldly.,But it's true that we really lost a lot of things in the process because of impulsiveness and irrational treatment.。。 So I think in the face of feelings in life, we can't be rash, impulsiveness is the devil, we must be rational about every decision we make, and every relationship knows what we should do.

In this way, your life will be wonderful.

Feelings need to be rational, but feelings can't be rational. If you quarrel with your boyfriend, he doesn't come over to coax you for the first time, but tells you, let's calm down first, and then list 1234, what would you think? If you are too sensible, it will make people feel that you are not giving your feelings, and you don't care about this relationship.

Because if you have feelings, you will be easy to be impulsive, and if you are impulsive, you will lose your mind, so I feel that the emotional truth is that you need to be rational, but he can't make people rational.

Some boys are too rational in love, so boys and girls are not able to understand him very well and feel that he doesn't love themselves, so it leads to breakups. Feelings, especially love, need to rely on an intuition, an impulse. If you fall in love with a person today, you will rationally analyze whether he is suitable for you, what advantages he has, what disadvantages he has, list these one by one, and then match, all kinds of rational calculations, and then you will find that there is no one who is suitable for you at all.

Because love requires an impulse, we believe in our own feelings.

There is no way to be rational when we are in love, there is no way to be rational when we are angry, and there is no way to be rational when we are sad, so how to make us rational in love? The most taboo thing for people who study psychological counseling is to apply this kind of psychological analysis to themselves and the people around them, if you often analyze the people around you, others will feel that getting along with you is really too tired. When you are angry, you have to cry out, and when you are sad, you have to cry out to be happy.

If everyone analyzes rationally, then I can't imagine what the world will be. It's really nice to be in shape, and it's really relaxing.

Feelings are emotional, but at the same time rational. Sensual feelings are the initial feeling of two people together, which is indispensable, and it is reason that determines whether two people can go on for a long time, that is, reason.

There is a lot of truth in everything you do. When you have an argument with someone, do you choose to fight or choose reason, when you encounter unfair treatment, do you choose to sink or choose reason, when you encounter unhappy things, do you choose to be depressed or choose reason. All this, only by choosing reason can we better get out of the predicament and live a better life.

Feelings are the same thing, two people get along naturally not like one person, you can be carefree and free when you are alone. And two people must run in, be humble to each other, and the relationship must be managed.

When two people quarrel, you have to break up at every turn, is it appropriate? Is it a threat to break up? This is extremely irrational behavior, everyone is an adult, and if there is a problem between two people, they should be on the matter, don't break up, say what problems there are, and solve them.

It wasn't a big deal, but being broken up like this brought a shadow to himself and the other party. That's why it's important to be rational in relationships.

For another example, there was a little friction between men and women, and men fought against women, is this the demeanor that a man and a boyfriend should have? What's the big deal to do it, can't the two of them sit down and have a good chat? Whether or not you can go on is not something that can be solved by a fight, but it will make it difficult for the originally serious matter to end, and in the end, the two people will break up unhappily.

Emotions are needed in relationships, and more importantly, they need to be rational.

In fact, I believe that rationality is indispensable for everyone, no matter what the circumstances. And in the relationship between two people, I think it is also necessary to be rational in order to get along better.

If two people only have emotion and no rationality, I think they may not be so decisive in dealing with problems. Especially if the woman did something wrong, and you said about the other party, she cried, made trouble and hanged herself, and her emotions drove her, then you will back down in this matter. Not to mention whether you should back down or not, from the matter itself, you can feel that you are indecisive and not a mature partner.

Whether it's looking at the lives of celebrities or looking at the lives of the people around them. Everyone may feel that it is not easy to be together for so long, and when complimenting them on their high emotional intelligence, you should also consider that they are sensible.

Two people need to carry out all kinds of friction from realizing that they are together to the future, and they may encounter a lot of unsatisfactory things, everyone should look at the problem with a rational eye, and it is okay to add a little emotion occasionally, but don't go too far. I'm sure this kind of relationship will go further.