I was playing with the kid next door, isn t it na ve to think about? I am 17 years old

This is not naïve, it means that you have a childlike wish, you are with the child, the child is very pure, and the innocent with the child, your mood will also improve.

This situation may not be as childish as you think, it may be that you are loving, and you only occasionally play folding paper with children, but it is not often like this, and there is nothing wrong with relaxing once in a while.

It's good to find a childhood feeling once in a while, nothing is childish or not childish, as long as you are happy and happy.

Isn't it naïve to play with the kid next door to fold paper? I think it doesn't matter if you're 17 or 70 years old, as long as you like to do something, there's nothing to say you're older? Can't play when you're young?

His dad is right to ask you a question, she is still in school, probably hoping that you will not interfere with her too much at this time, if she successfully completes her studies, maybe you will have a chance to be together.

Like you said, when the time comes, yes, she graduates, you are together, as long as you love each other, how many parents can oppose?

However, as children, we should not be too selfish in what we do, and we should think more about what we do for adults, and think differently, so that maybe we will be more rational.

It feels like you're sane.

But sometimes love doesn't just need to be rational, if it's too rational, maybe at some point in the future we will regret it.

Remember, if you love him, don't miss her.

If you fall in love, don't let go of the opportunity.

Recklessness may make you regret it for a while.

Cowardice, but it may make you regret it for the rest of your life.

Try to hold on.

Ay! So many emotional problems. Since you love him, you have to face it with his family. Are you angry when you know your number? You are too young to take responsibility.

The reason why there is suffering in the world is that we pursue the wrong things. It's not so much that others make you miserable, it's better to say that your own cultivation is not enough. If you don't bother yourself, others will never be able to bother you.

Because of your own heart, you can't let go? The so-called letting go is to get rid of your mind of discrimination, right and wrong, gain and loss, and attachment. The Buddha said life:

If you don't forgive sentient beings, if you don't forgive sentient beings, you're suffering yourselfThose who do not have enough good fortune will often hear right and wrong; Those who have enough good fortune have never heard of right and wrong. You have to resign yourself to your fate at any time, because you are human.

You always have to forgive sentient beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they hurt you, you have to let go in order to be truly happy. Only by knowing oneself, subduing oneself, and changing oneself can we change others. When you let go, when you don't have troubles.

It only takes one sentence to destroy people, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person, please be mercifulWhen you persuade others, if you don't take into account the self-esteem of others, then the best words are useless. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him?

Never waste a second of your thinking about anyone you don't like. In this world, there is only smoothness, and there is no perfection. Fate is not to get by, to follow the path, but to do your best to obey the destiny of heaven.

When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you. Silently caring for and blessing others is an invisible form of charity. People who can imagine for others are never lonely.

Time will pass, let time flow away your troubles! If you tell a lie, you have to make up ten lies to make up for it, why bother? Don't bring your own troubles because of the foolishness of sentient beings.

Don't suffer yourself because of the ignorance of sentient beings. When others say that we are not good, there is no need to be angry or sad. We don't have to be happy to say that we are good, there is good in this bad, and there is bad in good, it depends on whether you can use it?

A stupid man who always wants others to know about him. Wise people try to understand themselves. Righteous people practice evil law, evil law is also good, evil people practice right law, right law is also evil, all idealistic creation.

If you can go with him, you are a free person in the world. I hope you will always say to yourself that when you smell the Dharma, I am the happiest person, and there is nothing else but this happiness. If you can shout "I don't need to worry about this little thing" twenty-one times a day, you will find that you have an incredible power in your heart, try it, it works.

When you hold on to something, you can only have that thing, and if you are willing to let go, you have the opportunity to choose something else. If a man's mind clings to its own ideas and refuses to let go of them, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level. It is not a blessing for people to be afraid of you, and it is not a kind of humiliation for people to bully you.

It's not someone who annoys me, it's that I annoy myself with someone's words and actions. It is natural that things in the world do not go as they wish. My wealth is not because I have a lot, but because I ask for very little.

This friend! I watched it seriously.

Your above paragraph! There are a couple of issues found!

First; You say his dad doesn't object to you, and then ask if you know what to do? Can it be understood as an indirect opposition?

Second: You repeatedly emphasize that she loves you very much, she loves you very much, and finally wrote, "She told me that our situation is not very good" I really don't understand this yet!

Does she mean that your current relationship is not very good because of his father's intervention, or is it that she has a bad relationship with the family because of you?

Third: When his dad called you, you wrote: You are very upset, and then hit ** to ask your girlfriend!

You write that she loves you very much. You "think" to her family when your time is right, just think? Or has it been discussed?

If not negotiated! What is there to tell your family about a woman who loves you very much? Why are you angry? You should be happy.

23 years old! I was also a soldier! It seems that the process of being a soldier only hones your body, not your will.

Please forgive me for speaking directly.

The last advice to you is! If you are sure that you love this woman. Then it's good to love, firm in your beliefs, don't say anything and don't know what to do, what men want is to dare to face the facts and have a clear goal.

At the same time, you have to try to get along with his family by any means necessary. After all, isn't it worth paying something for the rest of your life to be with the people you love?

What does it take to love one another? You don't need anything, but you don't want to be angry with her father, because his father is protecting his children, and there is only one way to get his father to agree.

That is to make achievements to show her father, so that he willingly agrees to give his daughter to you, and her father does not agree very simply, one, do you have money? Second, do you have the right? Three, are you powerful?

Only if you have one of them, you can, you think to yourself, do you want your girlfriend to eat pickled cabbage and rice or shark fin rice every day??

This society is a material society, a penny is difficult to defeat a hero, nothing can be done without money, only work hard and create a career, otherwise you will have no fate with this girl after all.