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Trust in each other, be honest with each other, and be tolerant.
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If you want to have more friends, you must be heart-to-heart and sincere to others, so that you can have more good friends. Don't be too harsh on others, as long as it is not a problem of character, a problem of principle, or a small problem, you should choose to be tolerant and not careful. Only in this way can you tolerate others and have more friends.
For friends with compatible personalities, we must care for each other and love each other, and think about others, so that we can have a long-term friendship. You can be with more popular people, so that you can feel his charm and skills in dealing with people, and you must make friends and Fang Chun's blind method. Be enthusiastic and helpful.
People who love to help have good popularity and many friends. Don't be too selfish in doing things, just think about yourself. In this way, you can have good popularity, think about whether you usually only think about yourself and others.
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Summary. In interpersonal interactions, we should try to do the following to deal with ourselves and others, as well as to manage relationships appropriately: Be sincere and kind:
When dealing with others, we should try to be as sincere and kind as possible, not to hide ourselves too much, and not to be too suspicious and defensive about others. In this way, a stronger relationship of trust and friendship can be established. Good at listening and communicating:
When it comes to dealing with others, we should be good at listening and communicating. Listen carefully to each other's opinions and feelings, and also express your thoughts and feelings clearly so that both parties can better understand each other and respect and tolerate each other.
In interpersonal communication, how we should face ourselves and others, how to properly handle various relationships.
In interpersonal interactions, we should try to do the following to deal with ourselves and others, as well as to properly manage various relationships: Be sincere and kind: When interacting with others, we should be as sincere and kind as possible, not too much to hide ourselves, and not to be too suspicious and defensive of others.
In this way, a stronger bond of trust and friendship can be established. Be good at listening and communicating: When interacting with others, we should be good at listening and communicating.
We should listen carefully to each other's opinions and feelings, and also express our thoughts and feelings clearly, so that both parties can better understand each other, respect and tolerate each other.
Maintain proper distance and boundaries: In interpersonal interactions, we should maintain appropriate distances and boundaries. Respect the privacy and personal space of others, and protect your own privacy and rights.
This avoids unnecessary disputes and contradictions. Learn to deal with conflicts and problems properly: In interpersonal interactions, it is inevitable that some conflicts and problems will arise.
We should learn to deal with these problems properly, try to avoid using violent or aggressive language, and analyze the problem calmly before doing so, and find a solution. At the same time, we must also learn to be tolerant and understanding, and try our best to resolve contradictions and differences.
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In order to overcome the cognitive bias of people, trying to understand a person objectively, fairly and accurately is the premise and basis for adopting effective interpersonal relationship strategies for him, and to achieve this understanding, it is not enough to have rich experience and fair motivation, it also requires the cognitive subject to have a clear enough understanding of the various cognitive biases that may occur in this process, and then strive to overcome them.
1. Cognitive mode: The personal characteristics of the cognitive subject, as well as its cognitive level and cognitive orientation, constitute the cognitive framework in which the cognitive activities occur, which determines what kind of knowledge and moral level the subject is at, and from which specific information channel to start, cognition and interpretation. Therefore, there should be a self-evident premise for the knowledge of man:
Tolerance. 2. Subjective state: The immediate needs, interests and emotional states of the cognitive subject will affect the cognitive results of the cognitive objects in front of him, affect the selectivity of his cognition, and also affect the positivity and negativity of the cognitive results. Therefore, working on improving one's emotional intelligence should always be a must for leaders and managers.
3. The first cause effect: the first impression left by the cognitive object will very strongly affect the formation of our overall impression of him, which is caused by the individual's memory law, the psychological tendency of cognitive uniformity and the stereotyped effect of culture on thinking. Therefore, it is important to leave opportunities and leeway for the cognitive object to perform.
4. Halo effect: Just as the existence of the moon halo will distort our normal perception of the moon, if the cognitive object has a certain prominent feature, our understanding of it will be affected by this prominent feature, resulting in a change of "one good and one hundred good" or "one bad and one bad". We should strive to be comprehensive in our understanding of people.
5. Stereotype: Individuals like to take a shortcut when carrying out social cognition: they classify the current cognitive object into a category of people, and then use some fixed views about this type of person to speculate about the person in front of them.
Because it is a "class", it may be generalized, and because it is a fixed view, it may be outdated.
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Be subjective and empathetic.
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There are many kinds, mainly halos and first seals. The main thing is to control it from the perspective of self-knowledge.
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If you look at a person who is pleasing to the eye, you will be partial to him.
To reach out to the person who doesn't like the eye, to get to know him.
Perhaps, he has a good character.
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