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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
Those who speak do not believe, and neither do those who listen.
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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In fact, this is very normal, and women will have it. The key is that you keep a good mood in this way: first of all, life is colorful.
As long as you feel each day with your heart. I'm sure you'll get better, secondly. It's about finding ways to deal with your depression, such as:
Find friends to talk to and listen to your favorite songs. and so on to distract from it. I just like to eat something when I'm angry.
Ha ha. At last. Stay away from those sorrows.
Dark things, more contact with those good. Beautiful thing. ps If it's because of relationship problems, I hope you can get out of the depression and troubles as soon as possible
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Actually, there is a reason, but she didn't tell you.
How to get along as a couple:
Think more about the other person's good, and don't always hold on to each other's faults. When couples get along with each other, don't always like to look at each other's shortcomings and ignore each other's advantages, which will not only make you unhappy, but also cause trouble to each other, thus affecting the relationship between two people. Place.
Think more from the other side's point of view. If a couple wants to have a sustainable and stable development, they must know how to consider the problem from the other party's point of view, so that the other party can see your good intentions and your attitude towards each other, so as to know how to cherish you more.
How to get off the list:
1. Expand your circle of friends.
If you just deal with a few buddies you know in the dormitory, it is very difficult to get off the single, there is no chance to contact the opposite sex at all, is it difficult for girls to take the initiative to come to the door? Therefore, if you want to get rid of singles, the top priority is to broaden your circle of friends, and it is a circle where you can get in touch with more people of the opposite sex.
For example, participate in club activities in college, join some hobby circles, and so on. In this way, not only can you show yourself to attract the opposite sex, but also have a common topic. Another example is through the school intranet, add girls from the same school, have ** and information, add what you like, chat online, you can also text messages, and slowly become familiar.
The university campus is a relatively simple environment, so it is rare to ask a girl for WeChat to be rejected. As you said, if you see something you like on the road, go directly to the door and leave a *** code, in fact, you should learn to pick up a conversation, most girls like to take the initiative like this.
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