I wonder if women are at odds????

Psychological problems, women are older than men will always be biased, but age is not the main problem, the problem lies with yourself. Maybe it's your character, or maybe it's your situation, the main reason for women to find in men should be a sense of security, I also have a female friend like this, 4 years older than me, very concerned about me, and also takes care of me, she always says that she is small in front of me, this is actually a psychological problem, simply put, you are not as strong as him, you are not the kind of person she loves, care is only on the basis of your acquaintance, care is to care about anyone, you don't have to be too anxious, slowly experience, look at it from the perspective of a bystander, think about it, and you will know.

There are three situations, you have to look at his usual behavior, the first is that he really doesn't like you, and his concern for you is purely for his brother; The second is that she doesn't like you, but hangs on you all the time, because someone likes him to satisfy his vanity; The third is that he likes you too, but he's too embarrassed to say it. To analyze specific problems in detail, you don't want to say marriage as soon as you come up, you have to take it step by step, a boy suddenly proposes to another girl, and no one will agree.

Duplicity is not impossible, this problem is difficult for others to help you analyze, it belongs to the psychology of love, it is very profound, and it is difficult to figure it out, someone once said: A woman's heart, a needle under the sea! No matter how thoroughly you understand Freud's psychology, women will always be a mystery to you.

And sometimes I often have an illusion about the person I like, very hazy, because of a little thing, I will think that the other party likes me, in fact, if you look at a normal ordinary role, it is actually just such a simple little thing. What to do, it is recommended to get closer to each other first, and then find a chance to talk about it.

If this girl says that you don't have the same heart, most of them suspect that you are lying to him, or think that what you say or do to him is a lie, so this woman does not believe you that much at all.

When a woman says that she has different hearts, it is actually a kind of disbelief in you. First of all, you must know what is called inconsistency, the so-called inconsistency of the heart and mouth, in fact, it means that what you think in your heart is very different from what you say, and it is completely different. So if you let your other half know about this kind of thought, you will definitely be very sad.

And most of the things that a woman can care about are the kind of things you say, that is, about the relationship between you, for example, you say that you love him very much, but your body doesn't do anything, so this woman thinks you are lying.

Or if you say something, but you don't do it at all, the woman will think that you don't have integrity, or that you don't love her at all, so if you continue to associate these things, you and him will not be suitable.

And many times the relationship is like this, and it is easy for two people to have a lot of contradictions because of a little thing. Therefore, most of them are due to some misunderstandings, and this girl said that you have a different heart, which may also be caused by some misunderstandings.

So if you really know what this girl is thinking, or if you know that there are some conflicts between the two of you, you can talk to this woman, so that there will not be too many conflicts between you and some things will be solved in the future.

So as long as this girl has some misunderstanding or some other things about you, you can take the initiative to clarify the feelings of the two people, and you are most afraid that one person has contradictions and misunderstandings, and the other person does not say anything, then this situation will only turn a blind eye to the growing problem in this state.

Therefore, a good relationship requires two people to constantly understand and tolerate, although two people may not necessarily go to the end, but if Xi Xiguo is not willing to have more tolerance for each other during this period of love, then this kind of relationship is impossible to come together, and this understanding of each other is the most important.

The Chinese idiom is xīn kǒu bù yī, which means that what you think in your heart is different from what you say. Describe the hypocrisy and deceit of man.

First of all, people with different hearts, occasionally, may have concerns, and it is inconvenient to explain their true feelings and cannot be explained clearly with others. But if you don't have the same heart and mouth for a long time, it belongs to a character trait. Such people are often more hypocritical, good at pretending to be free, afraid that others will discover their true inner thoughts, afraid to face reality, sensitive and fragile, and have low self-esteem in their hearts.

Secondly, getting along with such a person, if it does not touch your interests and does not affect your emotions, then you don't have to take it to heart, just know it in your heart. You must not expose it, because once you expose it, it will cause the other party to not be able to step down, and then become angry and angry, causing serious consequences. Of course, it may be a bit heavy, but there are people in this world, and we don't know what kind of people we will meet, so protecting ourselves is the first thing.

Sometimes, in a relationship, one person loves each other to death, and is willing to give everything for each other, but the other person is just playing on the spot and having fun casually. Such a love scum is like being picked up to the end, and the one who loves deeply is often in pain. Getting along with the opposite sex, boys with "different hearts" are all for the purpose of deceiving your feelings, so stay away from him when you meet such a boy.

It means that you speak duplicitously, saying things with your mouth but not thinking so in your heart.

As the saying goes: a woman's heart is a needle. Women are always fickle.

Saying that she likes it but thinks about others in her heart, she says she doesn't like it and wants to break up, but she actually wants you to keep her.

- Why am I always pretending to be strong in front of him? It seemed to him that I didn't care about anything anymore. But in fact, my heart is not like this?

Why did I become like this--? This shows that you genuinely like this person and really care about this person.

Women's instinct is to protect themselves, so they don't care.

Men don't want so much in the first place, you can say what you really think, and save yourself from self-defeating.

Because there are too many thoughts in my heart. It's too good at transformation. I can't keep up with the speed of the mouth.

He doesn't want to show his vulnerable side in front of you! You know this, then you should take good care of her.

She is the person who has to be a longwang shu-type bai, and she has lost it again

I regret it, I don't cherish what I get, and in the end there is only one.

There is no dao to have, no back to boys and girls, they all agree to choose carefully, but if you choose, you must be loyal to each other, and only take one scoop of weak water for three thousand! It must be this girl who has no boundaries with the opposite sex. A girl of such a character is not suitable for a wife.

Won't be a qualified wife. When you get married, you will also go out of the wall.

