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In fact, this fear comes from the fear of rejection by others, and the fear of pressure from the people around you. But in fact, think about it, in life, how can anyone be liked by everyone and never be ridiculed? Those who are cynical and sneering just have their own plans in their hearts, whether they want to hit you or get the attention of others, sometimes it's not that your behavior is wrong, but that these people have a bad heart at all.
If you go to society, you are so afraid of others talking about yourself, and you will be worried about death sooner or later.
I think it's okay to show a good impression of someone if you like him, and you don't have to be too enthusiastic, otherwise you will frighten people, and I know in my heart that it's okay to take care of him more in everything. Others are sneering, and the rebuttal that should be refuted can be ignored by those who are unreasonable.
We have only been in the world for decades, and we look at other people's noses and eyes to do everything, and it is too embarrassing to live. Hehe, in fact, you are afraid that people will hate you, maybe the other party is the same, if you let go of so many scruples, talk and communicate generously, maybe you can become friends. Even if you are rejected, it is normal to be estranged, if we were loved, we would have been idol stars long ago.
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You think about too many things, in fact, as long as you think about things, don't tell others, which boy, girl doesn't have a crush in your heart, what is there to think about, give yourself a little confidence, others want us, we still don't like him, what can I be afraid that he will misunderstand me?
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Don't worry about that, there's no point. You can use self-soothing to tell yourself that those men are nothing, ignore them, and you ignore them as personalities. It will be much better than treating the symptoms but not the root cause. Don't worry about that, there's no point.
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It's uncomfortable for all the boys or just for one or some.
If it's only for one or some, it's not a big problem, it's a little scary if you haven't experienced love.
If you see that all the opposite sex are afraid, then there is a big problem and you have to see a psychiatrist.
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It's the third year of high school, and you should pay all your attention to the sea of questions.
It's good to treat all students equally and treat them as partners in the usual ** problems.
In the third year of high school, when most students start to notice gender differences and love feelings, there is no need to be confused.
Relax, like is like, there is no need to suppress;
However, the third year of high school must focus on academics, and try to have a more brilliant college life with people with strong academic ability.
As for your energy now, it seems to be misplaced.
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First, you tend to be shy. This may not be the case between people of the same sex, or between acquaintances. But the light is that as soon as an unfamiliar person of the opposite sex comes to greet you, you will feel very flustered.
This shows that you still don't have a lot of knowledge! The second is that your guts are too small, and you can't let go of all kinds when you play with the opposite sex! There is also a lot of ridicule, and you have simply formed a habit by yourself!
Second, you yourself have a very aversion to the opposite sex. This may have something to do with the menstrual period of your childhood when you were a child. Or maybe you have a serious cleanliness habit, and you are very flustered about the hormones emitted by the opposite sex!
It's not unreasonable to say that it has something to do with what you experienced as a child! It is possible that when you were a child, you saw something that you shouldn't see, and even when you grow up, as soon as you see the opposite sex, it will cause you to be disgusted! I think it's the psychological reason why you've been sick for a long time.
If you have time, you should see a psychiatrist!
Whatever the reason for this situation, you can take the initiative to find it and try to correct it. That's a good sign! There are simply so many things that need to be experienced in a person's life, and some things can crush your life.
But so what? Life still has to move forward, we still have to move forward! No matter what difficulties come your way, don't bow your head!
Don't look back! Walk forward with your head held high!
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