Dou Wentao questioned what are the reasons why women who are not social on the surface often marry t

In a certain episode of "Round Table Pie", the host Dou Wentao once asked this question: "Why do some people seem to have no friends and are always alone?" ”And such a woman who is not socially fit on the surface often marries the best.

I think the main reason is thisThey are very self-disciplined, very clear and know what they want, so they can always live better than others, even if they seem to be out of place with the people around them.

One, unsociable people are more sober In fact, there are many such people around us, they always seem to be unsocial, eating alone, shopping alone, enjoying loneliness alone, although in our hearts we disdain to be in the company of such people, because we think such people are too boring. But such unsociable people are often better than people in life. Because they are sober and can avoid a lot of useless socializing, they can avoid dealing with these unnecessary people, so that the rest of the time can be used to improve themselves.

Second, people who don't fit in with the group will not settle in fact These seemingly unsocial people often know what they really want, and they generally won't compromise on love, let alone change their minds because of the opinions of the people around them, because they feel that if they don't meet a suitable partner, it's better to live freely alone. Therefore, people who seem to be unsociable on the surface either do not get married, and marriage must be a good personThis is also the best reason why many unsocial women around me often get married.

Third, talk about my opinion, when I was young, I was always afraid of loneliness, and I wanted to have a playmate no matter what I did, but when I grew up, I found that I could enjoy freedom alone, but it was also very comfortable, because a person lived more freely and freely, and I didn't have to deliberately cater to other people's ideas. So getting used to being a person actually means that we have grown up, and a person can actually live well, don't think about making do with it just because you are oldI hope that everyone can live a life according to their own ideas.

Because women who are not social on the surface tend to be more independent, more ambitious, more lonely, and very careful, unsocial women are often a little picky when choosing a partner, so they often marry better.

Personally, I think it's because these women have very unique personalities, and they have special personalities, so they will attract men who like them very much, and sometimes they will be particularly decisive in doing things, so men will let women do this.

Because of these unsociable women, they all have their own opinions, they don't follow the crowd, they take their feelings very seriously, and they know very well what they need.

Because these people don't follow the crowd, they have their own unique insights and understandings, they know what they want, and they have been working towards this goal.