This kind of woman with different hearts and mouths is not single-minded, what she does is unreliable, and her heart is different, this kind of person must stay away. Leave early to avoid harm.

I think he has to be more careful when he talks to him or communicates with him, well, don't pay too much attention to everything he says0

Treat such a woman.

Let's stay away.

This is a woman who has no principles and bottom lines.

Whoever marries him will not be at ease.

Good luck.

For women who are inconsistent in their relationship, it depends on how deep your feelings are for this woman. If you care about her very much, you must know that women generally like this, but it is good to understand the temper, the key is to be attentive.

Infatuated and amorous, it not only hurts herself, but also hurts the person who is good to her, it is not worth it.

It is the wishful thinking of a woman for a man.

Then stay away and don't associate with such people.

In a relationship with a strange man, why do women be duplicitous? There are three reasons for this.

A woman as vicious as a queen plays you like a fool, while a woman as kind as Snow White cares about what you think, and she deceives you because she wants you to be sad and sad.

But behind the deception is because of love for you.

A woman's heart is a needle, and sometimes a woman also understands herself.

3 All women's hearts are needles, the most difficult creatures in this world to understand are women, they are emotional animals, so you have to be careful to guess the meaning of each sentence, especially women in love, you need to be more careful to judge the true meaning of their words, a little carelessness may even lead to a war between you, let's summarize a few big lies that women often say.

I'm not angry, it's fine. Although this sentence may indicate that she is not angry, most of the time she is already angry, at least a little unhappy in her heart, and the girl does not want to say it. At this time, you must not leave like this, and it is the most important thing to comfort that person as much as possible.

Because the subtext of most girls saying this sentence is: Get out! If you don't comfort me, don't look for me.

You're busy. This sentence also has a lot of meanings, because she may have thought that she had a chance to be with you when she said this, but found that you chose a job or something other than her, can she not be angry, but most girls will not be too willful and can only say: You are busy.

In fact, their hearts are very eager for you to accompany them.

So be it. Most of this sentence appears when you have some small friction, if she only says one sentence after a long time, so be it. Then you have to be careful, she is too lazy to argue with you, she doesn't want to argue with you anymore, and chooses to ignore you, because they don't want to see you at all now, you have to be careful!

Whatever. When you hear this sentence come out, it's bad, but it also depends on the situation, and generally when there is a disagreement, the girl will come up with this sentence, and most of it can be seen that she is already angry. What he means is that if you don't listen to me, I don't care, whatever you do in the future is none of my business, just watch it yourself.

As soon as this sentence is said, you have to quickly find a way and discuss it carefully, otherwise the relationship will become more and more stiff!

Wait for me for five minutes. This sentence is probably the most famous female lie. Have you ever seen a time when makeup and dressing can be solved in five minutes?

Not really. Hearing five minutes, you must not simply think that you can leave soon, in fact, I think it should be at least ten minutes, you can sit down and wait for a limited time, because the more you leave, often some girls will find that they still have a lot of things to do, and it seems that they must finish it now, otherwise their hearts will be very uncomfortable, so the so-called waiting for me for five minutes, does not exist.

Please. Telling you this sentence does not mean that she is really begging you, nor is she begging you to help her do something, a woman saying "please" to her husband is actually an order, a compulsory order in another language expression. So when you hear the plea, say yes, they're still in the stage of talking.

"Break up, don't come back to me" It's common for boyfriends and girlfriends to quarrel, if you quarrel more seriously, then she may say angry words, but you have to remember that this is just angry words are not true, unless you really don't plan to have this relationship, when she is angry, you don't apologize and you don't coax her, then you're completely done Anyway, part of the reason why my boyfriend and I have been stable this year is that every time I have a small friction with him, or even say angry words, he will pull my arm, No matter how much I beat or scold, he won't leave me half a step, I really want to be angry with such a boyfriend, and I can't be angry for three seconds, because he is so good to me

That girl is so good-looking, much better than me" You must understand at this time, he said this to let you refute her, not to make you nod stupidly, she wants you to say that, **good-looking, compared with my wife, there is a lot of difference Otherwise, you just wait to be beaten My boyfriend Every time I say this, my boyfriend will say obediently, no, no, no, you are the most beautiful, although I know that he is touting me, but I am still very happy to hear him say this, because every girl will hope that her boyfriend only has herself in his eyes, she is the most beautiful little fairy!

It is said that many of the words of women have to be listened to in reverse, as a girl in her twenties. I think so. In fact, it's not necessarily true to say that there are different hearts, girls just want a little more love and care.

The most common is that girls say "whatever, it's okay". I've seen a lot of boys complain about this word before, and when women say casual, it's really not really casual. I hope that my boyfriend or husband can understand what she means.

For example, when going to eat, the boy asks the girl what she wants to eat, and the girl says whatever, shouldn't the boy have a point in his mind about his girlfriend's food preferences and then choose the restaurant she likes to eat? Why do you want to complain, you can say it casually, and you can't choose hot pot, barbecue, steak, or anything? You directly chose the French food she liked, how could there be so many things later?

There are also girls who say, "You're busy." In this new era, young people are under a lot of pressure, and they have endless work to do every day, so they will spend a lot less time with family and friends. Sometimes the girl has something going on, and she wants to talk to the boy, but the boy is working overtime and can't spare time.

Girls sometimes say, "I'm fine, you're busy." "At this time, don't just think that girls are really fine.

If you're not very busy, just talk to your girlfriend for a while and see what's going on. If you're busy, don't forget to reply to your girlfriend, she's probably been waiting for you to reach out to her.

In fact, women don't have any real hearts, but they all want to give themselves a small protective shield or be coquettish.